Jane
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1.) That you are ignorant of the subject and harbor angry biases? I do understand that. My question is why are you this way?
2.) My wife had a hysterectomy, her vagina is now a "dead end pouch." Does that make her "less of a woman" to you?
3.) Should we call ourselves "Notgirls and notwomans" to make you feel better?
1.) I have a suspicion that you can tell I'm not ignorant about this subject, so it's probably not the best strategy for you to pretend that I am. But whatever works for you, I suppose.
2.) If a man loses his testicles due to cancer or an accident, does that make him a woman all of a sudden? If a woman loses her ovaries, does she suddenly switch sexes and become a man by default? If someone has a leg amputated does he lose membership in that group of mammals called bi-pedal humans? No, no and no.
Conversely, if I could have plastic ball-shaped objects attached to my nether regions (hey, they can do it with dogs!!) would you refer to them as "testicles?" No, of course not. If a man can have a opening surgically constructed which he will have to manually dilate for the rest of his life to keep his body from closing it off as it would any other large wound, would you call that hole a "vagina?" I don't know about you, but I would not. And that is not being "ignorant," as you put it; it is just recognizing reality. Of course, YMMV.
3,) If by "we" you are saying you are transgender, then you are "transgender." As a member of the female sex, I have a word that has always applied to me, "woman." What's the argument here?