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I still get "handsome", even at my age, only God knows why. Personally, I think I look like I have been rode hard and put away wet.
I think it's easy to think "tasteful and classy" when thinking of pretty and "slutty" when thinking of sexy, but I wasn't necessarily looking at it that way. I've heard women say they think funny is sexy many times and as I've mentioned earlier in this thread, some even think Abe Lincoln was sexy, which is to say that I think sexy people often do have admired and/or respectable traits. On the flip side, I've known good looking people who aren't very respected because some believe that they got to where they are based on their looks. And then of course there's envy.
At 66, I would say the objective would be to be perceived at all.
Two love??
Would you rather be perceived as pretty (or handsome for guys) or sexy? In this case you can't be both.
I think I'd describe myself as sexy. I'm 5'8" tall...wear lots of leggings and boots, dress upscale blingy, and tend to command a room with confidence. I've got swagger, yes I do.
I mean, you asked . . .
I think I'd describe myself as sexy. I'm 5'8" tall...wear lots of leggings and boots, dress upscale blingy, and tend to command a room with confidence. I've got swagger, yes I do.
I mean, you asked . . .
Would you rather be perceived as pretty (or handsome for guys) or sexy? In this case you can't be both.
I think I'd describe myself as sexy. I'm 5'8" tall...wear lots of leggings and boots, dress upscale blingy, and tend to command a room with confidence. I've got swagger, yes I do.
I mean, you asked . . .
You are so awesome! I need to get some swagger. I just feel ridiculous if I try to act "sexy." One of these days.
The thing that I always hated when I first started going out a lot with my friends was they would always talk about how hot or great they looked, and then tell me how "cute" I am. All the time. "Cute." Not hot, or sexy, or anything. Just cute. Like kittens or toddlers in snowsuits. "Cute."
How embarrassing. Like take your little sister to work day. I hated that.
Don't complain. Beauty fades, but cutes are forever.
You are so awesome! I need to get some swagger. I just feel ridiculous if I try to act "sexy." One of these days.
The thing that I always hated when I first started going out a lot with my friends was they would always talk about how hot or great they looked, and then tell me how "cute" I am. All the time. "Cute." Not hot, or sexy, or anything. Just cute. Like kittens or toddlers in snowsuits. "Cute."
How embarrassing. Like take your little sister to work day. I hated that.
Cute isn't bad! Some guys actually find the cute look sexy.
Don't complain. Beauty fades, but cutes are forever.
I would describe myself as...the rugged type. I mean, I do clean up nice, and I DO have to dress up for work. But I'm the dude that mostly wears blue jeans and a plain white T. I've got big, rough hands. My stubble can light a match. I often have motor oil rubbed in deep into the cracks and lines in the skin on my hands. I'm not a jock, though I used to be. I'm not thin, but I'm not fat. In short, I'm just a big, rough around the edges dude. My wife tells me I'm handsome AND sexy. I suppose it's her job. I don't think I'm all that handsome, as I never got a lot of tail in highschool and college...and I figure, if I were a looker, I would have gotten more. I DO think I'm sexy, to a certain demographic of woman...the kind that wants a MAN, not some pretty, delicate metro sexual.
Okay. I shouldn't even talk about this stuff. It hurts my brain.
I would describe myself as...the rugged type. I mean, I do clean up nice, and I DO have to dress up for work. But I'm the dude that mostly wears blue jeans and a plain white T. I've got big, rough hands. My stubble can light a match. I often have motor oil rubbed in deep into the cracks and lines in the skin on my hands. I'm not a jock, though I used to be. I'm not thin, but I'm not fat. In short, I'm just a big, rough around the edges dude. My wife tells me I'm handsome AND sexy. I suppose it's her job. I don't think I'm all that handsome, as I never got a lot of tail in highschool and college...and I figure, if I were a looker, I would have gotten more. I DO think I'm sexy, to a certain demographic of woman...the kind that wants a MAN, not some pretty, delicate metro sexual.
Don't believe me? All right. There were two women who played on a TV show named "Gilligan's Island" years ago. The characters they played were "Ginger" and "Mary Ann", and they sparked the "Ginger or Mary Ann" debate, wherein guys were asked who they would rather be with. "Ginger", played by Tina Louise, was the sexy movie star type. "Mary Ann", played by Dawn Wells, was the cute girl next door type. Almost every guy who has ever voted in this debate voted for Mary Ann, and for the final definitive evidence, the last time I saw a picture of Dawn Wells, she was past 70 and STILL cute. Tina Louise, not so much.
Coincidence? I think not.
Don't believe me? All right. There were two women who played on a TV show named "Gilligan's Island" years ago. The characters they played were "Ginger" and "Mary Ann", and they sparked the "Ginger or Mary Ann" debate, wherein guys were asked who they would rather be with. "Ginger", played by Tina Louise, was the sexy movie star type. "Mary Ann", played by Dawn Wells, was the cute girl next door type. Almost every guy who has ever voted in this debate voted for Mary Ann, and for the final definitive evidence, the last time I saw a picture of Dawn Wells, she was past 70 and STILL cute. Tina Louise, not so much.
Coincidence? I think not.
I would have had Ginger for sure.
Red heads are my cryptonite.
The professor was the way to go. Did he ever get the girls? He should have.
He was too geeky.
...respect pretty, and exploit sexy.