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Why Do Men Run Away From Intimacy?

Hey..cool..very small amounts of males mate for life in the animal world...And humans are no different..Most marriages nowadays end up in divorce...

Women from Venus..men from Mars..so unless you work a 40 hour week..greet your husband looking like a ten dollar hooker...you are toast..

In my observation, over the past 35 years, it usually seems to be the woman who gets wanderlust, and decides the grass must be greener on the other side of the fence. In fact, I don't personally know of a single man who initiated divorce, but I personally know an embarrassingly large number of women who did. The men I know don't want a wife who looks like a ten dollar hooker, but they do want a wife who will talk to them, and spend time with them, and actually gives a **** about having a relationship, rather than a business partnership.
 
In my observation, over the past 35 years, it usually seems to be the woman who gets wanderlust, and decides the grass must be greener on the other side of the fence. In fact, I don't personally know of a single man who initiated divorce, but I personally know an embarrassingly large number of women who did. The men I know don't want a wife who looks like a ten dollar hooker, but they do want a wife who will talk to them, and spend time with them, and actually gives a **** about having a relationship, rather than a business partnership.

This is an interesting post, and definitely an interesting topic. I think you have nailed it totally, my experience with women its that they don't communicate in a way I understand, it has been the cause of every break up from a woman I have had. They slowly grow apart. I don't know why they had tolerated things they didn't like, until it was built up as a wall of damning arguments. If you are not satisfied in something please please address it promptly.

I often heard "you should have known". Men don't think like that, there is no old saying of "fatherly intuition" or "male intuition". So we are less initiative, I love that women can sense when we are not happy, it really makes a relationship very safe for us. I am so sorry we can't offer that back, but we do offer things that women need. I am not sure exactly what that is because I am not a woman, but there has to be something women get from men otherwise our species would have been extinct long ago.

It us partially finding the right man but I would say mostly compromise and doing what is hard.
 
In my observation, over the past 35 years, it usually seems to be the woman who gets wanderlust, and decides the grass must be greener on the other side of the fence. In fact, I don't personally know of a single man who initiated divorce, but I personally know an embarrassingly large number of women who did. The men I know don't want a wife who looks like a ten dollar hooker, but they do want a wife who will talk to them, and spend time with them, and actually gives a **** about having a relationship, rather than a business partnership.



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Liz......I would ask ya to marry me.
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Women are not afraid of intimacy because we are conditioned to deal with intimacy. Men do not have to deal with intimacy on a level women do. Now I am not talking about sex and getting to know and love one another it goes much deeper than that. Lemme make a few points.

1. Women have to deal with crap stained underwear and nasty smelling socks generally left anywhere but the laundry basket. Do we complain hell yes! However we do clean said items because it give us some much needed alone time with the spin cycle on our Maytags.

2. Women have to deal with a man have enough noises coming out of their orifices (Belching, farting, snoring, snorting, scratching) while they sleep to scare off any creature with in a light year of the bedroom. Why do you think aliens skip this planet. They think a good portion of the human race is undeveloped and they are better off skipping to the next planet.

3. Forgetting birthdays, anniversaries, valentines day, dinner with the in-laws, anything we women hold dear. However I have a theory that men don't forget because they sure as hell can tell you who threw the winning pass in the 1979 Super Bowl, when opening day of baseball. Yet we still put up with it.

4. Sex yes I have to make some points here! One we get the worst end of the deal ( Please don't take that literally boys) after sex. Two things happen here. The First, after the 5 to 10 minutes of pleasure we get to spend the night on a fully used condom that leaves a rash on our back from the latex that even Kaboom cant get off. Second, this one I truly dread with a passion after sex a guy can just roll over, however we get to lay in a little puddle of spooge for the rest of the night see the above about the rash.

These are just a few of the intimacies we share with men. Like I stated above we are conditioned for this and we love to talk about it because we know how defensive men are about these things that is intimacy. The only reason men know half our secrets is because we usually divulge them when we are yelling at them for the stupid crap they put us through like the above. However, we have secrets you will never know, and with just one look we can relay that fact in the most devastating manner.

