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Of course miscommunication happens. That doesn't somehow mean we need major change or something. The man makes a move in and the woman says no or turns her head or does something similar and the situation is over. What you have been talking about this whole time in now TWO threads is the asshole that wouldn't obey your rules anyway.
I would say that 30-90 million women experiencing sexual assault is pretty good reason for major change.
What about when a dude makes a move and the woman says no or turns her head but her other body language is (apparently) makes it obvious (to you) that she likes it? Is it ok to carry on then?
Or, maaaybe..... like you say, "miscommunication happens". Maaaaaybe.... like Josie says, "you have to learn how to talk to your partner". Maybe, when someone says stop, pushes off or turns away, no matter what you think about the situation or read into body language, you don't really know what the other person is thinking and should just ask. Or would that ruin too much of the fun??