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Is remaining a virgin till marriage possible.

In the context of a marriage, sex is a habit that's easy to fall out of.
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In the context of bachelorhood, it's a glorious adventure.
 
Catz Part Deux said:
Honesty and crassness are not the same thing.

"But I was just being honest..."---the pathetic bleat of a spineless jackass.
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So I see you still have a soft spot for me. Keep it warm, I'm a little busy tonight. :2razz:
 
1069 said:
In the context of a marriage, sex is a habit that's easy to fall out of.
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Sadly I must agree. Sex with the same person, and in the same situation, often gets to feel like Masturbation over a period of years, but with somebody there.
 
Skateguy said:
Sadly I must agree. Sex with the same person, and in the same situation, often gets to feel like Masturbation over a period of years, but with somebody there.
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Yep. When you get to the point that you know each other so well you're like two halves of the same entity, your partner is basically just an extension of yourself, and sex might as well be masturbation.
Entirely agree.
 
1069 said:
Yep. When you get to the point that you know each other so well you're like two halves of the same entity, your partner is basically just an extension of yourself, and sex might as well be masturbation.
Entirely agree.
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So, what are you doing Saturday night little Missy. --we're total strangers. Let's makes some sparks fly. :cool::mrgreen:
 
Skateguy said:
So, what are you doing Saturday night little Missy. --we're total strangers. Let's makes some sparks fly. :cool::mrgreen:
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Ick. I'm sure you're a very nice person, but you're older than my dad.
Don't make me yarf.
 
Remaining a virgin until marriage is quite possible. No one forces you to have sex, and temptations can be conquered. I myself and saving my virginity for my future wife, and right now I'm a 19 year old college student. It is possible.
 
digsbe said:
Remaining a virgin until marriage is quite possible. No one forces you to have sex, and temptations can be conquered. I myself and saving my virginity for my future wife, and right now I'm a 19 year old college student. It is possible.
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And just knowing how much that will mean to her is worth the wait I'm sure.
 
digsbe said:
Remaining a virgin until marriage is quite possible. No one forces you to have sex, and temptations can be conquered. I myself and saving my virginity for my future wife, and right now I'm a 19 year old college student. It is possible.
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That's nice, Dale. ;)
 
Skateguy said:
And just knowing how much that will mean to her is worth the wait I'm sure.
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I'm sure it will mean a lot to her. But I am mainly doing it because of religious convictions.
 
Skateguy said:
the hard part of that, is Women don't react well to honesty. they don't treat each other with honesty either. "Oh honey your ass, and them extra 30 lbs, looks good in them big pants" Where as guys are more frank with each other, and don't sugar coat everything. I have always had a problem with not being able to lie.
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You are probably right about how men are with each other, but if you like being with a partner, that requires a different attitude. You have to concentrate on the things all of us like to hear, man or woman. If she cooks you a meal, you should think about the effort that went into the preparation, even if it's just a sandwich and an apple. Some men seem to forget that time and energy goes into anything someone does for you, and should be truly grateful for that effort. By the same token women should be grateful for jobs a guy does around the house that he could let go.

Women just want to feel appreciated, and a lot of guys seem to forget that after they have tied the knot or moved in. Don't forget! Keep doing it! If you do this, you'll continue to have someone to come home to that's of the human persuasion.
 
digsbe said:
Remaining a virgin until marriage is quite possible. No one forces you to have sex, and temptations can be conquered. I myself and saving my virginity for my future wife, and right now I'm a 19 year old college student. It is possible.
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I admire your strength of convictions. Meaning you don't just talk the talk, but walk the walk. This sort of thing can make a person stronger in all areas of life. It's a lot easier to lose your virginity than it is to save it, but this is all a part of who you are. There's nothing to be proud of in telling how many women you've slept with. That's just boasting, and it means nothing. It just shows you are a very shallow person. Personally, it's nobody's business who you've slept with and how much experience you have. Experience doesn't make a person good in this area. Experience won't teach you to be caring or thoughtful of your partner.
 
Marilyn Monroe said:
You are probably right about how men are with each other, but if you like being with a partner, that requires a different attitude. You have to concentrate on the things all of us like to hear, man or woman. If she cooks you a meal, you should think about the effort that went into the preparation, even if it's just a sandwich and an apple. Some men seem to forget that time and energy goes into anything someone does for you, and should be truly grateful for that effort. By the same token women should be grateful for jobs a guy does around the house that he could let go.