Now lets say we flipped the coin and I left my blood stained panties on the couch you just paid 4000 dollars for and then you had to pick them up and wash them, granted you would not get the benefit of the spin cycle. How would you like it when I started recalling the last ten years of Days of our Lives like it was game seven of the freaking world series? Finally how you like it if women made you roll over in the little gift you left after sex and made you sleep in it and then talk about it the next morning. My bet is any man would run from this and when I mean run you would make Usain Bolt look like a turtle crossing the road.

That my over fed ogers is what intimacy is! Those little thing that drive us mad but yet we are still there in the morning to kiss you and wish you well. Men are conditioned to run from intimacy because they are scared of what women are capable of telling them!

I could go on but I am almost out of wine and I am tired.
 
Women are not afraid of intimacy because we are conditioned to deal with intimacy. Men do not have to deal with intimacy on a level women do. Now I am not talking about sex and getting to know and love one another it goes much deeper than that. Lemme make a few points.

1. Women have to deal with crap stained underwear and nasty smelling socks generally left anywhere but the laundry basket. Do we complain hell yes! However we do clean said items because it give us some much needed alone time with the spin cycle on our Maytags.

2. Women have to deal with a man have enough noises coming out of their orifices (Belching, farting, snoring, snorting, scratching) while they sleep to scare off any creature with in a light year of the bedroom. Why do you think aliens skip this planet. They think a good portion of the human race is undeveloped and they are better off skipping to the next planet.

3. Forgetting birthdays, anniversaries, valentines day, dinner with the in-laws, anything we women hold dear. However I have a theory that men don't forget because they sure as hell can tell you who threw the winning pass in the 1979 Super Bowl, when opening day of baseball. Yet we still put up with it.

4. Sex yes I have to make some points here! One we get the worst end of the deal ( Please don't take that literally boys) after sex. Two things happen here. The First, after the 5 to 10 minutes of pleasure we get to spend the night on a fully used condom that leaves a rash on our back from the latex that even Kaboom cant get off. Second, this one I truly dread with a passion after sex a guy can just roll over, however we get to lay in a little puddle of spooge for the rest of the night see the above about the rash.

These are just a few of the intimacies we share with men. Like I stated above we are conditioned for this and we love to talk about it because we know how defensive men are about these things that is intimacy. The only reason men know half our secrets is because we usually divulge them when we are yelling at them for the stupid crap they put us through like the above. However, we have secrets you will never know, and with just one look we can relay that fact in the most devastating manner.

Now lets say we flipped the coin and I left my blood stained panties on the couch you just paid 4000 dollars for and then you had to pick them up and wash them, granted you would not get the benefit of the spin cycle. How would you like it when I started recalling the last ten years of Days of our Lives like it was game seven of the freaking world series? Finally how you like it if women made you roll over in the little gift you left after sex and made you sleep in it and then talk about it the next morning. My bet is any man would run from this and when I mean run you would make Usain Bolt look like a turtle crossing the road.

That my over fed ogers is what intimacy is! Those little thing that drive us mad but yet we are still there in the morning to kiss you and wish you well. Men are conditioned to run from intimacy because they are scared of what women are capable of telling them!

I could go on but I am almost out of wine and I am tired.

Maybe EcoFemSoc can teach you how to effectively train your guy. And, if you show a promising ability with her methods, she might just invite you to her feminist commune.

But be careful, TaraAnne...piss her off or show any sense of self-hatred and she just might recommend you end it all...for the betterment of womankind and, of course, for your own good.
 
Maybe EcoFemSoc can teach you how to effectively train your guy. And, if you show a promising ability with her methods, she might just invite you to her feminist commune.

But be careful, TaraAnne...piss her off or show any sense of self-hatred and she just might recommend you end it all...for the betterment of womankind and, of course, for your own good.

Sheeze I was just trying to show the parallels between those intimate moments a man and a woman share that makes them closers and how each sex deals with them not start a damn war!
 
Women are not afraid of intimacy because we are conditioned to deal with intimacy. Men do not have to deal with intimacy on a level women do. Now I am not talking about sex and getting to know and love one another it goes much deeper than that. Lemme make a few points.

