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I believe in a sense the so-called underpriviledged, which to me is vastly overstated, like to be underpriviledged at times. They like the attention.
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Yes, I'm sure the underprivileged adore being booted from the military without cause, barred from visiting their dying partners in the ICU, and prevented from having legal rights to their own children, while watching the privileged majority- even those who are inferior soldiers, partners, parents, and citizens- granted all these rights without question, accepting them as their due, even taking them for granted.
How could one possibly be dissatisfied with such a state of affairs, when one is getting so much "attention"?
Why, being oppressed and disenfranchised is even more fun than parading down Main Street in a rhinestone tiara, a hot pink feather boa, a pair of fishnet stockings, and a thong. 
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Originally Posted by 1069 Why, being oppressed and disenfranchised is even more fun than parading down Main Street in a rhinestone tiara, a hot pink feather boa, a pair of fishnet stockings, and a thong. | Do you have experience with this? 
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Originally Posted by 1069 Oh, indeed?
Yes, I'm sure the underprivileged adore being booted from the military without cause, barred from visiting their dying partners in the ICU, and prevented from having legal rights to their own children, while watching the privileged majority- even those who are inferior soldiers, partners, parents, and citizens- granted all these rights without question, accepting them as their due, even taking them for granted.
How could one possibly be dissatisfied with such a state of affairs, when one is getting so much "attention"?
Why, being oppressed and disenfranchised is even more fun than parading down Main Street in a rhinestone tiara, a hot pink feather boa, a pair of fishnet stockings, and a thong.  | The guy got the boot from the military cause he talked on TV. That's just the way the rules work, but if that was all he did, he shouldn't have gotten the boot in MHO.
I don't know what you want to happen. Should we not have any priviledged people? Don't know how that would happen. I know gays who are more priviledged than I am. There are gays that have high paying jobs, and positions of power. Right now they are wanting to be able to marry. Once that happens on a Federal level, and it'll have to be a Federal Law, I don't think there will be much else in their way. Hopefully, that might stop the whining, but I'd bet it won't cause once you are in that under-priviledged pile, no matter how good it gets, seems like it's a bottomless pit.
Inferior soldiers and all that get booted out of the service all the time. I'd bet a lot of gays have custody rights like any other parents do. Sure some might have to fight and get attorney's, but straights have to do that, too. Not a completely priviledged thing really.
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I don't know what you want to happen. Should we not have any priviledged people?
| Duh. I'm a liberal leaning toward socialism. Of course that's what I want to happen.
I want equality for every citizen, even if it means that I and others have to sacrifice some of the unfair advantages we have through accidents of birth, the benefits we have but did not earn. |
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Originally Posted by 1069 Duh. I'm a liberal leaning toward socialism. Of course that's what I want to happen.
I want equality for every citizen, even if it means that I and others have to sacrifice some of the unfair advantages we have through accidents of birth, the benefits we have but did not earn. | Hate to tell you, but it ain't gonna happen. Plus, I honestly believe this so-called equality you want would make life extremely boring. People don't do equality very well, it would be impossible. Maybe if everybody was nice, but this isn't heaven, so there's gonna be some hell for all of us here and there. |
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Current Mood: | Re: June is Gay Pride Month! Gay revelers celebrate pride, marriage rights By MALIA WOLLAN, Associated Press Writer
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SAN FRANCISCO - A lesbian motorcycle group dressed in bridal veils, wedding gowns and leather lent a matrimonial touch to San Francisco's gay pride parade Sunday as revelers celebrated their newfound freedom to marry.
The riders tossed bouquets as they led the city's 38th annual gay pride parade down Market Street. Some of the motorcycles were adorned with signs that read "Just Married."
Huge crowds lined the route as city tourism officials predicted the largest turnout yet for the parade, which typically draws tens of thousands.
The county clerk's office was busy Friday handing out marriage licenses and handling wedding ceremonies. Same-sex marriage has been legal in California since June 16, after a state Supreme Court decision.
San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom received ovations along the parade route for his role in working to overturn the state's gay marriage ban.
Though City Hall was closed Sunday, parade organizers put up a wedding pavilion across the street where couples could get information about tying the knot or celebrate newly sanctioned unions.
