| Sex and Sexuality How long do you wait to have sex with someone?; Originally Posted by niftydrifty
i can understand wanting to hold out until you're not a teenager anymore, but if ... |
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i can understand wanting to hold out until you're not a teenager anymore, but if you're not married by the time you are, like, 20-21, you shouldn't be waiting for anything.
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So am I old fashioned for waiting a week or two, just to get to know the person a little better? | 
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08-09-07, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted by americanwoman So am I old fashioned for waiting a week or two, just to get to know the person a little better? | not at all. I'd say the max is about 2 months. max.
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As soon as the baby's asleep
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Originally Posted by americanwoman So am I old fashioned for waiting a week or two, just to get to know the person a little better? | No.
I just guess I know my limitations, and when I have a strong attraction to a person well..... I am a guy and I am just being honest, I'd prefer getting into her pants ASAP. I am willing to wait it out if she would want to wait for a little bit, but my hormonal impulse is to bump uglies that night......
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Originally Posted by niftydrifty not at all. I'd say the max is about 2 months. max. | Agreed. If a guy wouldn't want to sleep with me after 2 months I would definetly be worried something wrong is going on down there. | |
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Originally Posted by americanwoman If you are dating someone or just hanging out with them, and are feeling them, how long would you wait to have sex with them? | Once your married to them you have to wait a very, very long time  | |
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Originally Posted by americanwoman I would say a couple weeks. I'm not gonna give it up right away but I'm not going to wait long, especially if I like the person. Now that I'm married I don't have to worry about that stuff since I get it daily now. | I worship you...... | |
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The first guy I had sex with had to wait a really long time. But once I wasn't a virgin anymore I don't think I ever really waited long again. I didn't date strangers very much at all though. Just had incestuous groups of friends. The times that I did have it stranger sex kinda stank. Much better to have known the person for awhile. Plus I sorta like that long build up. But I don't know as far as waiting goes I never made myself wait except prior to that very first time. | 
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Pretty much what talloulou said. I don't really wait very long after starting to see someone... but I don't really date people I haven't known for awhile.
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Originally Posted by Korimyr the Rat Pretty much what talloulou said. I don't really wait very long after starting to see someone... but I don't really date people I haven't known for awhile. | Exactly. You stated it very clearly while I stumbled for the words. | |
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