But we got curious recently.
I understand.
Pretty clear,
In order to avoid getting hurt from miscommunication a written format is proposed. But why a written
contract versus a conversation to get these things off one's chest?
Contracts are legally binding:
Contract | Define Contract at Dictionary.com
Elaborate please,
1) What could they be offering that is then withdrawn if the rules in the contract are broken? Love? Or some other tangible thing that would then guarantee that people remain in the contract? How about money?
2) No sex for a week hurts both parties!
Versus,
Creating a legal contract that tells you exactly what to expect inside the box, with penalties should one be unpleasantly surprised that it did not turned out to be as the producer of the boxes promised to be like. It does objectifies the relationship a bit.
But what is wrong with opening the box, looking what is inside, and closing it if one does not likes it, even if it happens to be done during the weekend or celebrations like Valentine's day then?
The issue seems to be structure and security in relationships. So the contract is offered as a solution.
It is not unheard of. Couples in ME countries take these kind of vows and get temporarily engaged. They sign contracts and the government then enforces the arrangement.
But I am against 3rd parties being involved in the intimacies of people's relationships. I also suggest you seek comfort (or help) with trusted people.