No, your view and soylentgreen's view are the same or similar; my view is different.
Secular blasphemy, as I am using the term, is not incitement to harm. You and soylentgreen have misinterpreted my use of the term as incitement to harm. I am talking about speech that disparages but does not incite to harm. That's what I mean by secular blasphemy.
If someone in a liberal democracy today states that "X (plug in a member of a protected class, or the entire class) is Y (plug in a strong pejorative, a maligning of some kind, an expression of dislike or even hatred, an offensive word or name for X or members of X), the one expressing himself in this manner is treated (in the press, in social media, in politically correct company) as a blasphemer.
Whereas if someone in a liberal democracy today states that "X (plug in a God or religion) is Y (plug in a strong pejorative, a maligning of some kind, an expression of dislike or even hatred, an offensive word or name), the one expressing himself in this manner is not treated as a blasphemer, and what's more the whole idea that blasphemy in this sense should be taken seriously is mocked in liberal democracy today.
In short, we can malign God and religion, but we cannot malign a protected class or its members.
Does this clear the matter up for you?