| Sex and Sexuality Moral dilemma; Lately ive been shagging a girl who has a boyfriend my thinking on this is im not cheating on anyone ... |
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Current Mood: | Moral dilemma Lately ive been shagging a girl who has a boyfriend my thinking on this is im not cheating on anyone so im ok.Also the chances of him finding out are very slim so kinda like if your burger falls on the floor in kitchen if you dont know you dont care.
Ive also thought that some people guys/gals are just naturally cheaters regardless if they are happy in their relationship or not.Ive actually been very good in this respect ive never cheated on any of my girlfriends but ive been well aware women can and can without remorse.
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Originally Posted by 1069 So what's your dilemma?  | Well do you agree its ok or not? |
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Originally Posted by mikhail Well do you agree its ok or not? | I may not be the right person to ask. |
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Originally Posted by mikhail Lately ive been shagging a girl who has a boyfriend my thinking on this is im not cheating on anyone so im ok.Also the chances of him finding out are very slim so kinda like if your burger falls on the floor in kitchen if you dont know you dont care.
Ive also thought that some people guys/gals are just naturally cheaters regardless if they are happy in their relationship or not.Ive actually been very good in this respect ive never cheated on any of my girlfriends but ive been well aware women can and can without remorse. | If you're looking to replace him as her boyfriend, and she wants him then you're behaving immorally. Otherwise if this is merely a physical thing, she is the only one in a moral dilemma regarding her commitments and fidelity.
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Originally Posted by mikhail Lately ive been shagging a girl who has a boyfriend my thinking on this is im not cheating on anyone so im ok.Also the chances of him finding out are very slim so kinda like if your burger falls on the floor in kitchen if you dont know you dont care.
Ive also thought that some people guys/gals are just naturally cheaters regardless if they are happy in their relationship or not.Ive actually been very good in this respect ive never cheated on any of my girlfriends but ive been well aware women can and can without remorse. | Gross-you really want to shag someone who is concurrently shagging someone else! She sounds like a loser and why would you want to spend time with someone like that. |
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Originally Posted by savoir-faire Gross-you really want to shag someone who is concurrently shagging someone else! She sounds like a loser and why would you want to spend time with someone like that. | Are you serious? He's a guy.
See if you can guess why. |
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