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The "Gay Agenda"[W:504]

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The recent issue with Jenner has caused my mind to swirl with a lot of different thoughts. In a broad sense, about the general hypocrisy that seems to abound with it (topic for another thread)....but specific to this, regarding a notion of the "gay/homosexual agenda".

For the years I've been on this board I've seen the notion thrown out often in various threads. Typically from some highly religious and/or highly right wing person screaming it as some kind of clarion call to stand against some kind of "evil" or "immorality". These types of claims also tend to generate a typical response often from the left, largely mocking the notion of such an "Agenda" with my memory recalling individuals in the past claiming these is no such thing. That they are simply looking for their "rights".

I've generally never really gave it much of a thought. I don't think Gay people are some grand threat to the union or some great beast that must be beat back.

However, over the past few weeks with Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner, it's become apparent...there most definitely is a "homosexual agenda".

The "LGBT rights movement" is absolutely not just about "rights" in this country. Not at all. And the recent instances with Jenner are a primary example of this. All the talk over these past months, and over this recent cover photo, isn't primarily focused about whether he/she has a "right" to do this. Rather, its attempting to suggest that it should be viewed as "moral". That society should view it as "normal". That she should be considered a "hero". That no one should be "bothered" by it.

Those are not talking about "rights". Those are also not instances looking simply for "tolerance". This is an active and purposeful attempt to mold and alter shared societal mindset on this issue in the direction the LGBT community and it's supporters feels is "correct". This is an active and purposeful attempt to alter the shared morality that binds the culture within the United States in the direction they feel is morally "correct" or "good".

That is exactly what most of those that for years have been screaming about the "gay agenda" have been talking about; and the exact thing I've seen so often dismissed as somehow non-existant.

There's three general ways we as a soceity could be looking at the LGBT community and things surrounding it...

1. We could put focus on it, showing digust, disdain, and/or disapproval.

2. We could put focus on it, showing support, adulation, and praise.

3. We could simply not focus on it in any real fashion at all.

For many years in this country, undoubtably option 1 was how it was often treated. And I'd dare say now, such action is what's incompassed when people talk about the "homophobic/transphobic".

But just as people are always very apt to label those of group 1....I don't really see how group 2 can't or shouldn't be labeled as something like the "gay agenda". Like option one, it is attempting to forcefully inject it's moral views regarding the issue into the population in an attempt and desire for their view to spread across the culture to become the default view.

This is not to say that somehow the "gay agenda" is bad. This post is offering no such evaluation of the "worth" of the views amongst anyone on any side of this. And undoubtably, people who hold options 1 or 2 as their own views likely feel that their particular view is the actual "correct" one. What this thread is more doing is simply exploring this concept I've heard over the years that somehow the notion of "the gay agenda" is a laughable, non-sensical, non-existing thing.

It's absolutely and abundantly clear to me, following everything with Jenner, that there is a large segment of the population that unquestionably is looking to push a MORAL...not simply constitutional...agenda when it comes to the LGBT community; which is the very notion being expressed by the notion of the "gay agenda". Whether said agenda is right or wrong is an entirely different debate....but going forward, I'm firmly of the mind that said agenda exists.

So since this was mostly me rambling rather than really making any kind of coherent question or topic, I guess I'll finish with a question.

To those who typically warn of a "gay/homosexual agenda": Is this what you mean by the term? The idea of a systematic and wide spread push by government, the media, and/or pockets of society to instill a moral belief throughout our culture?

To those who believe there is no "gay/homosexual agenda": How do you figure? How do you square a notion that it's simply about constitutional rights in relation to other things pushed by the movement/suppoters of the movement that have nothing to do, or tangental at best, to constitutional rights?
 
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In Jenners case. Pure un adulterated attention whoring at its finest. Period.
 
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To those who typically warn of a "gay/homosexual agenda": Is this what you mean by the term? The idea of a systematic and wide spread push by government, the media, and/or pockets of society to instill a moral belief throughout our culture?

I don't know if I've ever used the term, but, broadly - yes. It's a deliberate (though not directed) attempt to replace older cultural and moral norms with new ones, using a variety of strategies (whether shaming, attacks, public pressure, negative media obsession, or legal coercion) to punish heretics of the new default belief system.
 
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As far as I am concerned, number 3. I simply don't care about it one way or another. At all. It's a non-event to me.
 
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The recent issue with Jenner has caused my mind to swirl with a lot of different thoughts. In a broad sense, about the general hypocrisy that seems to abound with it (topic for another thread)....but specific to this, regarding a notion of the "gay/homosexual agenda"......

