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Erotic Attraction to Another Race/Culture/Ethnicity

Dragonfly said:
Is it "normal" to have an almost extreme sexual/erotic attraction to someone from a completely different culture and of a different race/ethnicity?

As a WASP(technically speaking), I find the Asian race/culture to be oh so freakin' hot !!!!! :shock:

I don't know where that feeling comes from, or why, but it's truly there.

Do you have the same kind of thing happening? Do you have a "extra" erotic attraction for a different race?
That's not to say you don't find, or can't find something sexually attractive about any/all races, but is there one specific race that kinda makes things tingle a bit faster than others?

Do you know why?

Or is your main "eroti-fantasy attraction" someone of your own ethnicity/culture/race?
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Eh. I'm not necessarily sure if this counts (as they're generally still classified as being 'Caucasian,' if not necessarily of the 'lilly white' variety), but I have a bit of a thing for "swarthy" women. That goes for Latinas, Mediterraneans, Middle Easterners and Israelis (so long as the nose isn't too out there, in any eventuality), and even certain varieties of Indians.

Asians can be really cute, but they're usually a bit thin for my tastes. African Americans, on the other hand, are a bit too stocky for me to really be drawn towards. Though... It is worth noting that I have met some very petite and fine featured African American women that I was absolutely nuts over. They're just kind of few and far between.
 
Dragonfly said:
Is it "normal" to have an almost extreme sexual/erotic attraction to someone from a completely different culture and of a different race/ethnicity?

As a WASP(technically speaking), I find the Asian race/culture to be oh so freakin' hot !!!!! :shock:

I don't know where that feeling comes from, or why, but it's truly there.

Do you have the same kind of thing happening? Do you have a "extra" erotic attraction for a different race?
That's not to say you don't find, or can't find something sexually attractive about any/all races, but is there one specific race that kinda makes things tingle a bit faster than others?

Do you know why?

Or is your main "eroti-fantasy attraction" someone of your own ethnicity/culture/race?
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YES, Dragonfly, it is Viva Le Differance(sp) !

In the Navy I saw it all the time and in every port of call.

I could not get laid in Norway to save my life, but the black guys were pulling more tail that a toddler at a petting zoo.

In the Caribbean, I got all I could stand, and the black guys were mostly out of luck.

NONE of us wanted to get laid in Africa or India. The crap you could get there scares the **** out of penicillin. Ever hear of black water disease. You rot from the inside and your urine turns black. You are also not allowed to ever leave the country. You have to stay there till you die.

In the Orient (Asia) everyone got laid. I was once talking to some good ol' boys who said they thought Japanese women looked like *******, and would not have anything to do with them. That is until they got there and found out how incredibly beautiful they all were.

Your lustful thoughts are quite normal and not at all different, but actually quite common.

PS...there were also hundreds of Korean and Japanese women just waiting for an American to wed them. They make wonderful wives, as I have seen myself.

You will be KING-FOR-LIFE in their eyes. Just ensure you are worthy of their devotion. Every man should have a Korean mother-in-law.
 
BrewerBob said:
Well hell, then any sexual preference can be a fetish I guess. I like a woman with a nice butt and breasts as well. That must be a fetish. Most women like men who are taller than them. I guess they have a tall fetish.
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Those could be viewed as fetishes. But even those don't have the impact racial fetishes do. I mean Jesus Christ look at the porn industry
 
instagramsci said:
The fact you have to qualify that you found a "couple black girls" attractive doesn't help your case
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THERE IS NO CASE !

A person's sexual attraction is their own completely personal realm.

The "Guvmint", politicians, and the PC police have ZERO business going there.

Hold onto your hat, I am about to tell you something that will knock you backward in your chair. Completely NON-PC, but it was her own private fantasy and she knew I was the kind of man to have it come true for her.

She was a young black woman I knew in Houston. Her fantasy was to be a sex toy of a white slave master. She could not tell anyone about it, and was a bit trembling when she told me. She then was immediately relieved when I let her know I could have it be a reality for her and we talked over the details.

I never used the N word, was always dominant but respectful, and brought out a much thicker southern accent that I have, which is none. I even bought her a tattered full slip for her to wear when she came to "Masta's " bedroom for inspection.

We played her fantasy two times and that was it. She was happy.

AT NO TIME, could she tell this very non-PC fantasy to anyone but me.

I am NOT telling you this to ask you to believe me, I am telling you this to let you know a person's sexual fantasies and attractions are their's and their's alone, and PC be damned.

People feel and want what they want.

I leave you with three words from the BDSM community. SAFE, SANE, and CONSENSUAL. Although I have heard of a few consensual things that had to be stopped by the club for legal reasons.
 
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RetiredNSmilin said:
THERE IS NO CASE !

A person's sexual attraction is their own completely personal realm.
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I value nothing you have to say about sexuality. especially after that man bun thread fiasco
 
instagramsci said:
I value nothing you have to say about sexuality. especially after that man bun thread fiasco
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after the "sexual preferrence = racism" bull**** that you spouted in this thread, I dont think anyone here is going to value your thoughts on sexuality either.
 
instagramsci said:
The fact you have to qualify that you found a "couple black girls" attractive doesn't help your case
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I had to? I said my tastes were MAINLY geared, as in, I have historically found that for every black girl I found attractive, I found 20 more white girls attractive. Of course, I guess you could make the argument that it could just be my lack of exposure to black girls compared to white girls (a side effect of living in the USA suburbs?)...
 
