Tashah

Why even go there? Aren't there any unattached shagette's in the UK?

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mikhail

Yea but its very convenient.I can do both without any commitment.

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aps

Are you wearing a condom with this woman? Even so, that doesn't protect against herpes. If she's cheating on her boyfriend with you, what are the chances she's shagging other guys too? And maybe she's not having them wear a condom with her. Or maybe her boyfriend is shagging other women, and I doubt she's having the boyfriend wear a condom. Your chances of getting a disease increase with women like this.

If she gets pregnant by YOU, or you get a disease from her, you won't get any sympathy from me.

rivrrat

I don't see any "moral dilemma" for you, only for her. You're not the one cheating, you're not the reason she is cheating, you're not making her cheat.

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aps

That is a stunning assessment in my eyes. I'm sorry, but anyone who engages in behavior with someone they know is committed to another person is someone who lacks morals.

WI Crippler

Yeah I don't see any moral dielma for you. Pump away.....

Its hard to know if there is any moral dilema for her, since we don't know about the dynamics of her other relationship. On the surface it would seem as if she does, but who can really say?

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rivrrat

*shrug* and you're entitled to your opinion. I don't "lack morals", I just have morals that differ from yours.

No one knows what kind of relationship she is in or why. No one is in a position to judge what she is doing. Obviously she's not committed to this person or she wouldn't be cheating on him.

Whomever she cheats on him with is not responsible for HER behavior. They are irrelevant to the fact that she cheats and the reason she cheats. They have no say in her cheating, they have no say in her relationship(s). They are not the ones lying, they are not the ones cheating, so I fail to see what they are doing "wrong".

aps

Sure, differing opinions. I didn't say YOU lack morals, rivrrat, so it's interesting to see you making this about your morals. However, if the shoe fits....

rivrrat

Actually you did say it, only you didn't realize it. I've slept with more married men than I'd be able to count. In fact, when I was single and wishing to remain so, married men were quite ideal. I didn't have to worry about them getting attached, I didn't have to worry about them wanting a serious relationship with me, calling me repeatedly, etc. Not to mention the fact that while I was a high class call girl, the majority of my clients were quite well off, married men.

And, my current boyfriend was married when I met him.

So yeah, the shoe does fit quite well.

WI Crippler

I've never slept with another mans wife or g/f to my absolute knowledge. But there was one time where I think someones wife may have used me for some kind of revenge lay. It was the only time I have ever had sex with a woman, where she seemed satisfied with the sex and then abruptly left with nothing more than a "thanks for that". It was kind of nice actually.

Her very obvious tan line on her ring finger is what made me suspicious. And the fact that she was pressing the issue, because she needed to get home by a certain time.