Your primary mistake is to lump all LGBT people, and even just those who are involved with activism, into a single lobby with a single agenda of priorities and proposals. You'll find as much diversity of agenda within gay politics as you will within feminism, anti-racism or just politics in general. Pretending that there is a single agenda is both simplistic and reductionist. LGBT people do not have 'an agenda', it simply doesn't exist and what you cite as the position of LGBT supporters (or, in your inaccurate analysis 'the left', whatever you mean by that) is a ridiculous dualistic and inaccurate way to approach the subject.

Where there is an element of accuracy in your post is where you identify the emergence into the public debate on LGBT issues of the issue of the appalling treatment of trans people that still happens. Many issues of equality for lesbians and gay men have been resolved or are in the process of being so, but that emphatically isn't the case for our trans brothers and sisters. Real persecution and real prejudice and discrimination is both accepted and pervasive. That has to be tackled and with the SSM debate dying down somewhat in most civilised countries, more effort is being employed by diverse groups and individuals towards this glaring situation. It shouldn't have waited this long. There's a lot of disagreement with LGBT politics about the fact that the SSM issue has been all-pervasive and of top priority for too many organisations - see? The LGBT 'agenda' that you seem to be convinced exists, is a whole spectrum of different agendas and priorities held by hundreds of different groups, organisations and individuals.

Another mistake you make is in misinterpreting some of those 'agenda' points. The LGBT struggle has never been simply about constitutional rights, nor about imposing an alternative 'morality' onto society. There are two terms you use that many people involved in LGBT activism have no truck with: 'morality' and 'normality'. Both are subjective terms, we all have our own definitions of those words. Speaking as an individual, there's no consensus on this that I've ever come across with LGBT activism, I'm more engaged with simply ensuring society applies its expressed ideas of equality of treatment under the law erm, equally. If you're read many debates here on SSM you'll know that I'm not a fan of marriage, whether it be for LGBT people or straight people, but if it remains as an institution in which the state is involved, its benefits have to be available to everyone equally. That's not imposing some alternative morality, or creating new definition of 'normality' but ensuring that society jettisons hypocrisy, and has its feet held to the fire to apply the morals, values and ethics it claims for itself.

A lot of people here seem to be approaching the Jenner case as if it is a test case for the treatment of trans people in general. It's not. It's just one case, and a particularly atypical one at that. I understand why trans people are engaging with the discussion about Jenner. I've disagreed with a lot of stuff I've heard on all sides. I watched a debate on BBC2's Newsnight programme the other night where the issue was discussed and there was one trans journalist apparently making the Jenner case some kind of touchstone for the state of play for trans people in general. A NYC-based trans activist was much clearer that this is all being filtered through the distorting influence of reality TV and the ghastly Kardashian industry. Notice a trend here? There's no single LGBT agenda.

The last thing that strikes me about claims about an LGBT agenda is that the word 'agenda' seems to have a pejorative connotation. Am I imagining that? Or is it seen as something subversive for a group or an individual to even have 'an agenda'?
 
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If their agenda is wanting society to accept them as normal then I am ok with that agenda.
 
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1. Jenner is trans which is not the same as gay so anything involving her transition would not be considered part of a "gay agenda", whether or not such an agenda exists.

2. In terms of a "gay agenda" which would refer to an agenda involving gay/homosexual people, I would say that there is an "agenda" in the sense that many/most gay people want equal rights and to be accepted by society. Many of them also want to do eliminate the notion that their relationships and sex lives are "immoral" and "perverse" since those ideas are the very basis for discrimination against them and for other problems straight people cause them.

3. The reason people oppose the term "gay agenda" is because of the conspiratorial nature of the phrase and because it often used to refer to the supposed desire of gay people to "convert" everyone to their sexuality and the mythical pedophilia that gay people supposedly embody. In other words, when people say there is a "gay agenda", they usually aren't just innocently saying that gay people are trying to increase acceptance of gay people, they're also saying that gay people are trying to molest children and turn everybody gay. That's a problem.
 
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My impression is that gay people almost universally have an "agenda" of wanting their lifestyle choices to be accepted as normal by society in general and they would support institutions and lobby groups which pursue that educational goal. I don't agree with that but in itself I can't claim that it's an "agenda" in the way in which the OP describes the term.

On issues like SSM, I accept that there will always be diversity of opinions among the gay community, like in every group. However, I would say that gay lobby groups have an agenda. Inevitably, a group of paid professionals working for an interest group will have an agenda that they are paid to pursue, day in and day out. This agenda will represent to varying degrees the whole of the group it claims to represent.

