What are some abortion arguments that your side makes that you disagree with or think do a bad job at making the case? Please also state if you are pro-choice (elective abortion should be legal) or pro-life (elective abortion should be illegal). I'll go first.
I am pro-choice. I hate it when fellow pro-choicers say something along the lines of "If you don't like abortion then don't have one, but don't make it illegal for everyone else." It completely ignores the fact that most pro-lifers believe the fetus is an actual person/baby. So to them it is like saying, "If you think murdering people is wrong then don't murder people, but don't make it illegal for everyone else."
Remember, this is about critiquing arguments your own side makes.
I am neither pro-legalized abortion or anti-legalized abortion, but I like the premise of this thread, so I'll join in and state some of what I dislike from both sides.
- I hate the example you give above. Like you say, it ignores the fact that people on the other side view abortion as murder, and if you wouldn't murder a 2 day old born baby, then you certainly wouldn't approve of murdering an as-yet unborn baby.
- "Making a medical decision is between a patient and his or her own doctor." Sorry, but no. We elect politicians to represent us precisely because people are simply not capable of self-governing. We elect politicians to establish standards to keep rogue commercial entities in line. In any and all subjects, not just medical.
- "I approve of a woman's ability to have an abortion, but *I* would never have one." Oh, aren't you just the shining example of fairness and nobility. If you would never have one, then you obviously think it's wrong on some level. Stop straddling the fence.
- "Pro choice". I am pro-choice, too... wait a minute, what are we choosing? It's too vague to actually mean anything. If you have to use a euphemism to make it sounds less offensive then you are admitting there are moral issues involved, and that said moral issues are uncomfortable for you.. The procedure has a name, and the name is "abortion". If it's so unoffensive, as you claim, then suck it up and use it.
- "Pro Life". While a tad closer to being accurate, you're no more noble than the "pro choicers", regardless of the euphemism you choose. Your actions and opinions regarding life after birth betray your stated concern.
- "Pro-Lifers are hypocrites because they're also pro-death penalty." Are you really so dense that you cannot see the difference between the two? In abortion, the baby/fetus/whatever has no say in the matter. They didn't do anything wrong. They didn't do anything to earn their fate. In the case of the death penalty, the person is at that place because of their own choices and actions.
- Prosecuting the killing of a pregnant woman as a double-murder. No. If the baby/fetus/whatever is not worthy of legal protection, then we need to be consistent in that. If the baby/fetus/whatever IS worthy of legal protection, then we need to be consistent there. Pick one.
- Similar to the above point, "...except in cases of incest or rape." This is just a bone to toss to people to make it more politically palatable. If it's a life, it's a life, regardless of the circumstances. Is it a life, or isn't it? Again, pick one.
- Pro-Lifers acting all pious regarding abortion, but having no plan or concern for what happens after birth. Hell, some openly want to offer no help whatsoever. For some of these births it's going to be abject poverty? That's good?!?
- Political pandering. President Clinton once said, smugly, that abortions should be, "...safe, legal, and rare." Oh, do shut up, Mr President. That's never going to happen, all three of those together.
- "Men should have no say over a woman's body." Ok, fine. If the man has no say then he should also have no responsibility, financial or otherwise. It should be treated like a parent surrendering their parental rights in an adoption... it's done and finished and irrevocable.
- "If health insurance won't pay for abortion or birth control, then it shouldn't pay for Viagra." Health insurance should pay for birth control, and it should pay for Viagra. The purpose of medicine, actually, is to heal and not do damage, or IOW not "break" things. Thwarting a pregnancy from even happening via birth control is not breaking anything. Viagra is an attempt to heal something that is broken. Abortion is taking something that is working as it is designed to perform, and breaking it.
I think you got about six legitimate on-topic responses. *sigh*