Well that was easier than I thought it was going to be. I submitted a link to all of the individual state laws. If you had read them, then you could not make those assertions because they are all very clear. States vary but many states explicitly recognize the unborn as an individual. They also specify that the only time those laws are not valid are in the cases of voluntary abortion. Specifically.
As far as the extended definition of homicide, I appreciate it but we are specifically talking about murder and not self defense.
I have not addressed your dog example because it has nothing to do with anything we are talking about besides your opinion that unborn children are property likes dogs and should be treated as such. Many states disagree with you on that point. I don't compare apples to oranges, or should I say , humans to pets. I "own" several children but I am pretty sure that killing them would be frowned upon. On the other hand, if I kill my dog, it is up in the air whether I am charged or not. But if a dog was to attack one my children, I would not hesitate to kill it and I seriously doubt I would be charged. Big difference.
I am not sure what it matters but I am a wife. I don't have one. I control my body and do not allow people to illegally infringe upon my rights. My personal opinions on abortion are just that, personal. I do not share them nor do I use them in debate settings. My arguments in this thread, again, are simply concerning the hypocrisy of our laws. I have provided the facts that undeniably show the reasoning behind my problem.
It is completely up to you whether you decide to read the laws or not, but I have provided them and they are very clear and detailed and answer all of your questions.