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Why Do Men Run Away From Intimacy?

EcoFemSoc said:
Piousness is the pinnacle of humiliation. It shows that men would rather look inwards rather than outwards for support.
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Well our pious men here have voted that women can't be bishops...What does your gender have to do with it??
 
EcoFemSoc said:
Piousness is the pinnacle of humiliation. It shows that men would rather look inwards rather than outwards for support.
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Got a link that can validate that? Although I noticed you avoided the Asian men. Lets take that a bit further with those who have lived an entire life in martial arts. That live Right here in the US. Most not all if they are serious about such a path. Are well developed. Physically, mentally, and spiritually. So there goes your theory of the man that looks within.
 
MMC said:
Who said anything about masturbating......looking back in the your thread. Can you show me where I said such a thing? I doubt so! Moreover why would you even bring it up over an issue of sensitivity. Just how did you come up with something about masturbation.

Course when one is surrounded by women. Why would there be a need to masturbate. Have you been around those have been locked up and around those that don't know how to deal and approach women?

Define intimacy and lets see you start from there. Rather than try to come off with the quick wit. Intimacy has nothing to do with how each person judges the world. Yes people meet at love with first sight. This does not mean that they can be fully intimate with one another. From the get go.
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People who are comfortable with themselves do what else besides masturbating?

Intimacy is about embracing each other wholeheartedly, and yes, that deals with worldview. Worldview is the rhythm and style in how people choose to embrace.

People who are locked up struggle to approach because they're unfamiliar. They lack the right worldview to rhythmically and stylistically embrace others.
 
EcoFemSoc said:
Hmmmmm.

I never really understood this. Men are usually more excited, but when they're approached, they turn away. It's like they're afraid of too much of a good thing.

I think they're afraid of showing what they have, and they think they're giving women a taste of their own medicine sometimes too.

I wish men would relax more often. It would make things so much easier. Maybe the problem is they can't because they've been so ingrained to be well-behaved?

They're probably afraid of exploding and getting in trouble, or maybe it's that they're afraid of scaring a woman off, so they don't bother trying.

Who knows.
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It is probably three things. In many families males are trained not to show emotions anyway; they are brought up totally by women when they are young and vulnerable and know how those people treat them; they are expected to take the initiative and accept a kick in the testicles as if it's jolly fun. It ain't.
 
MMC said:
Got a link that can validate that? Although I noticed you avoided the Asian men. Lets take that a bit further with those who have lived an entire life in martial arts. That live Right here in the US. Most not all if they are serious about such a path. Are well developed. Physically, mentally, and spiritually. So there goes your theory of the man that looks within.
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You don't want to know what I think about Asian men. Some of my worst experiences have been with them.

Martial arts are smug exhibitionism. If Asian men were really intimate, they would dance instead.
 
I don't know whether going at the gym counts as "martial arts" since it does gives one power to move things (like people) to other positions at will. But yeah I look inwards, wont mind outwards look if offered. What does all this has to do with intimacy though?
 
Penderyn said:
It is probably three things. In many families males are trained not to show emotions anyway; they are brought up totally by women when they are young and vulnerable and know how those people treat them; they are expected to take the initiative and accept a kick in the testicles as if it's jolly fun. It ain't.
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I do feel sorry for those men who had terrible childhood experiences with women, but I wish they understood all women aren't the same. :(
 
EcoFemSoc said:
You don't want to know what I think about Asian men. Some of my worst experiences have been with them.

Martial arts are smug exhibitionism. If Asian men were really intimate, they would dance instead.
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What sort of bad experiences with Asian men did you had? I ask cause Asian women seem rather appealing.

How is intimacy related to dancing?
 
DDD said:
I don't know whether going at the gym counts as "martial arts" since it does gives one power to move things (like people) to other positions at will. But yeah I look inwards, wont mind outwards look if offered. What does all this has to do with intimacy though?
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How can someone be intimate without outwardly embracing someone else?
 
EcoFemSoc said:
I do feel sorry for those men who had terrible childhood experiences with women, but I wish they understood all women aren't the same. :(
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I understand you aren't the same like other women Eco. Do you have a picture of you?
 
EcoFemSoc said:
People who are comfortable with themselves do what else besides masturbating?

Intimacy is about embracing each other wholeheartedly, and yes, that deals with worldview. Worldview is the rhythm and style in how people choose to embrace.

