I think these little lawsuits various groups spring up all over the country are half-assed attempts to partially change little pieces of law which doesn't even matter.
What I would like to see is an over arching marriage reform act. I would like to see a Constitutional Amendment defining what marriage is, it's intended purpose, and require stricter regulation from the states in qualifying people for a license.
I want to see a change away from the narrow focus of helping a token minority group, and towards something which will help everyone.
Sure, fine, let gays marry...and require everyone to undergo personal finance counseling and pre-marital counseling, and raise the age limit.