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How the Christian Right's Homophobia Scares Away Religious Young People[W:11]

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Well, you tell me then. What is Mitt Romney's stance on marriage equality?

Who gives a **** about Romney? The OP was talking about hate groups and anti gay activists. I see people debating gay marriage, but nothing to the degree that the OP is speaking of.

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I'm not seeing it either. I have never heard a word from the pulpit about homosexuality in my life. I haven't witnessed any problems in my community or workplaces either. EVER. Have stood right behind trannies in the grocery store too and nobody said squat. Sure, people looked--what, you aren't going to notice a guy in drag? Please. But I think a lot of this is ginned up.
It's an election year, of course it is.
 
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Never mind. You're playing games. Lokiate said what he did, and you're trying to turn this into a discussion on Romney's view of SSM.
 
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Well knowing that you are straight you probably arnt going to notice homophobia as much as someone who is homosexual.

You have no idea whether I'm gay or straight; I've never disclosed this. And you also have no idea of what my life experiences are.
 
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The notion that treating all people as equals is "permissiveness" is pretty twisted man.

Putting words into people's mouths is nice as a "like" getting one-liner, but is poor debate form. This isn't Hannity... I am not referring to equality under the law...as a Christian, I cannot approve or endorse same sex marriages, because such marriages imply homosexual activity, which separates man from God. Being permissive of sinful behavior does not show genuine love to those engaging in it.
 
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Who gives a **** about Romney? The OP was talking about hate groups and anti gay activists. I see people debating gay marriage, but nothing to the degree that the OP is speaking of.

Campaigning to deny equal rights to gay people is out of control anti-gay bigotry. In 20 years, probably even 10 years, people will look back at remarks like Romney is making with shock and disgust the same way they look back at comments by white supremacists 50 years ago talking about how it wasn't natural for black people and white people to get married and whatnot. It is so rampant that even the Republican presidential candidate is getting in on it. That is how pervasive it is on the right. It is so rampant on the right that many of you don't even seem to realize how shocking, vicious, ignorant and bigoted it is. It just seems normal to you, you hear so much of it.
 
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Campaigning to deny equal rights to gay people is out of control anti-gay bigotry. In 20 years, probably even 10 years, people will look back at remarks like Romney is making with shock and disgust the same way they look back at comments by white supremacists 50 years ago talking about how it wasn't natural for black people and white people to get married and whatnot. It is so rampant that even the Republican presidential candidate is getting in on it. That is how pervasive it is on the right. It is so rampant on the right that many of you don't even seem to realize how shocking, vicious, ignorant and bigoted it is. It just seems normal to you, you hear so much of it.

No, I don't hear it. This is what is so ridiculous to me.
 
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Putting words into people's mouths is nice as a "like" getting one-liner, but is poor debate form. This isn't Hannity... I am not referring to equality under the law...as a Christian, I cannot approve or endorse same sex marriages, because such marriages imply homosexual activity, which separates man from God. Being permissive of sinful behavior does not show genuine love to those engaging in it.

What you seem to be missing is that nobody is asking you to endorse anything. All I'm asking you to do is to stop hurting people. Don't try to use government to persecute people who are different than you. If you want to sit around talking about how you think gay people are the worst thing in the world, that's pretty lame, but it's your right. But to try to use government to attack them, to try to deny them equal rights, that is a whole different can of worms.
 
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Campaigning to deny equal rights to gay people is out of control anti-gay bigotry. In 20 years, probably even 10 years, people will look back at remarks like Romney is making with shock and disgust the same way they look back at comments by white supremacists 50 years ago talking about how it wasn't natural for black people and white people to get married and whatnot. It is so rampant that even the Republican presidential candidate is getting in on it. That is how pervasive it is on the right. It is so rampant on the right that many of you don't even seem to realize how shocking, vicious, ignorant and bigoted it is. It just seems normal to you, you hear so much of it.

lol, who am I? I guarantee it's not even close to what you think brochacho.
 
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No, I don't hear it. This is what is so ridiculous to me.

I don't understand. Even your presidential candidate is campaigning to deny equal rights to gay people... Are you saying you were unaware of his position on it, and the positions of practically all Republican politicians on it?
 
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lol, who am I? I guarantee it's not even close to what you think brochacho.

My point precisely. :lol:
 
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What you seem to be missing is that nobody is asking you to endorse anything.

So I guess I should just keep my mouth shut.

All I'm asking you to do is to stop hurting people. Don't try to use government to persecute people who are different than you.

Who, precisely, have I hurt? Who, precisely, am I persecuting?

If you want to sit around talking about how you think gay people are the worst thing in the world, that's pretty lame, but it's your right.

Putting words in to my mouth again. I never said, nor did I imply, that gay people are "the worst thing in the world".