People who are locked up struggle to approach because they're unfamiliar. They lack the right worldview to rhythmically and stylistically embrace others.
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People who are comfortable with themselves are such men who are not Trembling to walk up to the Star Icon to make a move. Meaning the prettiest woman with flawless beauty in a room. Don't know where you got such an absurd idea that it means masturbation. We are talking about men that can operate in any environment. Although operate really isn't the intention. Just that they are not affected by such.

Intimacy has nothing to do with a worldview nor it's rhythm and style in how people to chose to embrace.

Intimacy is on a personal level.

It is clear you don't have a clue about people that are locked up.
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DDD said:
What sort of bad experiences with Asian men did you had? I ask cause Asian women seem rather appealing.

How is intimacy related to dancing?
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Send me a PM if you really want to know.
 
EcoFemSoc said:
I do feel sorry for those men who had terrible childhood experiences with women, but I wish they understood all women aren't the same. :(
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I feel sorry for women that haven't been around enough men to know anything about them or to even understand them to a point as that is about all they can do. But then try to paint men all the same. Since they are not a man and cannot think like one. Vice versa too.
 
MMC said:
People who are comfortable with themselves are such men who are not Trembling to walk up to the Star Icon to make a move. Meaning the prettiest woman with flawless beauty in a room. Don't know where you got such an absurd idea that it means masturbation. We are talking about men that can operate in any environment. Although operate really isn't the intention. Just that they are not affected by such.

Intimacy has nothing to do with a worldview nor it's rhythm and style in how people to chose to embrace.

Intimacy is on a personal level.

It is clear you don't have a clue about people that are locked up.
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What do you believe personality is besides worldview?
 
MMC said:
I feel sorry for women that haven't been around enough men to know anything about them or to even understand them to a point as that is about all they can do. But then try to paint men all the same. Since they are not a man and cannot think like one. Vice versa too.
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Can you stop copycatting me and say something constructive for once?
 
DDD said:
What sort of bad experiences with Asian men did you had? I ask cause Asian women seem rather appealing.

How is intimacy related to dancing?
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Asian women are usually ''married'' by their families..especially the Pakistani's who have a habit of marrying their cousins..ad infinitum..which is resulting in a great number of handicapped children being born to them over here..
 
wolfie said:
Asian women are usually ''married'' by their families..especially the Pakistani's who have a habit of marrying their cousins..ad infinitum..which is resulting in a great number of handicapped children being born to them over here..
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Where is "here?"
 
EcoFemSoc said:
Can you stop copycatting me and say something constructive for once?
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I have been saying something constructive to you. All along. So need to whine. You just don't like what is being said to you. Moreover I am not copycatting you evidenced by the posts. Seems you want to cast assumptions on men that you do not know anything about and attempt to discuss such over your own experiences. Either way I don't play the way you do.

As for personality. Each individual is a product of their environment. Moreover those who have lived in completely different environments does not mean that they took anything from that environment. Nor did it per se affect them to initiate some change within themselves nor others. So again this blows that theory you have out of the water.

Care to try again?
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MMC said:
I have been saying something constructive to you. All along. So need to whine. You just don't like what is being said to you. Moreover I am not copycatting you evidenced by the posts. Seems you want to cast assumptions on men that you do not know anything about and attempt to discuss such over your own experiences. Either way I don't play the way you do.

As for personality. Each individual is a product of their environment. Moreover those who have lived in completely different environments does not mean that they took anything from that environment. Nor did it per se affect them to initiate some change within themselves nor others. So again this blows that theory you have out of the water.

Care to try again?
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I don't much care for you at all. You're boring.
 
DDD said:
Where is "here?"
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55% of British Pakistanis are married to first cousins and the tradition is also common among some other South Asian communities and in some Middle Eastern countries.

But there is a problem: marrying someone who is themselves a close family member carries a risk for children - a risk that lies within the code of life; within our genes.

Communities that practice cousin marriage experience higher levels of some very rare but very serious illnesses - illnesses known as recessive genetic disorders.
 
EcoFemSoc said:
I don't much care for you at all. You're boring.
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Oh......then there "IS", a lesson you can learn know when coming cross myself.



First.....Never step onto the Stage unless U are Willing to be the Xzibit.
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2. X don't Mark the Spot........................it Spots the Mark!

Bet you didn't know that women are in that mix too!!
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