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Ancient Herald

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I have a question i'd like to ask of the ladies.

if a guy has a good sense of humor and makes you laugh, how likely is that to influence your choice to have sex with him?

And will it be a factor in influencing your choice to get into a committed and serious romantic relationship?

And will this sense of humor influence the physical attraction?
 
Ancient Herald said:
I have a question i'd like to ask of the ladies.

if a guy has a good sense of humor and makes you laugh, how likely is that to influence your choice to have sex with him?

And will it be a factor in influencing your choice to get into a committed and serious romantic relationship?

And will this sense of humor influence the physical attraction?
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Not at all. Plenty of charming people are not necessarily nice people.

There is no secret code to getting into women's pants. Attraction is unpredictable, and humans make decisions for a multitude of reasons both logical and not, and you will probably never know exactly why she made the decision she did. In some cases, you probably don't want to know anyway.
 
making a woman laugh-

unzip and show her your short comings!!!! :shock:

I wish to hell there was a magic formula for getting any woman into bed- fact is women are not rote robots who all trigger the same way each and every time. Some love a bad boy and some a provider. Some like serious and some love to laugh. Some want a bad boy for a long sweaty weekend and a nice guy for the weekdays and of course to take home and meet the family.

I just got my then future wife drunk enough to say, 'what the hell' and go for it but not so drunk she puked on my shoes.... ;)
 
Ancient Herald said:
I have a question i'd like to ask of the ladies.

if a guy has a good sense of humor and makes you laugh, how likely is that to influence your choice to have sex with him?

And will it be a factor in influencing your choice to get into a committed and serious romantic relationship?

And will this sense of humor influence the physical attraction?
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It's already been said , but all women are not the same nor do they respond similarly to different men. So setting out to be purposely humorous in order to charm women you may not know very well, will not likely result in your desired outcome. Especially if it's forced or comes across as a ploy.

Just be yourself and listen to what women tell you. If you aren't interested in what interests them, jokes aren't going to work any better.
 
SmokeAndMirrors said:
Not at all. Plenty of charming people are not necessarily nice people.

There is no secret code to getting into women's pants. Attraction is unpredictable, and humans make decisions for a multitude of reasons both logical and not, and you will probably never know exactly why she made the decision she did. In some cases, you probably don't want to know anyway.
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This. Nothing more creepy than people who think there is a "secret code" that will get you into a woman's pants. It's rather dehumanizing, if you think about it.
 
Your Star said:
This. Nothing more creepy than people who think there is a "secret code" that will get you into a woman's pants. It's rather dehumanizing, if you think about it.
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Exactly. If all these guys want is a hunk of meat to ****, just get a fleshlight and play some porn in the background, because obviously they have no interest in an actual human beings. If they don't see women as human beings, get a therapist, Even a hook-up should involve at least a passing acknowledgement of someone's humanity and respecting their wishes from any man even passably sociable or sane.
 
I doubt there are many women out there that will just jump into bed with some guy because he has a sense of humor. NOT having a sense of humor, though, can certainly be a deal breaker for many.
 
Ancient Herald said:
I have a question i'd like to ask of the ladies.

if a guy has a good sense of humor and makes you laugh, how likely is that to influence your choice to have sex with him?

And will it be a factor in influencing your choice to get into a committed and serious romantic relationship?

And will this sense of humor influence the physical attraction?
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There's no question that a good sense of humor is listed on the asset side in score keeping for possibles. As far as it being easier to get in a girl's pants with a good sense of humor . . . Let me just say that if you've invested in clown shoes, you've probably wasted your money.
 
Ancient Herald said:
I have a question i'd like to ask of the ladies.

if a guy has a good sense of humor and makes you laugh, how likely is that to influence your choice to have sex with him?

And will it be a factor in influencing your choice to get into a committed and serious romantic relationship?

And will this sense of humor influence the physical attraction?
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Good sense of humor . . . meaning what exactly?

There's the jerkwad that laughs AT you and makes for OF you - "It was just a joke, babe" and odds are he can't take it.
Then there's the level-headed guy who has a good sense of humor about things without going too far in either direction.

The 2nd is desirable - the 1st is not.

And I loath too much of anything. If a guy tries to be a comedian, even if he's not insulting about it at all, it'll grow old pretty damned quick.

The main thing is being able to roll with the undoubted **** that life will bring without it bringing you down or pushing each other apart.
 
Your Star said:
This. Nothing more creepy than people who think there is a "secret code" that will get you into a woman's pants. It's rather dehumanizing, if you think about it.
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Is there a not secret code? :2razz:

But seriously, it's not about "getting into pants" for most guys over the age of 30. It's very hard to figure out what to say to a woman you are attracted to though, precisely because you don't want to come off as creepy. When the first thing you see about someone is a physical attractive quality, it's hard to figure out what to say that somehow taps into their inner beauty, intelligence, strength, etc... that you have yet to experience.
 
Ancient Herald said:
I have a question i'd like to ask of the ladies.

if a guy has a good sense of humor and makes you laugh, how likely is that to influence your choice to have sex with him?

