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New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room[W:829]

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MaggieD said:
Whoever told you life was fair was lying.
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but...but....but...I thought we were all supposed to be "equal" and have "equal" protection under the law. I guess they lied about that too.....

and then people wonder why there are so many deadbeat dads out there. treat them like **** and give them no rights and then act surprised that they aren't happy about having to pay....
 
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MaggieD said:
Whoever told you life was fair was lying.
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I need to remember that line next time I read about women complaining about labor market inequity, not enough women in sciences, blah blah blah.
 
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Henrin said:
So the man should do nothing in turn? Yeah, I'm not feeling that.
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He did something, he went to court and lost. He should be a decent loser. I notice many of your ilk find it very difficult to accept your losses. I look forward to y'all struggling with more losses to your antiquated way of viewing the right's of others.
 
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Henrin said:
That is because society treats fathers like filth and disrespects them at very turn. The sad thing is that this man felt like any man feels that has gotten to a point where he looking forward to meeting his child. People forget that this doesn't just mean that he wants to hold the child in his arms and say hello, but also that he wants to witness and be part of its life and part of that means being there when the child is born. This woman robbed the man of that experience and for really no good reason. Like it or not she slept with the man and carried his child to term and she should be decent enough to allow him to be in the room. Whatever though, I already said I was done with this topic. Apparently, its fine to make the man a servant of the woman by child support, but it's not permissible to just allow the man to witness his own child's birth. How incredibly backwards.
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considering the fact that nearly half the kids born are to unwed mothers (72% if you are black). this woman should have been happy that the father wanted to be involved in his kid's life.
 
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RiverDad said:
I need to remember that line next time I read about women complaining about labor market inequity, not enough women in sciences, blah blah blah.
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but...but....but.... :2bigcry: that's DIFFERENT :2bigcry: ......
 
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Summerwind said:
He did something, he went to court and lost. He should be a decent loser. I notice many of your ilk find it very difficult to accept your losses. I look forward to y'all struggling with more losses to your antiquated way of viewing the right's of others.
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Constitutions were changed via referendum to prohibit homosexual "marriage" and that certainly didn't stop the whiners from trying to overturn the outcome.
 
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Summerwind said:
He did something, he went to court and lost. He should be a decent loser. I notice many of your ilk find it very difficult to accept your losses. I look forward to y'all struggling with more losses to your antiquated way of viewing the right's of others.
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Fine. He lost.

He has every "right" to make sure she loses too. I personally enjoy selfish bitches getting their come-uppins.
 
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OscarB63 said:
considering the fact that nearly half the kids born are to unwed mothers (72% if you are black). this woman should have been happy that the father wanted to be involved in his kid's life.
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Maybe he's a jerk. Did you ever think of that? Maybe the woman doesn't want to have anything to do with him, never mind have him in the room with her while she's giving birth.
 
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AGENT J said:
awesome, its great you wanted to experience that much, you were allowed to and you got to!
this guy will have to wait till he is allowed to come in or the baby is moved to another room :shrug:
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yep. he should just say "yessah, massah" and mind his place at the back of the bus. it's all good as long as he keeps writing those support checks.....
 
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ChrisL said:
Maybe he's a jerk. Did you ever think of that? Maybe the woman doesn't want to have anything to do with him, never mind have him in the room with her while she's giving birth.
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I'll bet she still wants those child support checks though, don't she?

Edit: and maybe she's just vindictive. did you ever think of that? of course you didn't......
 
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OscarB63 said:
1.)yep. he should just say "yessah, massah" and mind his place at the back of the bus.
2.) it's all good as long as he keeps writing those support checks.....
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1.) doesnt matter what he says or what he minds, he has no right to be in the room :shrug:
2.) this topic isnt about support checks and has nothing to do with it
 
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Summerwind said:
He did something, he went to court and lost. He should be a decent loser. I notice many of your ilk find it very difficult to accept your losses. I look forward to y'all struggling with more losses to your antiquated way of viewing the right's of others.
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Yes, and she still doesn't realize how she is in the wrong. He needs to do something else.
 
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AGENT J said:
1.) doesnt matter what he says or what he minds, he has no right to be in the room :shrug:
2.) this topic isnt about support checks and has nothing to do with it
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yep, it's all about whatever she wants and to hell with him, as long as she can keep gouging him for support.

tis like I always say: she gets all the rights and he gets all the responsibility
 
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ChrisL said:
Maybe he's a jerk. Did you ever think of that? Maybe the woman doesn't want to have anything to do with him, never mind have him in the room with her while she's giving birth.
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Showing up in the delivery room for the birth of your child is a real dick move.
 
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OscarB63 said:
1.)yep, it's all about whatever she wants and to hell with him,
2.)as long as she can keep gouging him for support.
3.)tis like I always say: she gets all the rights and he gets all the responsibility
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1.) you are still severely confused and wrong, her "wants" are meaningless just like his wants, its about peoples "rights"
2.) this opinion has nothing to do with the topic
3.) nope they both have rights
 
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Gipper said:
Showing up in the delivery room for the birth of your child is a real dick move.
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Do we know anything about their relationship prior to the day of delivery? No? Didn't think so.
 
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OscarB63 said:
yep, it's all about whatever she wants and to hell with him, as long as she can keep gouging him for support.

tis like I always say: she gets all the rights and he gets all the responsibility
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Again, nobody has a "right" to be in the delivery room. Get a grip.
 
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Gipper said:
Fine. He lost.

He has every "right" to make sure she loses too. I personally enjoy selfish bitches getting their come-uppins.
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How do you know she's selfish? You don't know anything about it, really. You are just jumping to unfounded conclusions. She could have good reasons for wanting to keep him away.
 
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ChrisL said:
Do we know anything about their relationship prior to the day of delivery? No? Didn't think so.
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I know something about their relationship after the day of delivery.
 
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Gipper said:
I know something about their relationship after the day of delivery.
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You don't know anything.
 
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ChrisL said:
How do you know she's selfish? You don't know anything about it, really. You are just jumping to unfounded conclusions. She could have good reasons for wanting to keep him away.
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Short of "deadly communicable disease" or "he killed a dude", I doubt you could come up with a good enough reason.
 
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ChrisL said:
Again, nobody has a "right" to be in the delivery room. Get a grip.
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again, I never said the father does. that's the problem. he has no "rights" when it comes to his children.
 
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ChrisL said:
How do you know she's selfish? You don't know anything about it, really. You are just jumping to unfounded conclusions. She could have good reasons for wanting to keep him away.
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how do you know he's a jerk? talk about jumping to conclusions. but, I guess it is somehow "DIFFERENT" when you do it.......
 
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OscarB63 said:
again, I never said the father does. that's the problem. he has no "rights" when it comes to his children.
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Sure he does. He can have visitation rights. He can even fight for custody. Like I said, I babysat for a guy who had custody of all 3 of his children. The wife lost custody in court.
 
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