Oh wow.. :2razz:
Does it hurt at first though?
Beware of an old lesbian telling you the joys of fisting. What she's telling you is basically tearing open your vagina many times greater than the tear of losing your virginity,
leaving you with exactly no tightness left for any sensation yourself during sex with a man (she doesn't have sex with men so what does she care?) and no sensation for the man whatsoever - for which you'll have to use your hands gripping around his penis to simulate sex, otherwise it's like he's trying to screw air, and you feel exactly nothing yourself when he's inside you. If you get into fisting you'll never enjoy vagina sex with a man nor would a man find any pleasure with you.
Men refer to women who have been fisted as a "sewer pipe" because there is as much sensation as having sex with a sewer pipe - meaning none. There is no tightness or sensation at all for him - and she also feels nothing so she has to fake it. While she can use her hands around his penis for simulated vagina tightness, there's nothing that can still work for you. Basically he or she has to use hands to basically allow him masterbate into the woman calling it sex. The woman has to fake that she feels anything herself.
Since you are bisexual, be very wary of any gay, male or female, telling you anything about sensual or sex that may alter you, your practices or your appearance. Of things
you might explore, fisting should be exactly last on your list because it is a one-way door. You can not be unfisted just like a woman can't return to being a virgin. I gather you are young (?). DO NOT BELIEVE anything people tell you about this stuff. The Internet is where some people turn fantasy into reality. Don't believe it. There are people who messed themselves up and have a need to convince others to do the same. Most don't know what the hell their talking about, they just read it in a porn story somewhere.
I hope you listen to me. I spent many a year in the urban jungle and sexuality a huge part of my life including knowing those going into the most extremes of it. It is something I have a lot of experience, observation and thought into as doing so very necessary to my goals and life style. Real people, not fantasy stories. I've been with fine eye candy women only to find out when we start having sex she's been fisted. If she'd use her hands so I could even have sex with her I'd finish it off just to be polite. But then I was gone, never wanted her again, and felt like I had just had sex with the sleaziest old hooker there is, rather than a beautiful, sensual and sexy woman. Sex is like drugs. More and stronger isn't always better. Ultimately always after more and stronger drugs will destroy you to yourself and others. Chasing greater and greater extremes of sex is exactly the same way.
There are lines, barriers, in sensuality and sexuality you must draw because you can't come back once past them, you lost what was before. So PLEASE for your sake explore new sexuality and sensuality SLOWLY - one tiny step at a time. Savor each step. If not, you soon come to find nothing is left for you in sex and intimacy. I know many people, men and women, that happened to. Sex just becomes nothing because they already did it all a thousand times and there's no going back to newless or anything innocent. Nothing has value. Nothing to explore. Fisting is at the absolute very end of that path if you ever go that far in terms of your own personal vagina. The LAST way left to find vagina tightness if it otherwise fully worn out and stretched out. It only makes sense that as your vagina is stretched and torn larger and larger, penis and dildo relatively get smaller and smaller.
Contrary to the suggestion, it would hurt extremely. Sort of like having a baby only worse because you aren't dialating for it. Your insides are literally being torn as in TEARING apart. After some time you are so torn and stretched it is no longer painful. But then anything less than hand-size inside you feels like next to nothing after that. In extreme fisting of a woman, she ends up in the hospital or even bleeding to death. Fisting should NEVER be something completed the first go and only a true sadist would fist a woman who had already not had alot of prior hand play stretching of her vagina. There is surgery a woman can have to restore tightness. Basically they cut you and then sew you back tight. "Virgin stitches" or "vagina reconstruction." Somehow I don't think that is your goal at this stage in your life, is it?
Fisting could make sense over a long time to a lesbian couple as year after decade they seek the same hand play sensations and doing so requires greater diameter to obtain it. There are reasons a lesbian couple would want to be able to get their hands in there. They don't have penis to stick in. But it is a disaster for heterosexual sex.
Some sex acts are one ways doors. Like unsafe sex and then contracting an incurable STD. Like fisting or huge dildos that permanently eliminate any natural sex tightness or sensation. Even anal sex isn't without consequences for some people due to stretching. Guys who play with things tied around their balls or penis sometimes do permanent damage. And beware - there are people who get off on "marking" or altering someone else - like being with someone (man or woman) who really gets off by shoving into a woman's vagina with their hand to tear her open - thereby in a sense claiming to have stolen her viginity irreversably in that way, ie a fisted woman with permanently fisted vagina she/he did to the other woman as a possession, power and conquest thing. You don't feel like you had wonderful sex. You feel deep physical pain and like you have been violated and raped - because you were.
Fisting IS permanent, major physical mutilation far more significant than is lose of physical virginity. Beware, Kali. Really be careful who you listen to. Make your decisions on what you will and won't do when you are NOT in an intimate circumstance. In limbido people make the worst possible decisions and are the most easily victimized. Seriously.
