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Is dry humping cheating?

Is Dry Humping cheating?

  • Yes it is!

    Votes: 18 90.0%
  • No of course not!

    Votes: 2 10.0%

  • Total voters
    20
As the title says...is dry humping cheating?

Edit:
Apparently there's a consensus.

Lets pretend there's a "scale of cheating".
On this scale actual intercourse and penetration is a 10.
If you vote yes what would dry humping be on the numerical scale 1-10?

in any case its cheating.just go by the golden rule you can look but you better not touch.if you wanna do anything with someone else find a partner whos cool with it.i mean if you can find someone cool with a 3 way you can find someone cool with swapping mates.
 
This was what a girl I know emailed

Definitely cheating! Kissing is cheating to me. Holding hands is cheating...talking about feelings is essentially cheating. Anything behind my back isn't cool...until you talk to me and say you want to do something with someone else, it's cheating.


I don't know this person but she sounds a little like a control-freak or very jealous individual. Talking about feelings is cheating? In what context?

If I kiss my sister or hold my niece's hand, or hug an old female friend I run into unexpectedly, am I cheating? If I play golf with Bob and neglect to mention it to you am I cheating? :)

Before you laugh I've known fems who were about that extreme....
 
Outercourse is a 5. Manual sex would be a 6. Oral jumps up to a 9 and intercourse would be a 10.

The reason being, in the case of the latter two, not only are they cheating but they're also potentially endangering my health by exposing me to whatever an unknown person has, and with intercourse they're potentially putting a permanent wedge in the relationship by risking pregnancy with a different partner. If the cheating and the complication wasn't enough to end the relationship (which it would be, but for the sake of argument...) that definitely would be, because I'm childfree and I won't deal with having a kid brought into my life. Especially not some stranger's kid.

In other words, the first 5 points are for being a dishonest jerk. The second 5 points are for endangering me and risking disrupting my life while you're at it. But let me be clear: 5 is enough to make me dump someone.
If someone gets on the cheating scale, its enough for me to dump them. Cheating to me is doing anything disrespectful that the other person knowingly would not approve of, and hides what it is they are doing because of that. Not sure that I would use the same scale in numbers you would, but lets just say the 2nd 5 would be auto dump, the 1st 5 would be a likely dump, depending on circumstances, and there ain't many which I would accept.
 
If your dry humping you're probably making out as well , so yes it's cheating.
 
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