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4 states face gay marriage showdown in Cincinnati

I feel the same way about straight people overly demonstrating their affections in public

I'm no prude either, so I look away. Easy.

The only straight people I see doing that nonsense are teenagers or drunk folk in bars...

I'm sorry but some of the gay activists can put on a pseudo-porno show..... With the kids I just laugh and say to myself "I remember when I was 16" but homosexuals/lesbians making out as adults in public.... That is a big WTF to me - as it would be for a straight couple.. I view their public affection as a political statement.

Trust me I would shake my head at a straight couple getting fond in public - and I'm far from a prude.

Don't get me wrong, kisses are fine - they're wonderful but the whole ass grabbing and obvious tongue nonsense ..... It's just not cool and certainly not adult behavior straight or gay...
 
That's an awful lot of words that aren't in the constitution that you're making up. Let's start with "inherited a good body of law". You mean English common law? Are you suggesting that another country's laws are binding in the US? And why would English common law refer to travel between states? England doesn't have states. Meanwhile, the ability by congress to regulate interstate commerce doesn't guarantee anyone the right to anything. Every court case that established protection for rights that aren't listed in the bill of rights came about from a state law stripping people of those rights and the federal government protecting them. Why do you put such blind faith in states? And why is it that the only complaints about supreme court authority is when their actions protect our rights? Don't we want more rights? Don't we want as much liberty as possible without infringing on anyone else's? How can restricting marriage possibly fit that maxim?

Actually no, none of that is made up. And yes, we did inherit some English common law. Your post, which I was responding to, had a laundry list of items. No, you're correct, English common law does not guarantee freedom of movement. The US Constitution does, between states. Again the states' constitutions protect freedom of movement.

But your major blind spot appears to be that you don't recognize we are a union of states, without the states there is no federal. The rights not enumerated in the US Constitution falls directly to the states and the people, not the feds. That's 10th amendment 101.

And of course folks only complain about the SCOTUS when it commits hari kari on the constitution and don't say a peep when they are otherwise doing their job. Do I really need to explain why that is?
 
Why should they be involved in the first place. All the federal benefits can revolve, like taxes, around how many people you support. This would actually make those systems far more fair and equal.

As to that last, it's the throw in of "other characteristics" that doesn't work. I like living in a state with no sales tax, so I do. It's one of the wonders of being a union of states. There will be enough states that do license homosexual marriage.

There are different ways that we support other people. And only marriage recognizes that spouses share their assets, expenses, and most of what they own, along with much more. This is why they have a choice unlike others. It isn't even guaranteed that filing married (either way) will benefit a couple nor that it will be a burden on the tax system. In fact, until recently, many couples together paid more being married than they did being two single people. This is still true for some married couples.

What part of the "other characteristics" doesn't work? There is still legal, constitutional ways to restrict marriage based on those "other characteristics" so long as the government can meet the very low bar of showing that those restrictions further a legitimate state interest. This is why we allow restrictions based on mental capacity, age, number of spouses, location/residence, and close relations. However, we have also struck down restrictions that could not be shown to further a legitimate state interest, including restrictions based on owing child support or being incarcerated (with a chance of eventually being released). There will not be enough licenses for marriages because people cannot always live in a certain state. We are a single country, not a collection of small countries. States must abide by the US Constitution, including not treating people unequally under the law. (BTW, same sex marriage restrictions don't fall under the "other characteristics" category, it would fall under the "sex" category, since that is what the restriction is based off of, sex/gender of those wishing to enter into the marriage.)
 
OK, but if it offers those benefits and legal protections in marriage, then it is discrimination to deny them to gays that want to marry.

Not unconstitutional discrimination, but the sort we do every day as part of life on the planet. We discriminate between what we think is bad versus what we think is good. What appeals to us and what does not.
 
Yes it is about gender because it prevents 2 people of the same gender from entering into a particular contract.

A straight couple doesnt have to be in love or attracted to marry, neither does a gay couple.

It's not about the straight couple's orientation either legally (in the context of your statement).

No, it's solely about sexual orientation. But you would know this if you had been following the SCOTUS decisions. Both men and women have equal access to marriage. Unless you have another gender up your sleeve there. :mrgreen:
 
It is in some states.

And there you finally arrive at the point. It's a state issue, that should be decided by the individual states.
 
As it turns out, if you don't like seeing gay people being gay in public, that's your problem, not society's problem.


Seriously?

I could call a chick right now and start making out with her right in front of the gas station across the street, and the cops would be called in 2 seconds.

