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Guy Poses As A Woman On A Dating Site And Learns Just How Gross Dudes Are

Women have been telling us this for years. Why do we need a guy to experience it before we believe them?
 
Okay, I had to check before responding to make sure this wasn't the humor section.

I've never been on a "dating" website. I've never understood it, just like I don't understand Facebook, Twitter, and why people drink 5 Hour Energy and Red Bull.

Judging by the guy who faked being a woman, and my assumption that equally ugly males need to use dating websites, I am not surprised that responses like this are coming from the lowest common denominators.
 
"If you were a washing machine I'd put my dirty load in you"?

Really?

What do you do if she says "OK"?
 
Korimyr the Rat said:
Women have been telling us this for years. Why do we need a guy to experience it before we believe them?
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Well, truth be told, you actually have to listen to a woman before you can get around to believing her.:lol:
 
Captain Adverse said:
Okay, I had to check before responding to make sure this wasn't the humor section.

I've never been on a "dating" website. I've never understood it, just like I don't understand Facebook, Twitter, and why people drink 5 Hour Energy and Red Bull.

Judging by the guy who faked being a woman, and my assumption that equally ugly males need to use dating websites, I am not surprised that responses like this are coming from the lowest common denominators.
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I mean this in the most inoffensive way possible: You sound old.
 
Captain Adverse said:
Okay, I had to check before responding to make sure this wasn't the humor section.

I've never been on a "dating" website. I've never understood it, just like I don't understand Facebook, Twitter, and why people drink 5 Hour Energy and Red Bull.

Judging by the guy who faked being a woman, and my assumption that equally ugly males need to use dating websites, I am not surprised that responses like this are coming from the lowest common denominators.
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You don't understand why people drink red bull? Are you unfamiliar with the concept of coffee as well?
 
Crovax said:
You don't understand why people drink red bull? Are you unfamiliar with the concept of coffee as well?
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Yeah. I don't drink coffee either, or alcohol for that matter. They both taste like crap, and coffee has the added negative of needing sugar to make it palatable. :shrug:
 
Sherman123 said:
I mean this in the most inoffensive way possible: You sound old.
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I guess I'm an outlier than, I am not that old, and I dislike Social Media in general, I don't care what is going on at this very moment in someone else's life however I do see Twitter as a good why to get half decent news quickly, and see no purpose in drinking Red Bull for the most part, I feel worse after the crash.
 
Korimyr the Rat said:
Women have been telling us this for years. Why do we need a guy to experience it before we believe them?
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Why should it even be necessary for women to tell us?

Hell! Even as a man, all you've really got to do is simply pay attention to how certain other men around you behave to see what's up.

I've spent eight years in the military, and I work around a Hell of a lot of cops at my present job as well. To say that a lot of the "Alpha Male" types these fields tend to attract can be absolutely douchebags when it comes to women would be a bit of an understatement.

The kind of "bros" you run across online aren't going to be much better. That's not even getting into the "creepers" - who know damn well that they've got no shot, but simply get off on making people uncomfortable - either.
 
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Lutherf said:
"If you were a washing machine I'd put my dirty load in you"?

Really?

What do you do if she says "OK"?
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Give her four quarters for that dollar?
 
Captain Adverse said:
Okay, I had to check before responding to make sure this wasn't the humor section.

I've never been on a "dating" website. I've never understood it, just like I don't understand Facebook, Twitter, and why people drink 5 Hour Energy and Red Bull.

Judging by the guy who faked being a woman, and my assumption that equally ugly males need to use dating websites, I am not surprised that responses like this are coming from the lowest common denominators.
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To be honest, it's a THE way to date nowadays. Especially for older folks as you can cut the bull****, say what you want, and interact with other eligible singles.

There's not really much to "get"- going on several dates a week is interesting to say the least. They don't all bear fruit, but who cares ? It's a good way get to meet other people who share common interests.

That being said, there's some risk involved. People can be strange, manipulative, or disgusting.

