Depends on how you were raised, I guess. I was discussing this with my grandmother the other day (she's pushing 90), and you have to understand, my grandmother is *literally* an angel, a saint, the epitome of the perfect grandmother in pretty much every single way, and a rather intelligent debater of politics as well. But, on this issue, I was blown away. She said:
"My mother taught me the wisest words: It's a man's job to try, and a woman's job to deny". I mean, I had no words. She then went on to describe what to me sounded like a lifetime of near constant sexual harassment in a number of the places she worked, made acceptable by the fact that *she* never consented and therefore, in her thinking, she was never a victim, despite telling me how uncomfortable she was made to feel, and how exhausting it was. In her mind, the victims of these men "got carried away, too impressed with powerful men, and found themselves in over their heads"...the blame was entirely on the women.
So, if that's how women of a certain age feel, and how they brought up their daughters, it's not hard to understand why these attitudes still linger today. Perhaps the next generation will be far enough removed from that kind of thinking...here's hoping.