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I won't argue any of that. Just that this thread reminded me of 8th grade. We had a girl with down syndrome come to our class midway through the school year and I was judgmental of her at first. Which I really regretted later, because as I soon saw, she was the single nicest person in my entire class, never mean or judgmental as other 'normal' kids are. And she was always happy it seemed. To think of mothers killing people like her, yes on some level I understand wanting your children to be normal, but remember that diversity isn't just about people's skin color. I can think of no other people who deserve to be protected more than the handicapped.
Yes, children with Down and adults with Down are often nice, but they are always going to have to be cared for. First by the parents and then by the siblings because without that they would be taken advantage of or worse sexually exploited. They also may want children but that too is an issue. And with modern medicine Down children/adults live much longer than they did before.
And while a lot of them are in general nice persons, not every Down child is like that and not every Down child is higher functioning. There are some that are quite violent. And there are those who are not able to do much of anything.
I have seen documentaries and I have seen that a high number of those youths/young adults had to have almost constant supervision. They they could burst out in anger over things "normal people" would not loose their cool over and I have seen them get very stressed and frustrated because they know they are not able to do things they would like to do. They have issues with love and relationships that make those much harder on them as it would with "normal" young people.
And with the modern technology, not burdening a family with a down child, because that too became obvious (regardless of how much they love that Down brother or sister), it puts a lot of pressure and issues on the rest of the children. Their parents will always have to pay more attention to that Down child, often at the expense of the other children. And they will not complain about that, but still, it is inevitable that a parent cannot spend the normal amount of time with all siblings because a Down child needs a lot of extra time and supervision. And that is fine if it is your first child, it however is a lot more difficult if you already have 3 young children.
And in a perfect world, there would be a place for children with Down, but this is not a perfect world. They are bullied, they are taken advantage of, etc. etc. etc. Just this morning I read about 2 Canadian police officers who had pulled over a woman for a traffic violation and she disagreed with the ticket so she got the video of the event, including the conversation that the officers had about her and her 2 children, one of which had Down syndrome and let us just say, what the officers said was highly offensive to the mother and her child. And if even police officers take that kind of an offensive attitude towards Downs syndrome children, what does that say about the other "adults" in society.