But to try to use government to attack them, to try to deny them equal rights, that is a whole different can of worms.

I don't see marriage as a rights issue, I see it as an issue of definition, as far as the law goes. I believe that supporters of SSM are taking advantage of the fact that marriage was understood, but never legally defined, as between a man and a woman to create a political issue that the majority of the homosexual community really didn't care about.

Since the issue is before us all, I state my opinion about the subject. Neither I nor anyone I know was roving about trying to break up homosexual relationships prior to this issue become one of national importance, as homosexuality is one sin among many, and homosexuals are in no more need of God's grace than I.

You don't like my opinion, fine. But try to put me behind the 8 ball by implying that I am bigoted, hateful, or intolerant is yet another ****ty debate tactic, and I won't stand for it.
 
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My point precisely. :lol:

I just love it when people rush to conclusions about my personal views and beliefs, then try to make me out to be on par with the westboro cult out of partisan hackery. It amuses me, and as those who know me will tell you, I thrive on conflict.
 
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I am not referring to equality under the law...as a Christian, I cannot approve or endorse same sex marriages, because such marriages imply homosexual activity, which separates man from God. Being permissive of sinful behavior does not show genuine love to those engaging in it.

Neither I nor anyone I know was roving about trying to break up homosexual relationships prior to this issue become one of national importance, as homosexuality is one sin among many, and homosexuals are in no more need of God's grace than I.

Why are you under the false impression that homosexuality and homosexual activity are sinful?

Furthermore, even if it were a sin, why are you in favor of using the government to prevent SSM? Isn't that an example of you exercising judgement of other people's behavior when it harms no one? I suppose we should understand that that falls under the same banner as restrictions of other behavior for misunderstood religious reasons - like your opinion is that you should use Roman Tyranny to prevent people from sinning. Isn't that the justification used by Pontius Pilate to crucify Jesus?
 
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I would respectfully suggest that a church comprised of 55-60 inbred, misguided, and evil people is a classic definition of "atypical example." Obviously.

Your OP used the terms "Christian Right activists," "Right-wing American Christianity," and "right-wing Christianity." Presumably, you understood what you posted, so the definition of "religious right" I leave up to you. Who are these people? What denoms? Who are their leaders?



The terms you refer to are in common usage in America. It's certainly not up to me to define them.

I agree that Westboro Baptist is not a typical church (thankfully). My intent is to keep that statement true.
 
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So I guess I should just keep my mouth shut.

It appears that you got the gist of the conversation. Congrats!
 
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The terms you refer to are in common usage in America. It's certainly not up to me to define them.

I agree that Westboro Baptist is not a typical church (thankfully). My intent is to keep that statement true.

Then why did you say in Post #16 that my" attempt to exclude the Westboro Baptist Church makes my point for me"?

Why would you begin a thread that on this topic if you are unwilling to clarify what you meant? Were you simply mindlessly parroting the author of your linked article?

About Amanda Marcotte, now she's interesting. She was the blogmaster for John Edwards's campaign but stepped down after attracting controversy for her comments on the Duke Lacrosse team rape charges (referring to those who supported the accused as "rape-loving scum"), and she's also known as anti-Christian. She has offended even other feminists with book artwork described as racially stereotypical. Read more here: Amanda Marcotte - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

I think that in what is apparently your board modus operandi, you found an inflammatory article and posted a drive-by thread. When asked relevant questions, you don't seem able to explain what you meant or even to define the key term.
 
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The terms you refer to are in common usage in America. It's certainly not up to me to define them.

I agree that Westboro Baptist is not a typical church (thankfully). My intent is to keep that statement true.

Then why did you say in Post #16 that my "attempt to exclude the Westboro Baptist Church makes my point for me"?

Why would you begin a thread that on this topic if you are unwilling to clarify what you meant? Were you simply mindlessly parroting the author of your linked article?

About Amanda Marcotte, now she's interesting. She was the blogmaster for John Edwards's campaign but stepped down after attracting controversy for her comments on the Duke Lacrosse team rape charges (referring to those who supported the accused as "rape-loving scum"), and she's also known as anti-Christian. She has offended even other feminists with book artwork described as racially stereotypical. Read more here: Amanda Marcotte - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

I think that in what is apparently your board modus operandi, you found an inflammatory article and posted a drive-by thread. When asked relevant questions, you don't seem able to explain what you meant or even to define the key term. "People who base their conservatism on their faith"? Again, who are these people?
 
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You have no idea whether I'm gay or straight; I've never disclosed this. And you also have no idea of what my life experiences are.

Then I apologize. Either way just because you dont see it often doesnt mean others dont either.
 