Overseas, gay pride marches in the Bulgarian capital of Sofia and the Czech Republic city of Brno came under attack Saturday by extremists who threw rocks and eggs. No serious injuries were reported.
In Paris, more than half a million people celebrated in the streets below a river of rainbow flags.
In India, hundreds chanted for gay rights in Calcutta, Bangalore and New Delhi in the largest display of gay pride in the deeply conservative country, where homosexual acts are illegal. The marches came days before the Delhi High Court is expected to hear arguments on overturning a law against homosexual sex that dates to the British colonial era. Gay revelers celebrate pride, marriage rights - Yahoo! News HAPPY GAY PRIDE DAY TO ALL MY RAINBOW FAMILY! 
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Originally Posted by Bodhisattva The terms are not "interchangable", and I never said that they were.  : | You said they were almost or nearly interchangable or something to that effect. That is still incorrect in my opinion. You continue to tie yourself in knots with very lengty definitions, but the reality is that in the English language, the words "pride" and "power" evoke different things. Quote:
Originally Posted by Bodhisattva Ooops, did mentioning that I studied this subject in depth just hurt my credibility with you? Oh darn. LOL! | There is a huge difference between having simply studied a subject and actually being able to critically analyse the issues and formulate an opinion which stands up. Quote:
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Adding that your boyfriend is from Africa adds to the discussion, just as mentioning my gay friends adds to it, that is, unless you wear that "HYPOCRITE" Badge with Pride? LOL!: | The differences are thus:
For one I'm not screaming "Some of my best friends are black and they think slavery was pretty OK actually. Free food and board - why should they complain - it was way worse in Afghanistan" I add that my partner is African because as a white woman with a black man, I have experienced prejudice first hand (nowhere more so than in your dear "land of the free"). This is somewhat different to the old "some of my best friends are.......that proves I'm open and actually, they're happy with their lot" arguments. You present a series of gay neighbourhoods you've lived in or gay pride events you've attended (yet you don't agree with gay pride events, and you call ME a hypocrite?) and drag queens who've sat on your lap - yes, I'm sure you really got inside that drag queen's head and learned about the everyday difficulties he faces  ) I believe my experience is relevant to any debate on prejudice because I've seen ugly racism first hand. To my mind that has more substance than the old "some of my best friends are......." However, as I said above, if you choose not to believe me, nobody really gives a damn, not least me. Quote:
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it is paramount that you don't enter into the conversation with snotty childlike comments meant only to insult or disparage the other. | Sadly, you don't take your own advice. Quote:
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The issue here is accountability. The reason I don't bother with Ten anymore is because she lies and expects that others do the same. I don't waste my time with people that are disingenuous... there is no point. If you think that I don't have gay friends, that sucks in terms of us being able to communicate openly and honestly. I believe that you have a Senegalese boyfriend. Why wouldn't I? In all honesty, why wouldn't you believe that I have gay friends, for by your "logic" you debased your own argument with, " you were debasing your own argument with that tired old "my boyfriend is ... crap."
Why would you do the exact same thing to me, include your boyfriends race and color into a discussion about Black Pride/Power when I can't (according to you) do the same about gay friends in a Gay Pride discussion?
When did I speak against respecting those that fought before us for the rights that we have today? Get real.
Stop Trolling...
No sweat if you are not convinced. I am not convinced that you are that intelligent yet, but I don't make comments about your lack of evidence and rather flimsy opinions about this topic. Perhaps you should not think in the negative extreme that both you and Ten seem to perpetually dwell in.
You try to hard.
Again, I don't. Try not to think that your opinion is so important for a second. You have a long way to go to prove to me that you are anything other than a Gnat-like Troll that I should simply continue to bat about for fun. LOL!
What Ten could not handle, and perhaps you are as shallow and incapable as she, is being open and honest about subjects so that we can communicate and move forward in understanding together, rather than acting as obstacles in learning. | Bod, this rant is borderline hysteria. You take DP far too seriously. Quote:
Originally Posted by Bodhisattva I know you didn't claim that, I assumed since you were talking about Black Power and Black Pride as if he might know more than me. He is Senegalese.. I am American. For all you know I am African American and those two cuties in my pic to the left are adopted and for all I know your boyfriend is a white colonial descendent and you are trying to insinuate that he is black so that you have more clout. | You make assuptions.
