Harry Guerrilla
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Honestly - I think it's a bit worse to reject children you LOVE - how can anything break that love?
I have four children - two fathers - and nothing - NOTHING - would ever make me love them less or turn away from them. There's nothing they could ever say or do. They could hate me - hell - they could probably murder their father or turn into psychos and kill kids in school and somehow I know I'd still ****ing love them any damned way.
Because that love might get sidelined by crazy **** - but it can never break.
Did he ever love them? OR did they just have the ****tiest family ever and hang on for far too damn long - cheating over and over on her part sounds like they were all just living a sham and no one was vested in it emotionally . . . so why did they stay together?
Ugh! What a mind**** . . . and who gets it in the end? The children - which is just horrifically tragic.
I don't think I could stop loving my children, even if I found out one or both, weren't mine.
With all that said, I think I'd need a good bit of counseling.
In my opinion, infidelity should be considered spousal abuse.