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Pull My Finger · 07-09-08, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Zyphlin

Having a hot girlfriend who brings it up, asks you, and promises certain other sexual favors in exchange helps to remove that awkward part of feeling like a "homo" pretty quickly.

Worked for me...

Peace

Gipper · 07-09-08, 05:12 PM

Personally, I think you lose for having a gf that won't do certain things without resorting to bribery.

Without that, I'd make a bigger threat out of "do it or next time I pull out and nut all over your face".

Pull My Finger · 07-09-08, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Gipper

Personally, I think you lose for having a gf that won't do certain things without resorting to bribery.

Without that, I'd make a bigger threat out of "do it or next time I pull out and nut all over your face".

lol... I got all that too...

I got plenty without bribery... If I wanted ass, she got ass... that was the deal... we tried to keep things fair... I actually won, because both were great...

BTW, i'd never talk about things like this with strangers if I wasn't anonymous...

Peace

1069 · 07-09-08, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Pull My Finger

lol... I got all that too...

I got plenty without bribery... If I wanted ass, she got ass... that was the deal... we tried to keep things fair... I actually won, because both were great...

BTW, i'd never talk about things like this with strangers if I wasn't anonymous...

Peace

Wow. Your gf sounds a lot like me when I was younger.
With me, it was more of a power thing; quid pro quo, but afterward, I had something on them, even if it was unspoken, and they had nothing on me.
Why? Because virtually all guys like stuff up their arse, and nearly all of them are embarrassed for people to know that.
Whereas most chicks don't like it, not having a prostate, but also don't care much if people know they got f*cked in the arse.
It gives a girl a massive amount of power in a relationship... at least until the guy grows some balls and decides he doesn't care anymore who knows about it.
One guy I went out with, I had him trained like a dog. I'd tell him what to do in front of his friends; if he resisted, I'd just crook my little finger at him and wink, and he'd snap to immediately. It was straight-up blackmail.
I'm lucky I didn't end up strangled in a ditch. I was rather a horrible little bitch when I was young.

independent_thinker2002 · 07-09-08, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by 1069

Wow. Your gf sounds a lot like me when I was younger.
With me, it was more of a power thing; quid pro quo, but afterward, I had something on them, even if it was unspoken, and they had nothing on me.
Why? Because virtually all guys like stuff up their arse, and nearly all of them are embarrassed for people to know that.
Whereas most chicks don't like it, not having a prostate, but also don't care much if people know they got f*cked in the arse.
It gives a girl a massive amount of power in a relationship... at least until the guy grows some balls and decides he doesn't care anymore who knows about it.
One guy I went out with, I had him trained like a dog. I'd tell him what to do in front of his friends; if he resisted, I'd just crook my little finger at him and wink, and he'd snap to immediately. It was straight-up blackmail.
I'm lucky I didn't end up strangled in a ditch. I was rather a horrible little bitch when I was young.

I had a woman try it once. I put the kabosh on it though. I don't have a problem with people doing it. I get enough pleasure without it.

You wouldn't have intimidated me. I would have realized that chicks would find that hot. Even if I was bothered, I would have gotten revenge.

WI Crippler · 07-09-08, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Zyphlin

Having a hot girlfriend who brings it up, asks you, and promises certain other sexual favors in exchange helps to remove that awkward part of feeling like a "homo" pretty quickly.

And conversley, being married puts a stop to sexual "exploration", especially when your wife is also a mommy. In my case anyway.

Zyphlin · 07-09-08, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by 1069

Whereas most chicks don't like it, not having a prostate, but also don't care much if people know they got f*cked in the arse.

Except for one girl at my college that got known as "Buttsex Meghan", and by "Got known as" i mean she actually knew people called her that and reveled in it a bit. Started out that way because she "Didn't want to lose her virginity"...strangely, by the end of college, she had lost it, but decided she actually enjoyed the back door more than the front.

1069 · 07-09-08, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Zyphlin

Except for one girl at my college that got known as "Buttsex Meghan", and by "Got known as" i mean she actually knew people called her that and reveled in it a bit. Started out that way because she "Didn't want to lose her virginity"...strangely, by the end of college, she had lost it, but decided she actually enjoyed the back door more than the front.

I knew a girl like that. It was strange indeed.
I guess that's one- admittedly, fairly extreme- way to avoid unwanted pregnancy. But jeesh.

aps · 07-10-08, 02:39 AM

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Originally Posted by WI Crippler

And conversley, being married puts a stop to sexual "exploration", especially when your wife is also a mommy. In my case anyway.

You have mentioned this before. I'm curious, Crippler, have you said something to her? If my husband told me he genuinely missed my doing a certain thing to him (that I had been willing to do in the past), I cannot imagine saying, "Um, no thanks." But don't forget to ask nicely.....

talloulou · 07-10-08, 02:49 AM

My man can ask as nicely as he wants. I don't do anal.