Part of the Stonewall agenda (the most powerful gay lobby group in the UK), in my view, is to build a consensus first within the gay community for the whatever legislative innovation its board decides to support, in the name of equality. I deduce that this happened after the civil partnerships became legal (like civil marriage but without the marriage label) in the early 2000s. Shortly after, the push for gay marriage materialised and SSM was done and dusted legislatively within 10 years of civil partnerships. Given how similar civil partnerships and marriage are, in the eyes of the law, it makes you wonder why civil partnerships were lobbied for in the first place, and then gay marriage almost immediately afterwards.

We are used to seeing Stonewall posters in the UK telling us that "some people are homosexual : get over it". On Tuesday, I saw one in the college I go to which said : "Some gay people get married : get over it." It's only 2 years since it became legal in the UK but the whole of society is being told to "get over it" at breakneck speed.

In the pipeline will be genetically engineered 2-dad babies, which scientists are now working on so that two gay men can have a baby (obviously via a surrogate mother) which contains the genes of both of them. 3 parent babies are now legal in the UK. When the technology for 2-dad babies comes on stream, I suspect that Stonewall will mobilise opinion to see this as yet another equality issue i.e. if straight people can do it, why can't gay people?

And so this is the logic of the equality agenda. Any opposition is characterised as homophobia, a term which must get the prize for the most frequent change of definition. I would say that nowadays, people with responsible positions who speak out against SSM or other claimed rights will be hounded and characterised by the media and the gay community as homophobic and suffer significant consequences. The success of the gay lobby is now having a chilling effect on public discourse.

And as the various gay cake legal actions demonstrate, gay lobby and equality groups are quick to use the law to get their way - no painstaking hearts and minds strategies for them. It's a cultural and legal war. They're winning.
 
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Oh the horrors when gay and lesbian people want to be accepted as normal by society.....
 
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Oh the horrors when gay and lesbian people want to be accepted as normal by society.....


I think many would like not to be risk being beaten up, fired, tossed out of their apartment, or being denied seeing their partner in the hospital , merely because they are gay.
 
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I mean by that phrase just what Justice Scalia meant by it in his dissenting opinion in Lawrence v. Texas a dozen years ago:

"Today's opinion is the product of a Court . . . that has largely signed on to the so-called homosexual agenda, by which I mean the agenda promoted by some homosexual activists directed at eliminating the moral opprobrium that has traditionally attached to homosexual conduct."
 
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1. We could put focus on it, showing digust, disdain, and/or disapproval.

2. We could put focus on it, showing support, adulation, and praise.

3. We could simply not focus on it in any real fashion at all.

We did number 1 for a very very long time. Now we're doing 2 in order to achieve a final result of 3. 2 makes 3 happen. It's a process.

If their agenda is wanting society to accept them as normal then I am ok with that agenda.

Let's go one step further. The agenda is wanting society to no longer inaccurately portray and treat them as abnormal. It's not about society benevolently offering an olive branch. It's about society correcting a mistake it's been making for a very long time.
 
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All I hear is about the damn "gay" agenda. Why must every group that is only connected by sexuality have an agenda. Do heterosexuals have an agenda ? Asexuals ?
Arbitrarily grouping people together that may have nothing to do with each other is inane. The few things that most homosexuals desire is not being treated subhuman . iI not being treated less than human shunned or hidden away considered an agenda then it is , but then almost every group of people have said agenda , besides those who are in the social norm
 
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All I hear is about the damn "gay" agenda. Why must every group that is only connected by sexuality have an agenda. Do heterosexuals have an agenda ? Asexuals ?
Arbitrarily grouping people together that may have nothing to do with each other is inane. The few things that most homosexuals desire is not being treated subhuman . iI not being treated less than human shunned or hidden away considered an agenda then it is , but then almost every group of people have said agenda , besides those who are in the social norm
It's an agenda if you want to re-shape societal perceptions in your favour in an orchestrated fashion. Many people can see that the gay agenda exists - that's the issue of the thread.
 
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I don't know if I've ever used the term, but, broadly - yes. It's a deliberate (though not directed) attempt to replace older cultural and moral norms with new ones, using a variety of strategies (whether shaming, attacks, public pressure, negative media obsession, or legal coercion) to punish heretics of the new default belief system.

It's actually an attempt to remove older immorality.

Society shunning or placing taboos in things like homosexuality doesn't do society any good.
 