Of course with gays - that would be discrimination.... Then again I'm an adult and I have no desire whatsoever to even try such a social experiment, however when I was a kid and being the lil pimp I was I was ALWAYS told to knock it off in public - in what universe do gays get special treatment? because some people are scared of being called bigots?

Do we allow anarchy out of fear of being labeled allegedly negatively? of course, considering my views of government and the progressives who love to give me shame.
 
Let's start with the easy one. By the time this is all done, it's quite likely that sexual orientation will be a protected class.


Perhaps, but what should it be protected against, and why should it be?


Second, SSM bans have thus far been struck down on the basis that they don't even meet the rational basis test, so it doesn't even have to be a protected class.


Ah, but this is the crux isn't it. By definition, a legislative body forming laws that restrict, or limit actions are rational on their face. To claim otherwise is utter nonsense. The burden then shifts to show why it is irrational. The SSM lawyers argue that this irrationality is based on gender discrimination, being essentially, that men cannot marry men, and women cannot marry women. This shifts the burden to the legislation to show why, insodoing, society benefits as a result. This is where we are; as of thus far no brilliant lawyers in defense of traditional marriage have been able to show why one form of marriage is superior, and naturally conducive as the proper form in which societies must embrace, to the exclusion of all others. I put-forth, as I have many time before that heterosexual marriage IS indeed superior when one clears away the muddy waters that have purposefully made this issue more complex than it has to be.

Consider that sexual orientation for all of its many definitions really comes down to one's attraction to another person for the goal of sexual gratification. Sure, there's romance, desire, and these things are dictated by physiologic and sociologic responses, but at the heart, we define our sexual orientation by who we want to bang. Now, as individuals we are selfish sexual creatures, and we choose rather carefully (At least we think we do and that's all that matters) our sexual partners, but we remain selfish in that we are committed to our own sexual gratification. Ideally, both individuals engaged in sexual behavior having the same goal reach the same sexual gratification together. Some argue (Quite unconvincingly I might add) that these acts of sexual behavior are exclusive to sexual orientation, meaning, that they are not one in the same, that sexual orientation is a state of mind, and I will concede that notion, however, I also point out that any state of mind is merely a state in any given moment where one is guided by an emotion or stimulus that directs one's energy into accomplishing a goal. In this context, sexual orientation at any given moment, is governed by the sexual thought behavior we envision when we think about what it is, that at that particular moment, moves us into a position where we can successfully engage in sexual copulation. When we're not thinking about sex, our emotions are no different physiologically, and or sociologically than what we experience when in the company of non-sexual friends.

Breaking it all down, no matter what sexual orientation you are, your sexual orientation is predicated on the SEX you are hoping to engage in, when in perfect company. All other definitions are rejected logically for they, if not adding to the goal of sexual copulation are immaterial to the truthfulness of the defining characteristics. I am yet to hear a compelling argument that refutes this sentiment.

Therefore, all sexual orientations are by definition ultimately about sexual activity, or behavior. Gender, by extension, is merely the sex of the individual by which you wish to sexually copulate. Heterosexuals sexually copulate with those of the opposite gender, homosexuals, with those of the same gender, bi-sexuals copulate with both sexes. Some argue that marriage isn’t about children, and that some marriages by choice or by-design do not produce children, but these are exceptions, and rare one’s at that, and no matter how the liberal mentality wishes the extreme exception to the rule should vastly impact the general rule, it matters little to most of us that have common sense.

So the question is, does any legislative body meet the rational basis test concerning whether it has the authority to hold one form of coupling over another? The answer is yes, if one considers that it is not radical to hold the viewpoint that a coupling by two opposite gendered individuals is superior to one that is same-gendered. It is equally rational for a society to recognize that parenting, fatherhood and motherhood are not merely who produces and egg, and who provides the sperm. I know the anti-SSM folks have allowed the liberals to carry and frame the debate this way, but any thinking person would naturally reject this line of thinking, especially those of us who are parents that equally identify with our biologically consistent children. Rather, parenting, fatherhood and motherhood are not intangibles, or immaterial to marriages that produce children. They are essential to them. Our mixing of DNA is not complete at conception, our roles are not done, our imprints are not complete until we have shared not only our DNA, but our life’s experiences, our knowledge, our uniqueness that the offspring intrinsically and relates to as his or her own, in such a way that only a child born of two biological parents can offer.

Because what I have just claimed is difficult to articulate, and even harder to justify, since every parent child relationship IS so unique and enduring, we fall for the trap that, in all its complexity, we miss the forest for the trees. A homosexual marriage cannot intrinsically produce a child together, that much is true, and although they can in alternatives methods, the exception should not justify altering the rule. In this case the law.

