You must be dreaming. Even though Obama gave Republicans items in both the stimulus bill and the ACA, not Republicans voted for them. They were passed by reconciliation and it would have been better had he not weakened both to appease Republicans and Blue-Dog Demcrats.
You also throw around this term "leadership," and claim Obama doesn't have any. Well, over the objection of a Republican majority,
he got the Bush tax-cuts on the wealthy people like you to end. He got Obamacare passed,
that gave 20 million formerly uninsured Americans insurance. He righted the economy, over Republican opposition,
etc. If that isn't leadership, you don't know what the word means.The Republicans took back the House in 2010 (from Dems 2006 win of it) mainly because they advertised false claims about the ACA, especially about "death panels," that didn't exist. The 2014 loss of the Senate was mainly a loss because far more Democratic seats were up in Republican stronghold states. In 2016, Democrats gained seats, just not a majority. In 2012, Democrats won seats in the House and Senate. 2014, even though the Republicans won more seats, more people voted for Democrats by a wide margin. Thanks gerrymandering!
I don't have to. Business Insider did it for me over four years ago:
Charts That Should Get Obama Reelected - Business Insider