1. Women have to deal with crap stained underwear and nasty smelling socks generally left anywhere but the laundry basket. Do we complain hell yes! However we do clean said items because it give us some much needed alone time with the spin cycle on our Maytags.

2. Women have to deal with a man have enough noises coming out of their orifices (Belching, farting, snoring, snorting, scratching) while they sleep to scare off any creature with in a light year of the bedroom. Why do you think aliens skip this planet. They think a good portion of the human race is undeveloped and they are better off skipping to the next planet.

3. Forgetting birthdays, anniversaries, valentines day, dinner with the in-laws, anything we women hold dear. However I have a theory that men don't forget because they sure as hell can tell you who threw the winning pass in the 1979 Super Bowl, when opening day of baseball. Yet we still put up with it.

4. Sex yes I have to make some points here! One we get the worst end of the deal ( Please don't take that literally boys) after sex. Two things happen here. The First, after the 5 to 10 minutes of pleasure we get to spend the night on a fully used condom that leaves a rash on our back from the latex that even Kaboom cant get off. Second, this one I truly dread with a passion after sex a guy can just roll over, however we get to lay in a little puddle of spooge for the rest of the night see the above about the rash.

These are just a few of the intimacies we share with men. Like I stated above we are conditioned for this and we love to talk about it because we know how defensive men are about these things that is intimacy. The only reason men know half our secrets is because we usually divulge them when we are yelling at them for the stupid crap they put us through like the above. However, we have secrets you will never know, and with just one look we can relay that fact in the most devastating manner.

Now lets say we flipped the coin and I left my blood stained panties on the couch you just paid 4000 dollars for and then you had to pick them up and wash them, granted you would not get the benefit of the spin cycle. How would you like it when I started recalling the last ten years of Days of our Lives like it was game seven of the freaking world series? Finally how you like it if women made you roll over in the little gift you left after sex and made you sleep in it and then talk about it the next morning. My bet is any man would run from this and when I mean run you would make Usain Bolt look like a turtle crossing the road.

That my over fed ogers is what intimacy is! Those little thing that drive us mad but yet we are still there in the morning to kiss you and wish you well. Men are conditioned to run from intimacy because they are scared of what women are capable of telling them!

I could go on but I am almost out of wine and I am tired.

Well.....talking about what women have to put up with men. Isnt about Intimacy. But if men really wanted to know all about such with women. They could take a Job as a janitor or Office Cleaners and clean those Women restrooms and lockers. Then we can talk about that ear wax and make up left all over phones to attract bacteria. Let alone any hygiene.

Or like when they are in the public restrooms and spraying hairspray all over mirrors as they doll themselves up Right.

As far as rolling over into something you call a gift. It's called the state of a well prepared mind. To some men and women it comes naturally!
 
Women are not afraid of intimacy because we are conditioned to deal with intimacy. Men do not have to deal with intimacy on a level women do. Now I am not talking about sex and getting to know and love one another it goes much deeper than that. Lemme make a few points.

1. Women have to deal with crap stained underwear and nasty smelling socks generally left anywhere but the laundry basket. Do we complain hell yes! However we do clean said items because it give us some much needed alone time with the spin cycle on our Maytags.

2. Women have to deal with a man have enough noises coming out of their orifices (Belching, farting, snoring, snorting, scratching) while they sleep to scare off any creature with in a light year of the bedroom. Why do you think aliens skip this planet. They think a good portion of the human race is undeveloped and they are better off skipping to the next planet.

3. Forgetting birthdays, anniversaries, valentines day, dinner with the in-laws, anything we women hold dear. However I have a theory that men don't forget because they sure as hell can tell you who threw the winning pass in the 1979 Super Bowl, when opening day of baseball. Yet we still put up with it.

4. Sex yes I have to make some points here! One we get the worst end of the deal ( Please don't take that literally boys) after sex. Two things happen here. The First, after the 5 to 10 minutes of pleasure we get to spend the night on a fully used condom that leaves a rash on our back from the latex that even Kaboom cant get off. Second, this one I truly dread with a passion after sex a guy can just roll over, however we get to lay in a little puddle of spooge for the rest of the night see the above about the rash.