Women just want to feel appreciated, and a lot of guys seem to forget that after they have tied the knot or moved in. Don't forget! Keep doing it! If you do this, you'll continue to have someone to come home to that's of the human persuasion.
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Regardless of my tongue in cheek persona on here, I'm a thoughtful respectful person. and not only do I show appreciation for any thing done in my behalf, I also try to do more than my share in return. ---My point is, I hear women lie to each other all the time, in order to maybe build up their self esteem. They tell how beautiful they look, when truth is, they look like crap... they tell each other how nice their clothes look, when they look like they are wearing something from "Texas tent and tarpaulin company". So when Men tell them the truth, they think we are being insulting, and trying to hurt their feelings. Where as we are just being honest, as we would expect them to be to us. Women however, have no problem say things like, "Your not going out looking like that are you"? --"Women worship different Gods, than Men do"--My Friend Kat.
 
Skateguy said:
the hard part of that, is Women don't react well to honesty. they don't treat each other with honesty either. "Oh honey your ass, and them extra 30 lbs, looks good in them big pants" Where as guys are more frank with each other, and don't sugar coat everything. I have always had a problem with not being able to lie.
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Men don't react well to honesty either. Especially when you tell them, "No, you do NOT have the biggest dick I've ever had the pleasure of holding." Or, "No, you are NOT the best lover I've had." Or, "Sorry cowboy, but in my corral, 8 seconds aint no ride."
 
Did it ever cross your mind that women and men might have a different view of "what looks good" - if you're just analyzing the appearance/clothing issue that seems to be all it comes down to.

Aside that - a relationship doesn't hinge on one's appearance. To do so seems naive and immature and just setting up the stage for unnecessary drama when such things are taken too seriously (by either).
 
rivrrat said:
Men don't react well to honesty either. Especially when you tell them, "No, you do NOT have the biggest dick I've ever had the pleasure of holding." Or, "No, you are NOT the best lover I've had." Or, "Sorry cowboy, but in my corral, 8 seconds aint no ride."
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:rofl

Yeah - men have sensitivity issues, as well :D
 
rivrrat said:
Men don't react well to honesty either. Especially when you tell them, "No, you do NOT have the biggest dick I've ever had the pleasure of holding." Or, "No, you are NOT the best lover I've had." Or, "Sorry cowboy, but in my corral, 8 seconds aint no ride."
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You are 100% correct in your assessment. which is why a frequent Hookers. You just give them a script, and they will make it sound convincing. "Oh baby, your tearing it up" "Hit it like ya mean it, Daddy" :shock:
 
Aunt Spiker said:
Did it ever cross your mind that women and men might have a different view of "what looks good" - if you're just analyzing the appearance/clothing issue that seems to be all it comes down to.

Aside that - a relationship doesn't hinge on one's appearance. To do so seems naive and immature and just setting up the stage for unnecessary drama when such things are taken too seriously (by either).
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Once again, the voice of reason---good on you
 
Aunt Spiker said:
Did it ever cross your mind that women and men might have a different view of "what looks good" - if you're just analyzing the appearance/clothing issue that seems to be all it comes down to.

Aside that - a relationship doesn't hinge on one's appearance. To do so seems naive and immature and just setting up the stage for unnecessary drama when such things are taken too seriously (by either).
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Spot on! I am absolutely tired of the women I know admiring some stick of a person wishing they could be just as malnourished!
 
rivrrat said:
Men don't react well to honesty either. Especially when you tell them, "No, you do NOT have the biggest dick I've ever had the pleasure of holding." Or, "No, you are NOT the best lover I've had." Or, "Sorry cowboy, but in my corral, 8 seconds aint no ride."
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Most people hold hands when walking down the street :shock:
 
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Skateguy said:
Regardless of my tongue in cheek persona on here, I'm a thoughtful respectful person. and not only do I show appreciation for any thing done in my behalf, I also try to do more than my share in return. ---My point is, I hear women lie to each other all the time, in order to maybe build up their self esteem. They tell how beautiful they look, when truth is, they look like crap... they tell each other how nice their clothes look, when they look like they are wearing something from "Texas tent and tarpaulin company". So when Men tell them the truth, they think we are being insulting, and trying to hurt their feelings. Where as we are just being honest, as we would expect them to be to us. Women however, have no problem say things like, "Your not going out looking like that are you"? --"Women worship different Gods, than Men do"--My Friend Kat.
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Definitely some big differences between the sexes. No doubt about it.

Remember the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"?
 
Skateguy said:
You are 100% correct in your assessment. which is why a frequent Hookers. You just give them a script, and they will make it sound convincing. "Oh baby, your tearing it up" "Hit it like ya mean it, Daddy" :shock:
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Sounds boring to me.:( I'd rather be with someone who likes being with me a little, at least some of the time.
 
Marilyn Monroe said:
Sounds boring to me.:( I'd rather be with someone who likes being with me a little, at least some of the time.
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It's one of those things you get done, then get on back to what you were doing. It's not like a date or anything. There is not, nor should there be, any emotional attachment what so ever.
 
Skateguy said:
It's one of those things you get done, then get on back to what you were doing. It's not like a date or anything. There is not, nor should there be, any emotional attachment what so ever.
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Why?

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