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Why are so many blind to the fact that planning, cooperating and acting civilized will get you significantly further? Examples range from traffic jams caused by people not leaving sufficient room for merging to the disorderly behavior of inner-city high school students or what's taking place in the Middle East.
This topic arose when my wife started a temporary teaching position at a local high school. Out of 32 students, she has about 5 who display respect and obedience. The rest display the stereotypical behavior of ghetto punks. You look at their behavior, learned from their parents and peers, and it comes as no surprise why they have the highest unemployment rate. In fact, the ranking of ethnicities by unemployment is precisely the reverse of how I would rank ethnicities (on average) according to their value of respecting others, or even emphasis on education.
I anticipate someone saying "that's just how teenagers naturally are." However, I have an issue with that statement. The ones like that come from a result of sorry parenting, but that doesn't excuse their behavior and it needs to be fixed before they become a burden to society as adults which cause trouble or draw unemployment as a result of their own sorry actions. I propose that if we want to avoid this, the students that can't respect teachers need to be shipped off to boot camps and let the teachers help the good students go as far as they can. This "no child left behind" idea is moronic, because you let the bad kids cause the good kids to suffer. Furthermore, the teacher is put in a lose-lose situation where they either give most of the kids the poor grades they deserve, in which case they wrongly get blamed, or they are forced to set the bar much lower than it should be and the students get the idea that what they're doing is acceptable.
I would argue that there is a striking similarity between the inner-city schools and the Middle East. That is, the violence and disorderly behavior is a result of not just poor leadership, but also the lack of fear of punishment or consequences. The tap on the wrist that the students receive for unacceptable behavior is much like Obama being soft and apologetic to the Middle East when they attack Americans. Both groups not only cause destruction, but they do it to those trying to help them. We need to be significantly more assertive and say "If you want some help then you better be respectful and follow any legitimate rules I set." Instead, we have become tolerant to a level which baffles me.
This topic arose when my wife started a temporary teaching position at a local high school. Out of 32 students, she has about 5 who display respect and obedience. The rest display the stereotypical behavior of ghetto punks. You look at their behavior, learned from their parents and peers, and it comes as no surprise why they have the highest unemployment rate. In fact, the ranking of ethnicities by unemployment is precisely the reverse of how I would rank ethnicities (on average) according to their value of respecting others, or even emphasis on education.
I anticipate someone saying "that's just how teenagers naturally are." However, I have an issue with that statement. The ones like that come from a result of sorry parenting, but that doesn't excuse their behavior and it needs to be fixed before they become a burden to society as adults which cause trouble or draw unemployment as a result of their own sorry actions. I propose that if we want to avoid this, the students that can't respect teachers need to be shipped off to boot camps and let the teachers help the good students go as far as they can. This "no child left behind" idea is moronic, because you let the bad kids cause the good kids to suffer. Furthermore, the teacher is put in a lose-lose situation where they either give most of the kids the poor grades they deserve, in which case they wrongly get blamed, or they are forced to set the bar much lower than it should be and the students get the idea that what they're doing is acceptable.
I would argue that there is a striking similarity between the inner-city schools and the Middle East. That is, the violence and disorderly behavior is a result of not just poor leadership, but also the lack of fear of punishment or consequences. The tap on the wrist that the students receive for unacceptable behavior is much like Obama being soft and apologetic to the Middle East when they attack Americans. Both groups not only cause destruction, but they do it to those trying to help them. We need to be significantly more assertive and say "If you want some help then you better be respectful and follow any legitimate rules I set." Instead, we have become tolerant to a level which baffles me.