Funny you should say all of the above, as sometimes WOHMs try to make me feel inferior for being "completely financially dependent on someone else." I think it all comes down to the old saying that no one can really make you feel anything. If someone has a problem with you for how you live your life, it's their problem. I skimmed the article, and what I got out of that is what we already know. You gotta do what's right for you and your responsibilities. If someone doesn't respect what you do, so what?
I don't know who all these women are who are so unhappy with their lives per that article. I would think as a women, I'd know a few.