Even if as some say children don’t matter, then the question becomes, well then what does matter to society, and why should we care about marriage or regulating it, or anything at all? Why not let God or YOUR higher power handle it? The answer is that it really is about the children, and THAT is the ONLY tangible reason for any interference or preference society and governments should have concerning marriage. If we’re judging by what one form of marriage can produce, and that happens to be why we’re in the marriage business at all, then I submit for review that heterosexual marriage IS indeed superior to homosexual marriage in almost every conceivable way, and as such, it is most certainly rational for a legislative body to comfortably conclude that it hold one with higher regard for the posterity of a nation, and the survival of the species.

Again, I will reject any argument that tries to highlight the exception as somehow justified in altering the rule, or dismissing that, because of the exception, somehow a legislative body cannot quite comfortably, and rationally make a law limiting marriage to a singular form to the exclusion of all others. That is not to say that other forms of unions cannot be accommodated, but the stature of marriage belongs to those that offer society the path of least resistance.

I wouldn’t pay you a nickel for your explanation on Due Process, to all the other stuff you posted, blah.. ;)


Tim-
 
Seriously?

I could call a chick right now and start making out with her right in front of the gas station across the street, and the cops would be called in 2 seconds.

Of course with gays - that would be discrimination.... Then again I'm an adult and I have no desire whatsoever to even try such a social experiment, however when I was a kid and being the lil pimp I was I was ALWAYS told to knock it off in public - in what universe do gays get special treatment? because some people are scared of being called bigots?

Do we allow anarchy out of fear of being labeled allegedly negatively? of course, considering my views of government and the progressives who love to give me shame.

LMAO!!!
thats funny.

I see couples PERIOD make out all the time.
Fantasy is fun
 
I could call a chick right now and start making out with her right in front of the gas station across the street, and the cops would be called in 2 seconds.

I really doubt that. For several reasons.

Of course with gays - that would be discrimination.... Then again I'm an adult and I have no desire whatsoever to even try such a social experiment, however when I was a kid and being the lil pimp I was I was ALWAYS told to knock it off in public - in what universe do gays get special treatment? because some people are scared of being called bigots?

Do we allow anarchy out of fear of being labeled allegedly negatively? of course, considering my views of government and the progressives who love to give me shame.

No one is talking about special treatment, just the same treatment that heterosexuals get. And it's kind of sad that you're more scared of being called a bigot than of actually being a bigot. And that you think not discriminating against people is akin to anarchy. But here's the thing. Your views don't matter. Not unless you have evidence and a compelling argument to back them up. And you never do. You never get past "I don't like it". You will never make any kind of difference so long as you keep doing this.

Perhaps, but what should it be protected against, and why should it be?

Against unjust discrimination. Which is what we're doing, because as a society, we consider unjust discrimination to be wrong.

Ah, but this is the crux isn't it. By definition, a legislative body forming laws that restrict, or limit actions are rational on their face. To claim otherwise is utter nonsense. The burden then shifts to show why it is irrational. The SSM lawyers argue that this irrationality is based on gender discrimination, being essentially, that men cannot marry men, and women cannot marry women. This shifts the burden to the legislation to show why, insodoing, society benefits as a result. This is where we are; as of thus far no brilliant lawyers in defense of traditional marriage have been able to show why one form of marriage is superior, and naturally conducive as the proper form in which societies must embrace, to the exclusion of all others. I put-forth, as I have many time before that heterosexual marriage IS indeed superior when one clears away the muddy waters that have purposefully made this issue more complex than it has to be.

Okay, a lot of this is just straight up nonsense, but let's start with the most important one. The mere fact that a legislative body passes a law does NOT make it constitutional, nor ensure that it is rationally related to a legitimate government purpose. That's why we have constitutional tests in the first place. So, I ask you, what legitimate purpose is the government trying to further by prohibiting SSM, and how does the prohibition further that interest? Otherwise, all you have is the "gays can't have babies" argument, which doesn't matter. Married couples have no obligation to physically reproduce, and couples that choose not to have children or to only adopt children are perfectly legitimate.

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There are different ways that we support other people. And only marriage recognizes that spouses share their assets, expenses, and most of what they own, along with much more. This is why they have a choice unlike others. It isn't even guaranteed that filing married (either way) will benefit a couple nor that it will be a burden on the tax system. In fact, until recently, many couples together paid more being married than they did being two single people. This is still true for some married couples.

