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Before the feminists rant and rave about the MRI or whatever, this is truly about sexism against men so heart me out.
I have a friend named James. He had been dating a fellow named Will for a few years. I've known James for many years, I met Will shortly after James did. Well seemed like an easy going fellow, only two years older than James who just turned forty last year. They got married in August. And after nearly four years his relationship changed. Just before they were married James was laid off.
He took a job as a valet. And all the sudden things changed. Anyway Will became extremely verbally abusive toward James in my presence. It got to the point I didn't want to see Will when I visited with James. I used to see him every day and now he disappears for weeks at a time no calls or anything. I got a call last week from him. He needed a ride to the hospital. He had a work related injury. Before I took him home he literally broke down to tears. Turns out Will has been abusing him. I try to talk him into staying with us. But he is scared because well would know exactly where to look. I try to tell him Will would regret starting things with us. But he must go back home. So I call the domestic abuse hotlines and they almost laugh at me when I explain.
Why is it a laughing matter when domestic abuse is directed at men?
I have a friend named James. He had been dating a fellow named Will for a few years. I've known James for many years, I met Will shortly after James did. Well seemed like an easy going fellow, only two years older than James who just turned forty last year. They got married in August. And after nearly four years his relationship changed. Just before they were married James was laid off.
He took a job as a valet. And all the sudden things changed. Anyway Will became extremely verbally abusive toward James in my presence. It got to the point I didn't want to see Will when I visited with James. I used to see him every day and now he disappears for weeks at a time no calls or anything. I got a call last week from him. He needed a ride to the hospital. He had a work related injury. Before I took him home he literally broke down to tears. Turns out Will has been abusing him. I try to talk him into staying with us. But he is scared because well would know exactly where to look. I try to tell him Will would regret starting things with us. But he must go back home. So I call the domestic abuse hotlines and they almost laugh at me when I explain.
Why is it a laughing matter when domestic abuse is directed at men?