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When I was a kid we didn't bludgeon people who lead 'questionable lives' - we were suppose to pray - and pray a lot - for them to find guidance and salvation. We didn't turn our backs on them and my Dad didn't set out to call them names or make them feel like crap. We tried to draw them to the church by being supportive, understanding and positive that htey coudl put aside 'sinful ways' if they truly wanted to. We definitey didn't talk about sexuality - ever. Nothing was ever geared towards picking on anyone or puttng anyone down *publicly*

But young people in this area who are still in the church aren't just leaving altogether - they're seeking out a new more upbeat and modern style of church - like New Life, etc. These newaged churches aren't the traditional oldfashioned church that most of us grew up with and they're more appealing to youth. Maybe that's more of what's going on. My Dad's churches have continually seen a decline in activity and membership because of things like this.
 
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Who, precisely, have I hurt? Who, precisely, am I persecuting?

Well, most directly, the spouses who can't visit their dying spouse in the hospital. The people who get kicked out of their own home when their spouse dies because it was in the name of their spouse. The retirees who get cut off from the social security and pension benefits of their spouse when their spouse passes away. The adopted children who are torn away from one of their parents when the other one passes away. The loving couple that never gets to tell their parents that they are married. Etc.

But, maybe more important is the indirect harm. The culture of hate that you are supporting towards gay people leads to thousands of children committing suicide each year. Around 1,000 reported violent hate crimes against gay people a year and thousands more that go unreported. Employment discrimination and people feeling ashamed of themselves and living lies.

I don't see marriage as a rights issue, I see it as an issue of definition, as far as the law goes.

I really don't care how you want to frame the issue rhetorically. The fact is that you are backing a policy that prevents gay and lesbian people from being able to get married and getting all the benefits straight people do. I don't see why telling yourself that you are denying them that ability because of a definition helps you out at all.

I believe that supporters of SSM are taking advantage of the fact that marriage was understood, but never legally defined, as between a man and a woman to create a political issue that the majority of the homosexual community really didn't care about.

That is emphatically false. Do you not know any gay people? Or, that's a silly question. Of course you know gay people. Have none of them told you that they are gay?
 
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Why are you under the false impression that homosexuality and homosexual activity are sinful?

Why are you ignorant of Christian doctrine? I think it's reasonable to assume that you have at least been raised in an area where Christians lived and were at least aware of basic Christian stands on social issues, among them being homosexuality. If you think that Christianity permits homosexual activity, you are the one who labors under a false impression.

Furthermore, even if it were a sin

lol I think this is a tacit admission that you already knew it was sinful to Christians

why are you in favor of using the government to prevent SSM?

I am not "in favor of it", strictly speaking. What I am in favor of is marriage being defined as between a man and a woman. Any other legal partnership with a different mix of sexes or number of partners ought not be called marriage. I am in favor of barring the use of the word "marriage" in the law entirely so that both sides get that rhetorical tactic taken away from them.

Isn't that an example of you exercising judgement of other people's behavior when it harms no one?

I exercise judgment on no one, and please do not accuse me of that again. Homosexual activity is sinful and disfigures the soul, like any other sin, and I would be a poor Christian if I did not acknowledge that. The judgment of all people is God's only, and we ought to help each other avoid sin so we can gain His good graces.

I suppose we should understand that that falls under the same banner as restrictions of other behavior for misunderstood religious reasons - like your opinion is that you should use Roman Tyranny to prevent people from sinning.

Words in my mouth from another direction, and still a ****ty debate tactic. Like I said before, since the subject is on the table, I am talking about it, and if a vote comes up to support or deny SSM, I will in good conscience deny it.

Isn't that the justification used by Pontius Pilate to crucify Jesus?

Pontius Pilate didn't really care about Jesus, it was the Pharisees that wanted Jesus dead because of their claim of heresy against him. They pressured Pilate with a threat of a Jewish revolt against his authority, and Pilate was concerned about Rome's opinion of his governorships lack of control over the region. If you read the Gospel, you will see that Pilate tried to give Jesus every opportunity to talk his way out of the crucifixion that the Pharisees demanded.

You use Christianity as a sword to attack, when we are told to use the word of God as a shield. I warn you that there will be consequences to that choice when you stand in judgement before God.
 
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Funny, I thought many conservatives were Christians and would be all over this thread.

In a thread intended as bait, I'm not surprised that conservative Christians aren't flocking to it.

I doubt it's homphobia in specific that drives young people away from the church, and is more likely that young people question their faith in general, just as I did in my late teens. This is nothing new, but our society in this day and time makes it less of a social stigma to seek one's own path without a fear of being looked down upon.
 
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Why are you ignorant of Christian doctrine?

Firstly, doctrine is bound to a specific interpretation of the Bible. It is the exercise of worldly authority in specifying what Jesus meant with his ministry. Doctrine is NOT God's word, but man's interpretation of it. Often times, man is wrong.

Secondly, what specific passages do you think talks against homosexuality and names it a sin? Quote it brother. Anyone can be lustful.

