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This kind of ties in to the talks I brought up yesterday about "Sex Talk", "Virginity" and "Masturbation"
I lost my vigintiy at 11 but wasnt sexually active again until 16. I didnt really know what sex was or what was going on. I had already been masturbating but wasnt sure exactly what it meant. Anyway It had an older girl basically do what she wanted to me as she was curious also and just took advantage of basically watching me over the summer at times.
Now mind you I didnt stop her or tell her to stop one bit!!!! lol but I guess my question is how many people think that was wrong? or a grey area?
I was 11 she was 16/17. She wanted to experiment and learn and she did with me. Seem natural.
I guess the most important opinion is mine has then and even now Im totally fine with it but im guessing my parents wouldnt have been and Im guessing some here wouldnt be.
also once you come up with your honest answer, rethink it this way
what if i was a 11 year old girl and it was a 16/17 year old boy
weird huh? Im willing to bet a lot more people would be outraged or at least bothered.
but remember the examples would be identical meaning parties involved were both willing just the gender is switched.
so my question is how many people think it was wrong or not under these terms
1.) 11yr old boy & 16/17yr old girl
2.) 11yr old girl & 16/17yr old boy
3.) both are wrong
4.) both are ok and just kids being kids
5.) other
I lost my vigintiy at 11 but wasnt sexually active again until 16. I didnt really know what sex was or what was going on. I had already been masturbating but wasnt sure exactly what it meant. Anyway It had an older girl basically do what she wanted to me as she was curious also and just took advantage of basically watching me over the summer at times.
Now mind you I didnt stop her or tell her to stop one bit!!!! lol but I guess my question is how many people think that was wrong? or a grey area?
I was 11 she was 16/17. She wanted to experiment and learn and she did with me. Seem natural.
I guess the most important opinion is mine has then and even now Im totally fine with it but im guessing my parents wouldnt have been and Im guessing some here wouldnt be.
also once you come up with your honest answer, rethink it this way
what if i was a 11 year old girl and it was a 16/17 year old boy
weird huh? Im willing to bet a lot more people would be outraged or at least bothered.
but remember the examples would be identical meaning parties involved were both willing just the gender is switched.
so my question is how many people think it was wrong or not under these terms
1.) 11yr old boy & 16/17yr old girl
2.) 11yr old girl & 16/17yr old boy
3.) both are wrong
4.) both are ok and just kids being kids
5.) other