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Re: Who Directs Karma?
Good intentions lead to good behaviors
very Zen of you.Karma stems from your intentions actions not the intentions and actions of others. Karma isn't really "good" or "bad".
What is an example of someone doing something really bad but with really good intentions?
If your intention, from your heart if you like, is to act with loving kindness towards another person I don't know how karma could be negatively affected.
Let me give you quick example. I was raised to hold the door for people if I am at the threshold of a door to a building or in a building, that sort of thing. It used to pissed me off when I would hold a door and a person or if people would walk through and not acknowledge my "good" deed, my generous act.
Who was wrong? Me, not them! Why? My intention. Buddhism taught me to deal with anger, which was how I first became involved with Buddhism.
Anger over door holding acknowledgement was wrong. Stupid, actually.
Why was I angry? Because some people didn't say "thank you".
What was my intention when holding the door? Being honest with myself, my intention was actually to be acknowledged for committing a selfless act. My intention then wasn't based on loving kindness, it wasn't a selfless act. The results of my actions then set me up to be angry. I very much do not enjoy anger. My action could be the same but my intention could change and I could end the possibility of being angry.
Ever since I realized that my intentions were selfish rather than selfless now holding the door for someone is holding the door for someone. It is now my intention to hold the door because it is a small selfless act. No more angry door holding.
Good intentions lead to good behaviors