These are just a few of the intimacies we share with men. Like I stated above we are conditioned for this and we love to talk about it because we know how defensive men are about these things that is intimacy. The only reason men know half our secrets is because we usually divulge them when we are yelling at them for the stupid crap they put us through like the above. However, we have secrets you will never know, and with just one look we can relay that fact in the most devastating manner.

Now lets say we flipped the coin and I left my blood stained panties on the couch you just paid 4000 dollars for and then you had to pick them up and wash them, granted you would not get the benefit of the spin cycle. How would you like it when I started recalling the last ten years of Days of our Lives like it was game seven of the freaking world series? Finally how you like it if women made you roll over in the little gift you left after sex and made you sleep in it and then talk about it the next morning. My bet is any man would run from this and when I mean run you would make Usain Bolt look like a turtle crossing the road.

That my over fed ogers is what intimacy is! Those little thing that drive us mad but yet we are still there in the morning to kiss you and wish you well. Men are conditioned to run from intimacy because they are scared of what women are capable of telling them!

I could go on but I am almost out of wine and I am tired.

If you sleep with nasty men that won't let you clean up after sex isn't that just a bad choice on your part? I've cleaned female laundry and the human body male or female is simply prone to disgusting leftovers. Even the most clean and hygiene conscious people aren't perfect that's simply a part of life.
 
Sheeze I was just trying to show the parallels between those intimate moments a man and a woman share that makes them closers and how each sex deals with them not start a damn war!

My apologies.

The war has been going on for a bit...and you just stepped into the line of fire.
 
If you sleep with nasty men that won't let you clean up after sex isn't that just a bad choice on your part? I've cleaned female laundry and the human body male or female is simply prone to disgusting leftovers. Even the most clean and hygiene conscious people aren't perfect that's simply a part of life.

Hey its kinda hard when the bastard tell me to go make him a samich and when I get back he is already alseep :)
 
Hey its kinda hard when the bastard tell me to go make him a samich and when I get back he is already alseep :)

Hahaha,,, ok I'll give you that us guys can be lame at times.
 
Hmmmmm.

I never really understood this. Men are usually more excited, but when they're approached, they turn away. It's like they're afraid of too much of a good thing.

I think they're afraid of showing what they have, and they think they're giving women a taste of their own medicine sometimes too.

I wish men would relax more often. It would make things so much easier. Maybe the problem is they can't because they've been so ingrained to be well-behaved?

They're probably afraid of exploding and getting in trouble, or maybe it's that they're afraid of scaring a woman off, so they don't bother trying.

Who knows.

I don't seem to have this problem with men. I did with women, but my current relationship is completely fulfilling intimately, on Evans part two, we have been together for seven years, and took in Evans 14 year old little bro after his pa kicked him out. Even with a pessimistic teenager in the house we still are fulfilled intimately.

If you strike out so often with men, date women.
 
Hmmmmm.

I never really understood this. Men are usually more excited, but when they're approached, they turn away. It's like they're afraid of too much of a good thing.

I think they're afraid of showing what they have, and they think they're giving women a taste of their own medicine sometimes too.

I wish men would relax more often. It would make things so much easier. Maybe the problem is they can't because they've been so ingrained to be well-behaved?

They're probably afraid of exploding and getting in trouble, or maybe it's that they're afraid of scaring a woman off, so they don't bother trying.

Who knows.

Check your friend zone
 
In my observation, over the past 35 years, it usually seems to be the woman who gets wanderlust, and decides the grass must be greener on the other side of the fence. In fact, I don't personally know of a single man who initiated divorce, but I personally know an embarrassingly large number of women who did. The men I know don't want a wife who looks like a ten dollar hooker, but they do want a wife who will talk to them, and spend time with them, and actually gives a **** about having a relationship, rather than a business partnership.
A refreshing romanticism.

Good for you.
 
Lol- as much of a hard-ass realist as I am, there's still that little remnant of hope that dwells within.
That's the ticket. :thumbs:
 
Lol- as much of a hard-ass realist as I am, there's still that little remnant of hope that dwells within.



U Keeps that up and I am going to have to tell ya to.....Practice What you Preach!
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R-E-S-P-O-N-S-I-B-I-L-I-T-Y We just don't care for it in abundance.
 
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