Your implication that online dating attracts the lowest common denominator is profoundly despicable. Online dating is more than for the "desperate"- it's for anyone in the 21st century who is serious about dating. Going to bars, talking to random people ? That's for suckers.
 
radcen said:
Guy Poses As A Woman On A Dating Site And Learns Just How Gross Dudes Are

Guy Poses As A Woman On A Dating Site And Learns Just How Gross Dudes Are
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Yup... And trust me, there's even worse out there. I had a guy explicitly ask me if I'd have revenge sex with him against his cheating wife once. I actually responded and told him sure, and could I bring 'round my cute friend too? The idiot actually thought I was serious. I was so stunned I couldn't think of a response to keep the joke up with.

It is rough for nice guys out there, because it really is so hard for them to find people for reasons that no one can really control.

Women can't reasonably respond to as many messages as they get. Just not enough hours in the day. In many cases, they can't even respond to all of the nice messages they get. So they just kinda have to pick a few, based on whatever relatively arbitrary criteria seem best to them.

Not a ton most women can do about that. And therefore not a ton most men can do about that.

Personally, I don't have this problem as much as most. I have my filters set extremely strictly, and I am already in a very small pool. I also have to admit I use intentionally weird pictures. All of that tones down my inbox a lot -- probably 80% less than when I had a more standard profile in a more standard dating pool. And that meant I could respond to most nice messages I got, and I did get about 90% nice messages. But even then, I still had too many to actually go on dates with everyone who seemed like they might be interesting.

But this isn't something all women can do, in terms of narrowing their focus. I happen to be in the pool that I'm in, and that's really the biggest bulk of the reduction for me.

Korimyr the Rat said:
Women have been telling us this for years. Why do we need a guy to experience it before we believe them?
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This. And people wonder why those in socially denigrated groups get so pissed off. It only counts when someone else reports it.
 
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Captain Adverse said:
Yeah. I don't drink coffee either, or alcohol for that matter. They both taste like crap, and coffee has the added negative of needing sugar to make it palatable. :shrug:
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Both are delicious, and coffee is fantastic black.
 
Gathomas88 said:
Why should it even be necessary for women to tell us?

Hell! Even as a man, all you've really got to do is simply pay attention to how certain other men around you behave to see what's up.

I've spent eight years in the military, and I work around a Hell of a lot of cops at my present job as well. To say that a lot of the "Alpha Male" types these fields tend to attract can be absolutely douchebags when it comes to women would be a bit of an understatement.

The kind of "bros" you run across online aren't going to be much better. That's not even getting into the "creepers" - who know damn well that they've got no shot, but simply get off on making people uncomfortable - either.
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What I don't get is why this stupid experiment gets done from time to time, and why the man/men doing the experiment are always shocked at the result. Have they even been around other men in their life? How in the **** are they surprised by how some men behave in these kind of situations?
 
Captain Adverse said:
Yeah. I don't drink coffee either, or alcohol for that matter. They both taste like crap, and coffee has the added negative of needing sugar to make it palatable. :shrug:
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Your taste buds are wrong.
 
Your Star said:
Both are delicious, and coffee is fantastic black.
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I tried to come up with a "how I like my men" joke but it's hard to do that for you.
 
The guy was on Tinder, a dating app mainly used for casual sex. What exactly was he expecting?
 
I actually did that on Plenty of Fish...as Denise.

The lady I was dating and my best lady friend were telling me stories I just had to find out for myself.

Yes, a few were gross, but the norm were just plain dumb. Only sending, Hey, how's it goin' messages that said nothing about the woman's profile and what she wrote.

Others that asked question that were already answered in her profile, proving they only looked at the picture before writing.

Most were completely lazy and could not string a few word together into a discernible sentence. You know they have the ability, but just don't want to bother. That tells the lady a whole lot about what they think of her.

I met my wife on Plenty of Fish and she told me the one thing she liked best about my initial contact was that I sent here two short paragraphs and included things she mentioned in her profile.

"Denise" was so good, she even had two guys ask for help on their profiles. Which she gave.

Then there was this one contrarian who was telling my lady friend one thing, and telling Denise something the complete opposite. We set each other's laptops right next to each other and laughed our asses off. He told my friend he would not have sex with anyone he met on-line for at least a month, and then told Denise he wanted to bang her that night.

I should write a book.
 
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