This isn't about "knowing more" or point scoring. It's about differing opinions. As an African, my partner probably has a very different perspective on black identity than blacks from your own country, and as a United Statesian, yes you probably know more about US black history, the black power movement, Malcolm X etc. than he does. Your point is? Do you need to have felt you have "won" again? Quote:
Originally Posted by Bodhisattva And more importantly, since it is not relevant to the debate, as you so aptly point out... why the **** did you mention him at all in the first place. | See above Quote:
Originally Posted by Bodhisattva I have been to the Gay Pride Parade in San Fran... one of the biggest in the world. It was great fun. The emotions were genuine and the people were terrific. | Yet you don't agree with gay pride events? Quote:
Originally Posted by Bodhisattva So... why do you continue to wish to portray me as anything other than open and realistic again? Perhaps you should check in with yourself about how others might simply be more dynamic than you, or at least, than you give them credit for. I am not shallow, and if you care to find out more, you should ask, rather than to assume. | I did actually ask how you met your gay friends, how many you have and what common interests hold your friendships together. You failed to give a straight answer, so what is one to assume? Quote:
Originally Posted by Bodhisattva I can tackle any of the borish tripe that you toss my way. I have been talking far above your seemingly limited capacity and only recently have you begun to step up into the adult realm. You still have a long way to go, but you are growing and learning. I will give a little more time to conduct yourself better. Some people just talk the talk... you. I am hoping that you might elevate yourself to where I am.. walking the walk. We will see.. | Again you throw out insults, and again you demonstrate that you come on here not to debate but to come out on top, to win. And you claim you are not shallow? Quote:
Originally Posted by Bodhisattva What I do assume it that you are capable, but for some reason you are blinded by an unseen hatred based in fear of accepting that which you don't understand. It is common enough. I simply trust first, and many times get burned, rather than to not trust and never grow. Your Trollish behavior and insultive style is indicative of a fear based persona like a frightened animal that is unsure if it can trust a human trying to feed it or not. I will not hurt you. Do not be afraid wee one. It is safe to come in from the dark thought in which you reside... | How insightful. I've waited 44 years to have my mind opened by bod Quote:
Originally Posted by Bodhisattva Gee, that was fun... talk to you soon! :2wave... | I don't think you actually mean that.
Hostilities aside for one moment, since you referred to your two "cuties" in your pic. You do have two very beautiful children bod. Congratulations.
I shall leave it there bod. Our arguments are becoming circular so I shan't continue, but go on, you have the last word 
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Duh. I'm a liberal leaning toward socialism. Of course that's what I want to happen.
I want equality for every citizen, even if it means that I and others have to sacrifice some of the unfair advantages we have through accidents of birth, the benefits we have but did not earn.
| You aren't completely stupid, which is an accident of birth that makes you privileged. If there were a medical procedure available to reduce your IQ, would you volunteer to undergo it in order to remove your own unfair privilege? |
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Originally Posted by Panache You aren't completely stupid, which is an accident of birth that makes you privileged. If there were a medical procedure available to reduce your IQ, would you volunteer to undergo it in order to remove your own unfair privilege? | I read that book in high school. Seriously. It was a very obvious anti-communism book that had a futuristic society that dumbed down the intelligent, weighed down the strong, etc. |
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Originally Posted by Panache You aren't completely stupid, which is an accident of birth that makes you privileged. If there were a medical procedure available to reduce your IQ, would you volunteer to undergo it in order to remove your own unfair privilege? | No, because whatever native intelligence I possess, I have applied toward the end of trying to make things more just and equitable for everyone.
I have also not done anything by way of cultivating my intellect or parlaying it into power, status, or monetary gain- nothing that would give me any advantage over others- other than reading books, listening to people, and keeping my eyes peeled. I understand that my intellect is a byproduct of being privileged: white and well-born. Yet without education, it avails me little (I won't say "nothing"; that would be disingenuous). And I genuinely do what I can to advance equality. Born stupid, I'd be able to do much less. As it is, even ignorant and uneducated, I have a gift with words that sometimes compels people to listen to me as they would not to someone without that gift.
I would not toss it away when it can be used to help the situation, even though it is the result of unearned privilege. |
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