Women are not afraid of intimacy because we are conditioned to deal with intimacy. Men do not have to deal with intimacy on a level women do. Now I am not talking about sex and getting to know and love one another it goes much deeper than that. Lemme make a few points.
1. Women have to deal with crap stained underwear and nasty smelling socks generally left anywhere but the laundry basket. Do we complain hell yes! However we do clean said items because it give us some much needed alone time with the spin cycle on our Maytags.
2. Women have to deal with a man have enough noises coming out of their orifices (Belching, farting, snoring, snorting, scratching) while they sleep to scare off any creature with in a light year of the bedroom. Why do you think aliens skip this planet. They think a good portion of the human race is undeveloped and they are better off skipping to the next planet.
3. Forgetting birthdays, anniversaries, valentines day, dinner with the in-laws, anything we women hold dear. However I have a theory that men don't forget because they sure as hell can tell you who threw the winning pass in the 1979 Super Bowl, when opening day of baseball. Yet we still put up with it.
4. Sex yes I have to make some points here! One we get the worst end of the deal ( Please don't take that literally boys) after sex. Two things happen here. The First, after the 5 to 10 minutes of pleasure we get to spend the night on a fully used condom that leaves a rash on our back from the latex that even Kaboom cant get off. Second, this one I truly dread with a passion after sex a guy can just roll over, however we get to lay in a little puddle of spooge for the rest of the night see the above about the rash.
These are just a few of the intimacies we share with men. Like I stated above we are conditioned for this and we love to talk about it because we know how defensive men are about these things that is intimacy. The only reason men know half our secrets is because we usually divulge them when we are yelling at them for the stupid crap they put us through like the above. However, we have secrets you will never know, and with just one look we can relay that fact in the most devastating manner.
Now lets say we flipped the coin and I left my blood stained panties on the couch you just paid 4000 dollars for and then you had to pick them up and wash them, granted you would not get the benefit of the spin cycle. How would you like it when I started recalling the last ten years of Days of our Lives like it was game seven of the freaking world series? Finally how you like it if women made you roll over in the little gift you left after sex and made you sleep in it and then talk about it the next morning. My bet is any man would run from this and when I mean run you would make Usain Bolt look like a turtle crossing the road.
That my over fed ogers is what intimacy is! Those little thing that drive us mad but yet we are still there in the morning to kiss you and wish you well. Men are conditioned to run from intimacy because they are scared of what women are capable of telling them!
I could go on but I am almost out of wine and I am tired.