SmokeAndMirrors
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I have no idea what you think you are talking about. I explained with some detail why I only care about what the person I am dealing with wants, not what everyone else in their life wants.
with a few exceptions "crappy" is left up to each person to define for themselves. I want everyone to have what they want, and the closer each person is to me the more I care about what they want and feel an obligation to help them get what they want. I care about what the woman I am having sex with wants a whole lot more than what her husband wants, for example.
And other people disagree with you and think that's a bunch of self-justifying BS that lets you pretend you somehow weren't involved in a situation you explicitly created. We're allowed to think that. This is a debate forum, dude.