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Erotic Attraction to Another Race/Culture/Ethnicity

foadi said:
when i was a kid i used to have a pretty bad asian fetish. prolly sparked by spending summers in HK with my aunt and uncle. used to almost exclusively watch asian porn, started visiting asian massage parlors when i was 15, saved up everything i could as a teenager and moved to asia at 18 to go on a massive sex binge. was absolutely obsessed.

nowadays, i don't think i have any racial or cultural preference.
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Now that I am old and turning gray a bit, I am extremely attracted to intelligent females and repulsed by stupid ones.

If I have a weakness though it is for intelligent Persian women.
 
How many people have noticed that when they were younger, finding someone you thought was attractive was pretty stinking difficult, but now that you're older it seems that everywhere you turn there's a hoard of attractive candidates seemingly waiting for attention?
 
Riveroaks said:
Holy thread resurrections Batman !!

Visual physical attraction is a sign of immaturity and adolescence.
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If you were to say that being attracted SOLELY to physical attributes I could see the validity in such a statement but the fact is, we're wired that way, and females are wired the opposite way, and the difference is a complimentary one.

We tend to see looks first, then find deeper attraction to the inner qualities whereas women are generally attracted to the inner qualities first.
Don't forget, the thread is asking about EROTIC attraction, not deep long term attraction.
 
Checkerboard Strangler said:
If you were to say that being attracted SOLELY to physical attributes I could see the validity in such a statement but the fact is, we're wired that way, and females are wired the opposite way, and the difference is a complimentary one.

We tend to see looks first, then find deeper attraction to the inner qualities whereas women are generally attracted to the inner qualities first.
Don't forget, the thread is asking about EROTIC attraction, not deep long term attraction.
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Many philosophies decry eroticism as an entrapment and enslavement of the flesh.

Boyz are susceptible. Men who are still boyz are also susceptible. Mature grown men are no longer susceptible.
 
Riveroaks said:
Many philosophies decry eroticism as an entrapment and enslavement of the flesh.

Boyz are susceptible. Men who are still boyz are also susceptible. Mature grown men are no longer susceptible.
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An en--WHAT of the WHAT?
Am I having a debate with one of the Duggar Family?? :lamo

Buddy, if you're here to wave a cross and preach about enslavement of the flesh please do carry on but don't expect me to take you seriously because I've accepted full responsibility for whatever "enslavement" my flesh tricked me into a long long time ago and yet somehow that "big guy" some of us call God managed to bless me with the best spouse I could ever hope for and two wonderful kids, and no small amount of security for the future ANYWAY.

And I didn't need a bible-thumper to enslave me into their cult of personality.
You enjoy your theocratic enslavement all you want. But my advice is, change the channel, you're in the wrong room!
 
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Riveroaks said:
Visual physical attraction is a sign of immaturity and adolescence.
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Honestly, this is one of the most ridiculous statements I have seen on here. Men respond to visual stimulus. Men of all ages. Denying this is a sign of immaturity.
 
We're in the SEX and SEXUALITY forum being lectured to by some bible thumping prude.
Riveroaks, if you don't like sex, and you don't like eroticism, then you're only here to piss on the rest of the participants.
I call that poor sportsmanship at the very least.
 
foadi said:
Honestly, this is one of the most ridiculous statements I have seen on here. Men respond to visual stimulus. Men of all ages. Denying this is a sign of immaturity.
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Boys of all ages -- sure. You are right about that.

Men not -- you cannot call a fool a man.

If a woman can fool you then you are not a man you are a fool.
 
Checkerboard Strangler said:
An en--WHAT of the WHAT?
Am I having a debate with one of the Duggar Family?? :lamo

Buddy, if you're here to wave a cross and preach about enslavement of the flesh please do carry on but don't expect me to take you seriously because I've accepted full responsibility for whatever "enslavement" my flesh tricked me into a long long time ago and yet somehow that "big guy" some of us call God managed to bless me with the best spouse I could ever hope for and two wonderful kids, and no small amount of security for the future ANYWAY.

And I didn't need a bible-thumper to enslave me into their cult of personality.
You enjoy your theocratic enslavement all you want. But my advice is, change the channel, you're in the wrong room!
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Hey if you want to chase girlies for their good looks go ahead by my guest.

Just don't try to pretend it is smart.

All you will reap is lust, habit, enslavement, and probably divorce when you do.
 
Dragonfly said:
Is it "normal" to have an almost extreme sexual/erotic attraction to someone from a completely different culture and of a different race/ethnicity?

As a WASP(technically speaking), I find the Asian race/culture to be oh so freakin' hot !!!!! :shock:

I don't know where that feeling comes from, or why, but it's truly there.

Do you have the same kind of thing happening? Do you have a "extra" erotic attraction for a different race?
That's not to say you don't find, or can't find something sexually attractive about any/all races, but is there one specific race that kinda makes things tingle a bit faster than others?

Do you know why?

Or is your main "eroti-fantasy attraction" someone of your own ethnicity/culture/race?
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Id say its normal as pie cause you are one of millions like you . . :shrug:
I personally think its unhealthy and very weird to be just attracted to your own race but thats just my opinion. It may not be something people can control? I doubt it but you never know.

I myself if we are talking physical am VERY happy to be attracted to BEAUTY . . PERIOD. white black yellow blue green could never have an impact on that. . i actually have no ability to understand it or even make that matter to whatever part of my brain that makes me attracted to a woman and see beauty.
 
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