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In Jenners case. Pure un adulterated attention whoring at its finest. Period.

I don't think Jenner will ever actually have a period.

Too old.
 
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I mean by that phrase just what Justice Scalia meant by it in his dissenting opinion in Lawrence v. Texas a dozen years ago:

"Today's opinion is the product of a Court . . . that has largely signed on to the so-called homosexual agenda, by which I mean the agenda promoted by some homosexual activists directed at eliminating the moral opprobrium that has traditionally attached to homosexual conduct."
Attempting to keep the moral opprobrium that has been traditionally attached to "homosexual conduct" (whatever the Hell that is) is every bit as much of an agenda.

The only difference is that one agenda has a noble cause and the other one doesn't. Sticking to tradition for the sake of tradition clearly isn't a noble cause.
 
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To those who believe there is no "gay/homosexual agenda": How do you figure? How do you square a notion that it's simply about constitutional rights in relation to other things pushed by the movement/suppoters of the movement that have nothing to do, or tangental at best, to constitutional rights?
A person recognizing my right to get married, but then spitting in my face because I'm married to another man, it is still a big ****ing deal to me.

You're darn right that I'm going to make that a moral cause.
 
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It's an agenda if you want to re-shape societal perceptions in your favour in an orchestrated fashion. Many people can see that the gay agenda exists - that's the issue of the thread.

Attempts to de-stigmatize do not represent an attempt to shift perceptions "in favor" so much as it is an attempt to address the arbitrary bigotry of unthinking people who base their discrimination on dogma. Seeking To remove unfair treatment is not the same as seeking preferential.
 
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It's actually an attempt to remove older immorality.

Society shunning or placing taboos in things like homosexuality doesn't do society any good.

:shrug: at least you are open about it, though you misdescribe it in the way he was using it.

If you'd like, I can rant about how you are trying to replace morality with immorality. It just wont' do us any good.
 
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Anytime you hear someone screaming about the "____ agenda" they're tacitly admitting that the default is the straight, rich, white, Christian male agenda.
 
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Attempting to keep the moral opprobrium that has been traditionally attached to "homosexual conduct" (whatever the Hell that is) is every bit as much of an agenda.

The only difference is that one agenda has a noble cause and the other one doesn't. Sticking to tradition for the sake of tradition clearly isn't a noble cause.

I think most adults know what homosexual conduct consists of. And I don't see what is so noble about removing the opprobrium that has traditionally attached to it. Changing tradition for the sake of change clearly isn't a noble cause, either. Nothing makes the approval of homosexual acts inherently more valid than the disapproval of those acts as immoral, any more than it is inherently more valid to approve of adult incest, or bestiality, or polygamy than to disapprove of those acts as immoral. Acts that deviate from the norm do not become normal just because a minority insists loudly enough that they are.
 
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Let's go one step further. The agenda is wanting society to no longer inaccurately portray and treat them as abnormal. It's not about society benevolently offering an olive branch. It's about society correcting a mistake it's been making for a very long time.

I suppose almost anything could be made "normal" by torturing that word far enough. But if homosexual acts were really the norm for any organism that reproduced sexually, that organism would be unlikely to reproduce itself often enough to survive. The fact some small percentage of people has regularly engaged in a certain sexual behavior throughout recorded history does not make that behavior normal, in any reasonable sense of that word. Some small percentage of people has almost certainly engaged in incest throughout history, too, but most of us would not say that makes incest the norm for sexual behavior.
 
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To those who believe there is no "gay/homosexual agenda": How do you figure? How do you square a notion that it's simply about constitutional rights in relation to other things pushed by the movement/suppoters of the movement that have nothing to do, or tangental at best, to constitutional rights?

and it will still be rejected because theres no logic and rational behind it . . where the instant fail is lumping gays all together . .

if you think a person has an agenda thats fine and i will gladly admit that is the case with some PEOPLE

the bottom line is there is factually no unified agenda any more than thier is a white agenda, black agenda, christian agenda etc etc etc

if there is a gay agenda there is an agenda for everything and pointing that out like it is special or unique or bad or agaisnt other agendas is still just as meaningless

so thats how i figure there is none because there isnt. . if there was you or anybody would be able to tell me what it factually is and how its unique and different to anything else Americans/people want . . this cant be done
 
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:shrug: at least you are open about it, though you misdescribe it in the way he was using it.

If you'd like, I can rant about how you are trying to replace morality with immorality. It just wont' do us any good.
it would be incorrect, so sane your breath.
 
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