And will it be a factor in influencing your choice to get into a committed and serious romantic relationship?

And will this sense of humor influence the physical attraction?
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To me, a sense of humour is very important, however I would not jump into bed with a man because he has a sense of humour. Then again, I would not jump into bed with any man until I was either married to him, or so damn close to the wedding day that it was a done deal. I am not the type to snap open the legs because some man smiled at me or could make me smile. But, that's just me :)
 
WI Crippler said:
Is there a not secret code? :2razz:

But seriously, it's not about "getting into pants" for most guys over the age of 30. It's very hard to figure out what to say to a woman you are attracted to though, precisely because you don't want to come off as creepy. When the first thing you see about someone is a physical attractive quality, it's hard to figure out what to say that somehow taps into their inner beauty, intelligence, strength, etc... that you have yet to experience.
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For most guys that try to act a certain way or another it's more about them not knowing what to do and trying to raise their chances of catching her interest. Men get shot down a lot and some men a considerable amount more than the average, so they try to figure out what works for guys that are actually getting women interested in them and act in whatever way they think will work. It's not some evil scheme for most guys to get in her pants, but just to stand a chance.
 
Henrin said:
For most guys that try to act a certain way or another it's more about them not knowing what to do and trying to raise their chances of catching her interest. Men get shot down a lot and some men a considerable amount more than the average, so they try to figure out what works for guys that are actually getting women interested in them and act in whatever way they think will work. It's not some evil scheme for most guys to get in her pants, but just to stand a chance.
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The most powerful aphrodisiac a man can have in his arsenal is the ability to help make a woman feel good about herself when she's with him.
 
MaggieD said:
The most powerful aphrodisiac a man can have in his arsenal is the ability to help make a woman feel good about herself when she's with him.
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But every woman has that point where she realizes her worth doesn't just equate to what he thinks of her.

Then all hell breaks loose and he complains 'you don't care about me' - demoted.
 
Your Star said:
This. Nothing more creepy than people who think there is a "secret code" that will get you into a woman's pants. It's rather dehumanizing, if you think about it.
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I disagree. I find it very human. We are animals with a massive amount of evolution, many sexual animals have mating rituals. Because primates are not an exception to this, humans do to. I don't think there is a trick but I absolutely believe there is a formula. There are more things to consider than just the moment, which men tend to over look.
 
Ancient Herald said:
I have a question i'd like to ask of the ladies.

if a guy has a good sense of humor and makes you laugh, how likely is that to influence your choice to have sex with him?

And will it be a factor in influencing your choice to get into a committed and serious romantic relationship?

And will this sense of humor influence the physical attraction?
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Jeeze A.H.

You sound like you DON'T know women very well or sex very well either.

Women have sex when they are turned on to it.

They get turned on to it for the following reasons:

1 - the guy is as handsome as the new Canadian P/M Trudeau.

2 - the guy is rich with a mansion and they want to move into it.

3 - the guy is rich and although lives in a flat he has a nice import car and he buys them lots of expensive jewelry.

4 - the guy is famous and they want to be famous too.

5 - you look like the girl's/lady's father and she loved him not hated him.

6 - the girl is really horny and drunk.

7 - you paid the working girl what she wants for the trick.

For you, I think #6 and #7 are your best bets.

:D
 
CLAX1911 said:
I disagree. I find it very human. We are animals with a massive amount of evolution, many sexual animals have mating rituals. Because primates are not an exception to this, humans do to. I don't think there is a trick but I absolutely believe there is a formula. There are more things to consider than just the moment, which men tend to over look.
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CLAX, based on your experience, are you talking about heterosexual animals or homosexual animals ??

Because there is a world of difference between the two.

A.H. the O/P is trying to understand getting laid by the opposite sex. Not by the same sex.
 
Aunt Spiker said:
But every woman has that point where she realizes her worth doesn't just equate to what he thinks of her.

Then all hell breaks loose and he complains 'you don't care about me' - demoted.
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Auntie S, I take it that you are talking about when a relationship finally breaks down and gets to the shouting stage ??

There are always several phases to any relationship --

1 - the romantic phase

2 - the shacking up phase

3 - the meet the relatives phase

4 - the tie the knot phase

5 - the having kids phase and raising them together

6 - the empty nest phase

7 - the retirement phase.

In each of those phases as the relationship progresses it has to deal with internal and external pressures and stressors.

I have never tied the knot so I only know up to #3.

But I am practically an expert at those first 3 therefore.

Been there done that with about 100 different women. Not as many as an NBA all star but not a modest number either.

Both my sisters have gotten through all the phases except retirement, my middle sister once, and my youngest sister twice.

So what I know about #4 onward is from watching them.

Poor A.H. the O/P is just thinking about sex.

Sex is the attractant is all. A relationship involves a whole lot more than sex.

Eventually the sex becomes ho/hum. Even with some of the most beautiful lovers.

I would not focus on the sex -- my suggestion.

And if A.H. IS focused on the sex, then catch a plane to Vancouver Canada or Las Vegas Nevada and get a hooker.
 
