| Sex and Sexuality Cheating; Now, if he says he wants a divorce then you are up the creek and it's your fault.
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Now, if he says he wants a divorce then you are up the creek and it's your fault.
Why your fault?
A man seldom leaves a woman if she is as pretty and sweet and loving as she was when they first met. A man only does what a woman makes him do.
| These infantile generalities are preposterous.
I don't think you've ever been laid in your life: you sound twelve.
First of all, not all men find "sweetness' all that attractive; believe it or not, there are men who value ascerbic wit above mindless simpering "sweetness".
The world is full of 'sweetness".
Real men need more.
And 'pretty"?
Puh-lease.
How the hell is a woman supposed to "stay pretty" (other than by killing herself in some picturesque manner before the age of forty)?
Newsflash: when you're married to someone, they're going to see you first thing in the morning, they're going to see you with the flu, they're going to watch you getting old, they're going to see what you look like crying, sh!tting, puking, etc.
And vice versa.
You're going to see what your wife looks like having a baby, for chrissake.
I seriously doubt that staying eternally "sweet" and "pretty" is what a deep and lasting relationship is based on.
I doubt many men in the world are that superficial, and if they are then perhaps they'd be happier married to a department store mannequin than an actual flesh-and-blood woman.
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Originally Posted by Stace What constitutes cheating in your eyes? Emotional involvement? A kiss? Or nothing short of full blown sex? | A sexual involvement of any type that you are dishonest about with you significant other is cheating. Cheating is being dishonest! If you feel guilt, you are cheating by YOUR own standards! It is about trust relationships, not sex! Swingers have sex with other people than their partners, but they are honest about it so it is not cheating! If we are honest everyone knows when they are cheating regardless of the details! If you are uncomfortable being completely open about it either you are cheating, or your partner is overly jealous and untrusting! YOU KNOW!
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Originally Posted by 1069 These infantile generalities are preposterous.
I don't think you've ever been laid in your life: you sound twelve.
First of all, not all men find "sweetness' all that attractive; believe it or not, there are men who value ascerbic wit above mindless simpering "sweetness".
The world is full of 'sweetness".
Real men need more.
And 'pretty"?
Puh-lease.
How the hell is a woman supposed to "stay pretty" (other than by killing herself in some picturesque manner before the age of forty)?
Newsflash: when you're married to someone, they're going to see you first thing in the morning, they're going to see you with the flu, they're going to watch you getting old, they're going to see what you look like crying, sh!tting, puking, etc.
And vice versa.
You're going to see what your wife looks like having a baby, for chrissake.
I seriously doubt that staying eternally "sweet" and "pretty" is what a deep and lasting relationship is based on.
I doubt many men in the world are that superficial, and if they are then perhaps they'd be happier married to a department store mannequin than an actual flesh-and-blood woman. | Too many women are rendered idiotic by their biology and chemistry. When it comes to thinking many of them are worthless. And so unless they remain attractive, sweet and submissive they become, well...you know.  |
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Originally Posted by bhkad Too many women are rendered idiotic by their biology and chemistry. When it comes to thinking many of them are worthless. And so unless they remain attractive, sweet and submissive they become, well...you know.  | So, beyond the age of thirty...?
What do we do, take em out behind the barn and shoot them? |
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Originally Posted by bhkad Too many women are rendered idiotic by their biology and chemistry. When it comes to thinking many of them are worthless. And so unless they remain attractive, sweet and submissive they become, well...you know.  | What an amazing pick-up line.  It's nice to know how little you think of the female gender.
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Originally Posted by CaptainCourtesy What an amazing pick-up line.  It's nice to know how little you think of the female gender. | Perhaps he and tallou should hook up.
She makes similar observations frequently.
In fact, she's started a number of threads to that effect. |
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Originally Posted by CaptainCourtesy What an amazing pick-up line.  It's nice to know how little you think of the female gender. | Actually, it is a time saving tactic. In response to that kind of comment more often than not most stupid women stay away, the smart ones challenge me and the sweet ones smile sweetly.
Oh, and unless you are a woman why would you care what I think of the female gender?
If you are a man are you the dominant one in the relationship or are you Captain Courteous there, too? |
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Oh, and unless you are a woman why would you care what I think of the female gender?
| See, what'd I tell you?
A twelve-year-old.  |
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Originally Posted by 1069 So, beyond the age of thirty...?
What do we do, take em out behind the barn and shoot them? | It's a matter of knowing yourself and getting to know the woman before getting married. Some women are better off with someone else and it's better for everyone that this be discovered sooner rather than later. |
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Originally Posted by bhkad Actually, it is a time saving tactic. In response to that kind of comment more often than not most stupid women stay away, the smart ones challenge me and the sweet ones smile sweetly.
Oh, and unless you are a woman why would you care what I think of the female gender?
If you are a man are you the dominant one in the relationship or are you Captain Courteous there, too? | You have, once again, shown us all that you haven't learned an important tenet of life: you catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar. |
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