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My kids were in high school, and I lived 10 mins away. So what are you trying to say, that I'm a deadbeat? Dude, tell me about your family situation. There's a lot more to this story that would not shed a good light on her, but we'll keep it basic. Yeah, she's a professional with 25 years of work experience paid a professional level salary. My point is that whoever doesn't have custody, gets no say in how that money is spent.
#1: I'm not a dude.
#2: I didnt even imply you were a deadbeat
#3: if she's also working then she has $ of her own to spend on what she wants...how do you know it's 'your child support?'
#4: yes I was/am curious why you didnt ask for more custodial involvement but of course that's your business
#5: I agree and have no issues with the non-custodial parents having more control over the child's expenses
#6: to not take this thread off-topic, this is about men, not married, who get a woman pregnant and then want to opt out of any financial (or other) accountability for the kid, if there ends up being one.