Revelation 2:6 said:
But you have this in your favor: You hate the practices of the Nicolaitans, which I also hate.

This is a reference to anal sex. Heterosexual and homosexual males can both engage in this sinful and abominable practice.

I think it's reasonable to assume that you have at least been raised in an area where Christians lived and were at least aware of basic Christian stands on social issues, among them being homosexuality. If you think that Christianity permits homosexual activity, you are the one who labors under a false impression.

Basic Christian stands on social issues? Firstly, again, doctrine is from man, not Christ or the Bible. Secondly, Christ did not intend the state to limit non-harmful behavior for religious reasons. Of course Christianity permits homosexual activity. Nothing sinful about it. Christianity acknowledges that everyone sins. I have not heard of a law banning lustful intercourse, although I am sure some communities have tried. Greed, sloth, wrath, envy, gluttony, pride, lust...none of these should be ILLEGAL!

lol I think this is a tacit admission that you already knew it was sinful to Christians

No, it was not. I stood in your shoes and termed it sinful, and then destroyed the idea that it should be illegal for that reason. A more accurate argument is one of whether we should make lust illegal. Good luck with that.

I am not "in favor of it", strictly speaking. What I am in favor of is marriage being defined as between a man and a woman. Any other legal partnership with a different mix of sexes or number of partners ought not be called marriage. I am in favor of barring the use of the word "marriage" in the law entirely so that both sides get that rhetorical tactic taken away from them.

I actually totally agree with you. If we were to eliminate the term marriage from legal work and call it a civil union AND allow any combination of people to enter said union with all of the legal benefits, I am totally for it. This means, of course, that the following unions should be legal:


It should be no one's business as to arrangements, except for the people directly involved. This practice of the "Church community" deciding what is right and wrong for other people to do, when it harms no one, is a grave injustice and is not the narrow path.

Marriage is actually a spiritual endeavor, internal to your heart. It is the marriage of Christ and Mary within each of us. I have my family: Father, Mother, Christ, Mary, Baby Jesus. :mrgreen:

I exercise judgment on no one, and please do not accuse me of that again.

You absolutely do exercise judgement if you are in favor of the state limiting non-harmful behavior. Do you not see that? I am not accusing you of it, I am stating fact. You are sinning when you restrict other people's non-harmful decisions: drugs, sex, marriage. Are you also in favor of speed traps to collect state revenues? Of course speeding is sinful. It is greedy and selfish. We must make it illegal!

Maybe you would be in favor of homosexual unions, as long as their is a $10,000 sin tax attached to it, for public healthcare, of course. That AIDS epidemic, you know.

Homosexual activity is sinful and disfigures the soul, like any other sin, and I would be a poor Christian if I did not acknowledge that. The judgment of all people is God's only, and we ought to help each other avoid sin so we can gain His good graces.

Once again, quote it and demonstrate that the Bible names homosexual activity as sinful. Being homosexual is not an activity, of course. It is a state of existence. Therefore, being in the state of homosexual identity is NOT sin, since it carries no action. I, personally, am a homosexual (actually, I am biosexual), but I do not exercise any sexual interactions with anyone, to eliminate confusion and ignorance in my relations. Therefore, I do not sin.

Pontius Pilate didn't really care about Jesus, it was the Pharisees that wanted Jesus dead because of their claim of heresy against him. They pressured Pilate with a threat of a Jewish revolt against his authority, and Pilate was concerned about Rome's opinion of his governorships lack of control over the region. If you read the Gospel, you will see that Pilate tried to give Jesus every opportunity to talk his way out of the crucifixion that the Pharisees demanded.

The Pharisees absolutely wanted Christ put to death, as he was undermining their worldly religious authority. However, Pilate also wanted Christ put to death, as Christ was starting a social/religious movement in the governorship that extended past the Jews, primarily. Christ's disciples were also Jewish, for the most part, but all of the other people being drawn in were not, for the most part. Pilate had a huge political problem on his hands and he finagled his way to make it look like it was the Pharisees who demanded the crucifixion, when in reality it was Pilate and Roman power. Of course it helped all concerned, in the short run, for Pilate and the Pharisees to join forces.

You use Christianity as a sword to attack, when we are told to use the word of God as a shield. I warn you that there will be consequences to that choice when you stand in judgement before God.

Ephesians 6:10-17 said:
10 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. 11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. 12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. 13 Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. 14 Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, 15 and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. 16 In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. 17 Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.
 
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This is an attack thread against Christianity in the Religion forum.

We're not going to have a fair discussion if you out-of-the-blue attack the "Christian Right" and start calling people hateful homophobes.

Hmmm, this seems nothing of the sort. Statistics were presented and reasons for the statistics were given. It's math.
 
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Ephesians 6:12

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.
 
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