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The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar

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There are PDFs of this book you can find with a Google search. The premise of the book is that Western women consider men as appliances, generally an ATM machine, but sometimes a tire changer or a forklift. It mentions other ways things are looked at by a woman's point of view. For example a woman might flirt and signal interest in the married man next door not because she is attracted to him, but rather to annoy his wife.

If a captive dolphin has learned to do a trick well, its trainer throws it a fish. Because the dolphin wants to eat, it will do whatever is asked of it. Man, however, since he earns money, is quite capable of providing his own food. It would be impossible to bribe him in this way. He would, in fact, be above bribery altogether were it not for one basic male need which has to be satisfied: the need for physical contact with a woman's body. This need is so strong, and its fulfillment gives man such intense pleasure, that one suspects that it may be the prime reason for his voluntary enslavement to woman. His longing for subjection may even be a facet of his sexual make-up.
 
Someone needs to get laid............
 
Someone needs to get laid............

I get laid all the time. I'm just amazed that it took learning two foreign languages to make it happen. It may look the way you suggest from the residual trauma from my past unilingual life.
 
Here's another excerpt:

For contemporary society to survive at all, men must believe in truth. They do the work, and no practical, i.e., logical, system can function on lies. In the highly developed system of contemporary society, where all labor is divided, each man must be able to work with, and rely on, the other. If men were to take to lying when the moment seemed opportune, say in matters such as train schedules, freighters' capacities, or the amount of fuel left in an airplane's tank, the effect on our commercial system would be disastrous. Within a very short time there would be complete chaos. Women, however, can lie with a clear conscience. They are not involved in the process of work, so their lies will harm only one person – usually the husband. And, if it is not discovered, it is not a lie at all – it is “feminine guile.” The only crime that does not come under this heading is physical unfaithfulness, which a man will not forgive. As a man has been conditioned by women's self-abasement, it seems natural to him that she should use guile, weak and dependent creature that she is, as the only way in which she can hope to guide this powerful, sex-obsessed giant, this unfortunate, wretched “animal.” It is no wonder that women, having proved guile a success, talk quite openly about it. You will read about it in one of their favorite media, women's magazines. Mothers hand it out as advice to their daughters. Why not? It is quite justified, since all their comfort depends on it, for they are frequently forced to exploit the same man, first the mother's husband and later, perhaps, if the mother lives under the same roof, the daughter's husband. After all, their whole future comfort depends on whether he comes to heel.
 
I get laid all the time. I'm just amazed that it took learning two foreign languages to make it happen. It may look the way you suggest from the residual trauma from my past unilingual life.

Getting laid on a regular basis should help with the PTSD. If that's not enough, try therapy and/or meds. Hanging out in incel land will just make you nuttier.
 
Getting laid on a regular basis should help with the PTSD. If that's not enough, try therapy and/or meds. Hanging out in incel land will just make you nuttier.

Yeah, nothing to add just thought it should be said again.
 
Getting laid on a regular basis should help with the PTSD. If that's not enough, try therapy and/or meds. Hanging out in incel land will just make you nuttier.

If they want to be Incels, that contradicts the involuntary part. ANY man that is desperate enough can spend time in a place like Caracas. He will find a seemingly endless line of women happy to exchange intimacy for being taken care of. He doesn't even need to resort to explicit prostitution. If a guy is THAT frustrated, the danger is inconsequential. I would rather see an "Incel" go to Caracas than to shoot up a convenience store in Toronto. A slum dweller getting her pantry stocked is a far superior outcome than people dying in a convenience store.
 
If they want to be Incels, that contradicts the involuntary part. ANY man that is desperate enough can spend time in a place like Caracas. He will find a seemingly endless line of women happy to exchange intimacy for being taken care of. He doesn't even need to resort to explicit prostitution. If a guy is THAT frustrated, the danger is inconsequential. I would rather see an "Incel" go to Caracas than to shoot up a convenience store in Toronto. A slum dweller getting her pantry stocked is a far superior outcome than people dying in a convenience store.

Here's a freebie:

This is something I actually got on a fortune cookie:
"A girlfriend is like a fine bottle of wine; a wife is like a bottle of vinegar."

That did not amuse my fiance (now wife).
 
Here's a freebie:

This is something I actually got on a fortune cookie:
"A girlfriend is like a fine bottle of wine; a wife is like a bottle of vinegar MILK."

That did not amuse my fiance (now wife).

I fixed it for ya'!
 
I fixed it for ya'!

I remembered later - I screwed the "wife" part up. It was :(A girlfriend is like a bottle of fine wine;) "a wife is like an empty wine bottle."

That was in a fortune cookie. Seriously.:roll:
 
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