What part of the "other characteristics" doesn't work? There is still legal, constitutional ways to restrict marriage based on those "other characteristics" so long as the government can meet the very low bar of showing that those restrictions further a legitimate state interest. This is why we allow restrictions based on mental capacity, age, number of spouses, location/residence, and close relations. However, we have also struck down restrictions that could not be shown to further a legitimate state interest, including restrictions based on owing child support or being incarcerated (with a chance of eventually being released). There will not be enough licenses for marriages because people cannot always live in a certain state. We are a single country, not a collection of small countries. States must abide by the US Constitution, including not treating people unequally under the law. (BTW, same sex marriage restrictions don't fall under the "other characteristics" category, it would fall under the "sex" category, since that is what the restriction is based off of, sex/gender of those wishing to enter into the marriage.)

The other characteristics dodge doesn't work even in the unconstitutional and wonky system of protected classes the SCOTUS ginned up. "Other characteristics" isn't one of the protected classes, the classes the SCOTUS is willing to rewrite the constitution for. Neither is sexual orientation as much as you may like it to be. Gender is, but you can't get to where you want on that horse.

It's a state licensing issue and it only has to comport with the state's constitution.
 
My bet if SCOTUS rules at all it will be by 2016 and then equal rights will be national.IM so happy and proud to actually witness this wrong be righted.
I laugh so hard at the "activist and corrupt judges nonsense" its complete BS that nobody buys. A desperate attempt to try and rally the weak, bigoted and or oppressors.
 
And there you finally arrive at the point. It's a state issue, that should be decided by the individual states.


Presently it is a Tenth Amendment issue - I just don't like the idea of government getting involved in others personal business - and who one screws or loves is their own business not the governments...

The interesting part is that many states have never banned gay marriage, and to add insult to injury there is nothing stopping anyone from engaging in a civil contract (which is what marriage is), hence the "gay marriage" argument is completely moot. Gay's just want "government endorsement/acceptance" as if that will somehow change peoples minds on the issue.
 
Men can't marry men, is equally limiting as women cannot marry women. Their gender is the limiting criterion, but, they are both equally limited based on this criteria. Now, if men could marry both men and women, and women could only marry men, then you would have an equal protection violation, but that is not the case.
This same logic was applied to interracial marriage bans. Everyone had equal rights to marry someone of the same race. The logic was rejected, because that's not how the equal protection clause works. Race and gender are protected classifications. Any distinction, whether or not "equally applied," must demonstrate this interest. Anti-equality folks have failed to demonstrate this "important state interest."
Homosexuals, and now polygamists are saying that the limitations, although equally limiting both genders are unfair when one of these genders prefers that of the same gender in marriage. That is a new right, one that does not exist, and the states, and their legislative bodies have full power to decide. In sum; the courts would be making law, and have been re-writing law in order to acquiesce to the homosexual crowd. What the USSC should rule, is that it has no power to write new laws, or create rights where none exist, and should strike down all previous rulings on legislative limitations on marriage and refer them back to the respective legislative branches.
Gender as a protected classification is not new.
Polygamy is not a distinction of race or gender, so polygamy bans likely don't fall under intermediate or strict constitutional scrutiny. The lowest tier scrutiny would then apply, polygamy bans must only be rationally related to a legitimate state interest. I'd ponder that interest, if I cared to. But I don't, because other peoples' marriages really aren't my business. If six men and nine women want to be in a giant marriage, what the hell does that have to do with me?

THAT is how it should be ruled, IMO.

Tim-

Well, it's not correct legal reasoning, and that's why not one single court since Windsor has ruled as such.

I'd ask a more general philosophical question:
Why should your moral disapproval be reason alone to restrict my individual liberty?
 
1.)Presently it is a Tenth Amendment issue - I just don't like the idea of government getting involved in others personal business - and who one screws or loves is their own business not the governments...

2.)The interesting part is that many states have never banned gay marriage, and to add insult to injury there is nothing stopping anyone from engaging in a civil contract (which is what marriage is), hence the "gay marriage" argument is completely moot.

3.) Gay's just want "government endorsement/acceptance" as if that will somehow change peoples minds on the issue.

1.) no, its already been determined in court many times that its not
2.) you do this so often and i love it, you prove many times how severely uneducated you are on this topic. this is not true at all in fact the majority of states did so and many of them banned domestic partnerships and civil unions and some banned ANY similar SS contracts
3.) since #2 is false number 3 is even more BS lmao

facts win again
 
OK, but if it offers those benefits and legal protections in marriage, then it is discrimination to deny them to gays that want to marry.

Who would want to get married in the first place?

That just baffles my mind....

Furthermore it appears that gays get divorced twice as much as heterosexuals (or at least cant maintain a relationship as often).
 