MaggieD said:
The most powerful aphrodisiac a man can have in his arsenal is the ability to help make a woman feel good about herself when she's with him.
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So you are looking for a guy who is nice and polite and flattering, huh Maggie ??

Wow !!! You're easy !!!

No jewelry huh ???

No mansion ???

No expensive car ???

Not famous ???

My kind of girl.

They don't make them like that in American much any more.

Very sad that they don't too.

:D
 
Henrin said:
For most guys that try to act a certain way or another it's more about them not knowing what to do and trying to raise their chances of catching her interest. Men get shot down a lot and some men a considerable amount more than the average, so they try to figure out what works for guys that are actually getting women interested in them and act in whatever way they think will work. It's not some evil scheme for most guys to get in her pants, but just to stand a chance.
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So, I was in a bar recently (as usual) having dinner and some drinks, and this babe in her late 30's (too young for me but I look young too -- no grey) sat next to me and started up an idle conversation.

At some point she asked me if I thought there was anything better than sex?

I told her -- yah -- alcohol is better than sex !!

She said "that's pathetic!"

End of conversation.

It is true however. Everything is better with alcohol, including sex, and alcohol is just fine by itself.
 
Your Star said:
This. Nothing more creepy than people who think there is a "secret code" that will get you into a woman's pants. It's rather dehumanizing, if you think about it.
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I still remember those stupid ads near the back of magazines about;

a) how to Hypnotize Women and get them to do your bidding
b) this new pheromone scent will get women to find you irresistible
c) 5 PROVEN techniques to bed women
d)...ect...ect...ect...

They all make the same ASSumption all women are completely alike. Which tells me their authors do not know a damned thing about women if they think that.

I CAN tell you one thing I did that worked to get sex once I was already in a relationship with my lady that was pretty much foolproof.....Do household chores

Wash the dishes, vacuum the rug, do some laundry, cook a nice dinner and then also clean up afterward. Every one of them also loved a good massage that did NOT lead to sex, but let her just relax and enjoy the calm a good massage does after a long day. I learned to do that when I lived in Japan. It comes in very handy.

THAT was 100% effective for sex later that day, but even better in cementing the relationship. Something as simple as helping around the house seems to turn most of the women I have known on for some unknown reason to me.

I am not ashamed to say with my wife, it was the fact I just love to cook, and cook almost 100% of the meals in the home. She grew up on a farm with a big family, and absolutely LOVES to just sit down to a nice dinner already made, and knows she does not have to do the dishes either.

When we were dating and living in sin (oh yeah) I had retired early while she was still working. When she came home dinner was ready for her in about 20 minutes.
 
Riveroaks said:
CLAX, based on your experience, are you talking about heterosexual animals or homosexual animals ??
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What do you think my experience is?

Because there is a world of difference between the two.

A.H. the O/P is trying to understand getting laid by the opposite sex. Not by the same sex.
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What makes you think I never have been with the opposite sex?
 
I just know it was really nice to have a steady girlfriend.

Someone who in the morning, I could roll over and whisper in her ear, " Good morning, Beautiful "

instead of, " Have I paid you yet? "
 
RetiredNSmilin said:
I still remember those stupid ads near the back of magazines about;

a) how to Hypnotize Women and get them to do your bidding
b) this new pheromone scent will get women to find you irresistible
c) 5 PROVEN techniques to bed women
d)...ect...ect...ect...

They all make the same ASSumption all women are completely alike. Which tells me their authors do not know a damned thing about women if they think that.

I CAN tell you one thing I did that worked to get sex once I was already in a relationship with my lady that was pretty much foolproof.....Do household chores

Wash the dishes, vacuum the rug, do some laundry, cook a nice dinner and then also clean up afterward. Every one of them also loved a good massage that did NOT lead to sex, but let her just relax and enjoy the calm a good massage does after a long day. I learned to do that when I lived in Japan. It comes in very handy.

THAT was 100% effective for sex later that day, but even better in cementing the relationship. Something as simple as helping around the house seems to turn most of the women I have known on for some unknown reason to me.

I am not ashamed to say with my wife, it was the fact I just love to cook, and cook almost 100% of the meals in the home. She grew up on a farm with a big family, and absolutely LOVES to just sit down to a nice dinner already made, and knows she does not have to do the dishes either.

When we were dating and living in sin (oh yeah) I had retired early while she was still working. When she came home dinner was ready for her in about 20 minutes.
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Nice story Sailor !!

Once I brought home this lady (a lady is an unmarried female human who is no longer a girl but not yet a woman because woman is old English for wife) from a disco.

She liked to disco dance partner style (where you hold hands and do complicated steps like in salsa dancing) which I was good at because I took salsa and disco classes.

So the way to her heart was dancing.

When we got to my place, the way to her heart was white wine laced with white rum.

When we woke up in the morning, having been up most of the night boinking, she said she was really hunger, so I made her sausage and eggs for breakfast.

So the way to her heart was food, and we went back to bed and more boinking.

So you are right Popeye, that FOOD works like a charm too.

But so does dancing and also alcohol.

And as I said, everything goes better with alcohol.
 
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