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I'm a devout Christian and I've been following the marriage/gay marriage debate and I've come to a conclusion that is rather libertarian. The problem is that "marriage" has been taken over by government. From ancient times a marriage was a private contract between two individuals and/or their families. In the West, government (namely the Roman Catholic government of Europe) took over marriage to prevent royalty from marrying commoners. This secured their wealth. This continued on under the authority of the Roman Catholic Church for centuries. When the American colonies were founded "common law" became the view of marriage. In other words, marriage was an issue of common law because it was a common right (aka natural right). Thus, it wasn't really any of the governments business. George Washington and his wife didn't have a marriage license, neither did Abraham Lincoln and his wife. Frankly, marriage was a private relationship recognized by the couple and blessed by their community of faith. However, after Emancipation state governments began requiring marriage licenses to prevent whites and blacks from marrying. Soon... every state in the Union began requiring a marriage license through the government. Then the government began offering couples "benefits" for being married. The government take over of marriage was complete. Marriage was now another government managed institution.
I believe that the governments hijacking of marriage is the problem... not gay marriage. I believe that marriage should return to the common law realm and be considered a private relationship or association. Here is a link and a few quotes that support this idea regarding marriage.
5 Reasons Why Christians Should Not Obtain a State Marriage License
Privatize Marriage
Privatize Marriage - Slate Magazine
Privatize Marriage | Cato Institute
Quotes...
"My personal opinion is government shouldn’t be involved. The whole country would be better off if individuals made those decisions and it was a private matter." ~ Ron Paul
"The best approach is to make marriage a private matter. When we no longer believe that civilization is dependent on government expansion, regulating excesses, and a license ...for everything we do, we will know that civilization and the ideas of liberty are advancing." ~ Ron Paul
"Christian couples should not be marrying with State marriage licenses, nor should ministers be marrying people with State marriage licenses." ~ Pastor Matt Trewhella
"Both George Washington and Abraham Lincoln were married without a marriage license. They simply recorded their marriage in their Family Bibles. So should we." ~ Pastor Matt Trewhella
"As a minister, I cannot in good conscience perform a marriage which would place people under this immoral body of laws. I also cannot marry someone with a marriage license because to do so I have to act as an agent of the State—literally! I would have to sign the marriage license, and I would have to mail it into the State. Given the State’s demand to usurp the place of God and family regarding marriage, and given it’s unbiblical, immoral laws to govern marriage, it would be an act of idolatry for me to do so." ~ Pastor Matt Trewhella
"Some couples choose to marry within the meeting without registering their marriage with the government, a tradition dating back to Quakerism's earliest days." ~ From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
A man and woman are joined together by God... NOT government:
"For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh." ~ God, Genesis 2:24
"What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” ~ Jesus, Mark 10:9 (ESV)
Christians are admonished not to subject one another to the courts of the unbelievers (that certainly would include civil divorce courts):
"3 Do you not know that we are to judge angels? How much more, then, matters pertaining to this life! 4 So if you have such cases, why do you lay them before those who have no standing in the church? 5 I say this to your shame. Can it be that there is no one among you wise enough to settle a dispute between the brothers, 6 but brother goes to law against brother, and that before unbelievers? 7 To have lawsuits at all with one another is already a defeat for you. Why not rather suffer wrong? Why not rather be defrauded?" ~ Paul, I Corinthians 6:3-7 (ESV)
Here is a link to a ministry that believes in a more private and spiritual form of government-free marriage:
http://ingodseyesonly.com/
What are some of your thoughts???
I believe that the governments hijacking of marriage is the problem... not gay marriage. I believe that marriage should return to the common law realm and be considered a private relationship or association. Here is a link and a few quotes that support this idea regarding marriage.
5 Reasons Why Christians Should Not Obtain a State Marriage License
Privatize Marriage
Privatize Marriage - Slate Magazine
Privatize Marriage | Cato Institute
Quotes...
"My personal opinion is government shouldn’t be involved. The whole country would be better off if individuals made those decisions and it was a private matter." ~ Ron Paul
"The best approach is to make marriage a private matter. When we no longer believe that civilization is dependent on government expansion, regulating excesses, and a license ...for everything we do, we will know that civilization and the ideas of liberty are advancing." ~ Ron Paul
"Christian couples should not be marrying with State marriage licenses, nor should ministers be marrying people with State marriage licenses." ~ Pastor Matt Trewhella
"Both George Washington and Abraham Lincoln were married without a marriage license. They simply recorded their marriage in their Family Bibles. So should we." ~ Pastor Matt Trewhella
"As a minister, I cannot in good conscience perform a marriage which would place people under this immoral body of laws. I also cannot marry someone with a marriage license because to do so I have to act as an agent of the State—literally! I would have to sign the marriage license, and I would have to mail it into the State. Given the State’s demand to usurp the place of God and family regarding marriage, and given it’s unbiblical, immoral laws to govern marriage, it would be an act of idolatry for me to do so." ~ Pastor Matt Trewhella
"Some couples choose to marry within the meeting without registering their marriage with the government, a tradition dating back to Quakerism's earliest days." ~ From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
A man and woman are joined together by God... NOT government:
"For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh." ~ God, Genesis 2:24
"What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” ~ Jesus, Mark 10:9 (ESV)
Christians are admonished not to subject one another to the courts of the unbelievers (that certainly would include civil divorce courts):
"3 Do you not know that we are to judge angels? How much more, then, matters pertaining to this life! 4 So if you have such cases, why do you lay them before those who have no standing in the church? 5 I say this to your shame. Can it be that there is no one among you wise enough to settle a dispute between the brothers, 6 but brother goes to law against brother, and that before unbelievers? 7 To have lawsuits at all with one another is already a defeat for you. Why not rather suffer wrong? Why not rather be defrauded?" ~ Paul, I Corinthians 6:3-7 (ESV)
Here is a link to a ministry that believes in a more private and spiritual form of government-free marriage:
http://ingodseyesonly.com/
What are some of your thoughts???