German guy
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- Berlin, Germany
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Simple question, with a pretty simple hypothetical scenario. Let us say you are single, and you have made your perfect mate. They're attractive, funny, smart, and agree with you on almost everything. Rarely ever a moment do you two fight or argue, everything between you two is bliss. Complete and utter happiness. (Hell even your sex-life has never been better.) Until one day, your SO tells you a secret. A secret they were horrified to share with you. They are a Transexual Post-op person. Would you still be with this person knowing full well they used to be a different gender?
Well, depends. When she isn't capable of having children, that's a killer, regardless if she's transgender or not. Because children are extremely important for me and that's nothing I would give up for my partner. But since I am currently married and have a (first) child, asking this hypothetical question for the hypothetical case I'd have to look for a new partner AND have children already -- I guess in that case, it wouldn't matter if she's transgender.
Btw, a similar thing happened to me: A former girlfriend of mine at some point found out she's transgender and wanted to become a dude. Our romantic relationship ended, but he's still a very close friend and was my best man at my wedding. So in the end, not *that* much changed between us, except that our close relationship no longer was a romantic and sexual one.
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