A bit "overhyped," to be honest.
Don't get me wrong. I did pretty well for my first time, and it was certainly fun. However, it wasn't what I'd describe as being "intimate," and hardly came off as anything particularly world changing as such. My ultimate impression was that it was something I could really sort of "take or leave."
I felt a bit more confident and at ease with women in general afterwards, and less like I had something to hide around guys my own age. I guess that's something, at the very least. :shrug:
Exactly. If all I'm after is a quick orgasm, I can take care of that myself without having to go through a fraction of the hassle and fuss involved with trying to coax a girl into bed. Hell! Given how awkward the first time having sex with any particular partner tends to be, it might even be more pleasurable, on the whole, to simply go solo.
Making a human connection is nice. However, that's ultimately rather hollow if all one's looking to do is have a one off experience. I'd much rather just have someone to hang out with on the regular.