Luftwaffe said:
after the "sexual preferrence = racism" bull**** that you spouted in this thread, I dont think anyone here is going to value your thoughts on sexuality either.
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It is not just sexual preference. It's a preference based

on

Race/ethnicity
 
Apparently, black girls need some kind of white guy dick affirmative action program, because "RACISUM!!!1!!!1"

I guess I really have heard it all. :roll:
 
instagramsci said:
It is not just sexual preference. It's a preference based

on

Race/ethnicity
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Good grief. So someone is attracted to Black, Asian, Native American, Latino, whatever. Not everything is racism. Frigging loony left sees a microagression at every turn, even in the bedroom.

No wonder I am considering to vote Republican.
 
Gathomas88 said:
Apparently, black girls need some kind of white guy dick affirmative action program, because "RACISUM!!!1!!!1"

I guess I really have heard it all. :roll:
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Next thing you'll know it'll be homophobic if a dude prefers girls over boys.
 
Gathomas88 said:
Apparently, black girls need some kind of white guy dick affirmative action program, because "RACISUM!!!1!!!1"

I guess I really have heard it all. :roll:
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Our resident misogynist chimes in with his hot take
 
I used to have a thing for redheads until I married one...now the only good redhead is my daughter. :D

All jesting aside (I don't really think all redheads are evil), there are people who have a "type" and, in fact, most people do. The type isn't necessarily your own race, culture, creed, etc.
People are attracted to what people are attracted to. Unless it makes you act with some real hate towards those outside your "type" there really is nothing unnatural or wrong about it.
My brother and several other American males (and probably some females as well) share your fascination with Asian women.

I, personally, find most members of the opposite sex fascinating in one fashion or another. Sometimes in bad ways but mostly in good ways. :)
I have found, for me, that trying to "make it work" with someone I have very little to nothing in common with is self destructive in the worse way.
 
instagramsci said:
I value nothing you have to say about sexuality. especially after that man bun thread fiasco
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Everyone else is free to read the BLUE last part in my signature line to see what he is talking about. Having sex with men does NOT make you gay....REALLY? Your buddy Absentglare posted that jewel of incomprehesable logic.

PS...instagramsci...With your judgmental attitude I can see why that young attractive black woman chose to reveal her hidden fantasy to me rather than people like you.
 
instagramsci said:
I value nothing you have to say about sexuality. especially after that man bun thread fiasco
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...AND I can see why you would completely disagree with me. When will you be made the High Commissar of the Thought & Preference Police.
 
RetiredNSmilin said:
Everyone else is free to read the BLUE last part in my signature line to see what he is talking about. Having sex with men does NOT make you gay....REALLY? Your buddy Absentglare posted that jewel of incomprehesable logic.

PS...instagramsci...With your judgmental attitude I can see why that young attractive black woman chose to reveal her hidden fantasy to me rather than people like you.
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I don't see sigs on tapatalk so I don't know what you're referring to

And forgive me for thinking you pulled that story out of your ass
 
instagramsci said:
I don't see sigs on tapatalk so I don't know what you're referring to

And forgive me for thinking you pulled that story out of your ass
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( Excuse me, I will be back in a few....)

(running down the stairs to the basement of my mind)

hmmm....let me see now....I looked over the fine print of the records of my thoughts and personal experiences, and I do not see where your permission is needed to negate what actually happened, or what I personally think.

I apologize, but I looked really hard, but found NO REQUIREMENT for your approval to what really happened to me, NOR to what I believe or think.

Sorry.
 
Ntharotep said:
I used to have a thing for redheads until I married one...now the only good redhead is my daughter. :D

All jesting aside (I don't really think all redheads are evil), there are people who have a "type" and, in fact, most people do. The type isn't necessarily your own race, culture, creed, etc.
People are attracted to what people are attracted to. Unless it makes you act with some real hate towards those outside your "type" there really is nothing unnatural or wrong about it.
My brother and several other American males (and probably some females as well) share your fascination with Asian women.

I, personally, find most members of the opposite sex fascinating in one fashion or another. Sometimes in bad ways but mostly in good ways. :)
I have found, for me, that trying to "make it work" with someone I have very little to nothing in common with is self destructive in the worse way.
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Two ex-wife redheads and a current blonde wife who would pass for one with a quick die job. I'm a masochist, I believe.
 
Ntharotep said:
I used to have a thing for redheads until I married one...now the only good redhead is my daughter. :D

All jesting aside (I don't really think all redheads are evil), there are people who have a "type" and, in fact, most people do. The type isn't necessarily your own race, culture, creed, etc.
People are attracted to what people are attracted to. Unless it makes you act with some real hate towards those outside your "type" there really is nothing unnatural or wrong about it.
My brother and several other American males (and probably some females as well) share your fascination with Asian women.

I, personally, find most members of the opposite sex fascinating in one fashion or another. Sometimes in bad ways but mostly in good ways. :)
I have found, for me, that trying to "make it work" with someone I have very little to nothing in common with is self destructive in the worse way.
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Don't get me going about redheads. I rode that roller coaster for quite a few years. It was fun, but I have found a red head is an attitude and not just a hire color. One lady I knew got divorced in a small Iowa town, and not much happened dating wise. hen she changed her hair to red, and she got hit on by everyone she knew almost. Human sexuality is funny that way.

As for "the kid ", I found a good South Dakota brunette of fine peasant stock, and have not looked back. She was 13 before they even had a flush toilet. Even as I type this she is out back burning pine straw and pine cones in the burn barrels because she LIKES IT !
 
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