Presently it is a Tenth Amendment issue - I just don't like the idea of government getting involved in others personal business - and who one screws or loves is their own business not the governments...

The interesting part is that many states have never banned gay marriage, and to add insult to injury there is nothing stopping anyone from engaging in a civil contract (which is what marriage is), hence the "gay marriage" argument is completely moot. Gay's just want "government endorsement/acceptance" as if that will somehow change peoples minds on the issue.

Marriage is a specific contract that is barred to same-sex couples in many states. It provides many benefits and rights at both state and Federal levels, and not all of these benefits and rights can be duplicated via a different private contract. (even civil unions don't get all of them)

For example, I cannot be compelled to testify against my spouse in a criminal hearing, and any communications between me and my spouse are assumed to be private and confidential. This is not something a civil contract can duplicate.
 
Who would want to get married in the first place?

That just baffles my mind....

Who would want to buy a pickup truck in the first place? I don't personally want one, and I personally disapprove of them, so I want the state to ban them.

Furthermore it appears that gays get divorced twice as much as heterosexuals (or at least cant maintain a relationship as often).
Citation needed.
 
My bet if SCOTUS rules at all it will be by 2016 and then equal rights will be national.IM so happy and proud to actually witness this wrong be righted.
I laugh so hard at the "activist and corrupt judges nonsense" its complete BS that nobody buys. A desperate attempt to try and rally the weak, bigoted and or oppressors.

Probably June of next year, actually. SCOTUS will decide whether or not to hear the Utah case later this year, and if they choose to hear it they'll be deciding it before the end of June 2015.

By July 1, 2015, this will be over. Bank on it.
 
if its a contract it involves government. Marriage is already a civil contract. Government will be the one protecting it. Without government there is no contract.
if people want to try and tweak the contract thats fine by me go for it but government will always be involved, no way around it. You very own example has the government requirements.

yeah, but in reality there is very little "reality" to a marriage contract as they are allowed now, it's all pretty vague and married people are treated differently legally with tax benefits and other estate type benefits that are not inherent in any other contract and instead must be detailed within the contract specifically. I'm suggesting that "marriage" should be treated like any other contract, with details and no particular government benefits just because of the contract. If a wife is a dependent then taxably she'd be handled that way, if she isn't a dependent and has her own income then she files separately, and the higher income earner has the children as dependents. The idea that just because you're married you should pay less tax doesn't seem right particularly when even single income couples tend to have a better income/expense ratio per person than a single person.
 
Perhaps, but what should it be protected against, and why should it be?





Ah, but this is the crux isn't it. By definition, a legislative body forming laws that restrict, or limit actions are rational on their face.
Tim-

Wow. Now that's ****in authoritarian right there. "You have to prove why you should have a right" is pretty antithetical to American values.
 
yeah, but in reality there is very little "reality" to a marriage contract as they are allowed now, it's all pretty vague and married people are treated differently legally with tax benefits and other estate type benefits that are not inherent in any other contract and instead must be detailed within the contract specifically. I'm suggesting that "marriage" should be treated like any other contract, with details and no particular government benefits just because of the contract. If a wife is a dependent then taxably she'd be handled that way, if she isn't a dependent and has her own income then she files separately, and the higher income earner has the children as dependents. The idea that just because you're married you should pay less tax doesn't seem right particularly when even single income couples tend to have a better income/expense ratio per person than a single person.

and you are welcome to feel that way, none of it has to do with equal rights and this topic not does it involve getting government out of marriage which cant be done.
also its not a WIN or less taxes all the times, my neighbors got divorced so it would be easier to sent thier kid to college. :shrug:

but again all meaningless to this topic of equal rights.
 
Probably June of next year, actually. SCOTUS will decide whether or not to hear the Utah case later this year, and if they choose to hear it they'll be deciding it before the end of June 2015.

By July 1, 2015, this will be over. Bank on it.

that would be awesome IMO but im being cautious, i wouldn't "bank on it" but if i had to pick the sooner the better.

Its repulsive that my fellow american are denied equal rights and have been for this long.
 
and you are welcome to feel that way, none of it has to do with equal rights and this topic not does it involve getting government out of marriage which cant be done.
also its not a WIN or less taxes all the times, my neighbors got divorced so it would be easier to sent thier kid to college. :shrug:

but again all meaningless to this topic of equal rights.

All I'm agreeing to is that having government not handle marriage as an exclusive contract, as suggested by another poster, then SSM issue could be solved as well. I'm sorry you don't like it when I agree with a different point of view. However, it is not outside the realm of the discussion of creating equality for SS and OS marriages. One can either upgrade SS or downgrade OS, either achieves the same thing, equality.
 
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