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  • both are wrong

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  • both are ok, just kids being kid

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    Re: Sex Double Standards: Right or Wrong

    Quote Originally Posted by 1069 View Post
    Well, I'm glad this was a positive experience for you.

    I don't think I would've been ready to have sex at that age (but I was not really even beginning puberty at eleven; I was a late bloomer).
    A couple of years later, I was definitely ready, and just looking for the right guy.
    I lost my virginity at 14, and I got pregnant almost immediately, and was 15 when my oldest child was born.

    In retrospect, it all seems really fast, although of course a kid-year is like a dog-year... it seems about as long as seven regular years.

    I'm glad you didn't end up becoming a father at twelve.
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    although i was a dad young at 19 1/2 but thats a long story also that i wil tell in a minute.
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    In the other thread i admitted starting to masturbate at like 9 or 10, 4th or 5th grade but without being graphic I also remember that while i achieved orgasm I was so young i still shot blanks, no ejaculation, and around when I was 11 and me and that girl were fooling around the ejaculate was very clear, now that does NOT mean it was free of swimmers because i learned thats not the case but at my age it probably was.

    But overall like ou said the experience wasnt scarring or anything.

    now on to my young father hood, I had a girlfriend who lied to me about her birth control. I wanted her to be on the shot and she said she would and told me she was but found out she was only only the pill and she stopped takin them on purpose to get pregnant.

    Oh well things happen,

    Now im a single father with full custody and my daughter is doing great. Sometimes im verry happy about our ages because im not so out of touch with her world and reality.
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    Re: Sex Double Standards: Right or Wrong

    Seems like a lot of single dads on this board.
    Not too many single moms.
    Maybe most single moms can't afford internet, or don't have the leisure time to post on forums.

    Anyway, I'm glad your daughter is doing well. Young parenthood has its advantages and drawbacks.

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    Re: Sex Double Standards: Right or Wrong

    Quote Originally Posted by 1069 View Post
    Seems like a lot of single dads on this board.
    Not too many single moms.
    Maybe most single moms can't afford internet, or don't have the leisure time to post on forums.

    Anyway, I'm glad your daughter is doing well. Young parenthood has its advantages and drawbacks.
    Thanks!
    and i dont know how it works everywhere but when i didnt have full custody free internet was provided to her mom along with my child support, i get neither :/
    But im fine with that it is what it is, I dont qualify for help cause of my job, which is fine and she doesnt pay child support because shes a degenerate, a dead beat mom lol
    nor has she even spoke to her daughter since nov 20th 2005 but again a diffident topic
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    Re: Sex Double Standards: Right or Wrong

    I agree its other has some have said because I just feel its too open of a subject to just say its wrong. Same reason why i just cant say its right either.
    Kids will be kids but each situation is different.
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    Re: Sex Double Standards: Right or Wrong

    Voted other.

    It depends on the maturity of those involved.
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    Re: Sex Double Standards: Right or Wrong

    I dont think those of who are above the legal age of sex consent should have sex with those who are not. Children may be sexually mature before the age of consent, but they are not emotionally and mentally mature. An adult should find another adult to have sex with, even if the child wants it.

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    Re: Sex Double Standards: Right or Wrong

    Quote Originally Posted by Mell View Post
    I dont think those of who are above the legal age of sex consent should have sex with those who are not. Children may be sexually mature before the age of consent, but they are not emotionally and mentally mature. An adult should find another adult to have sex with, even if the child wants it.
    I agree in theory but what makes it hard is the grey are at the age of consent, for example if its 16 and the people involved are 16 and 15, then what? but thats just on an opinion level.

    If we get into the law, the law is TOTALLY messed up in this regard, for example a 17yr old girl and 17yr old boy sending pictures to eachother can get busted for child pornography and have to register has "sex offenders" give me a break! the law definitely needs lots of work in this area.
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    Re: Sex Double Standards: Right or Wrong

    I said other. Depends on the kids involved. Gender is irrelevant to me, however.

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    Re: Sex Double Standards: Right or Wrong

    Quote Originally Posted by Centrist77 View Post
    I agree in theory but what makes it hard is the grey are at the age of consent, for example if its 16 and the people involved are 16 and 15, then what? but thats just on an opinion level.

    If we get into the law, the law is TOTALLY messed up in this regard, for example a 17yr old girl and 17yr old boy sending pictures to eachother can get busted for child pornography and have to register has "sex offenders" give me a break! the law definitely needs lots of work in this area.
    I think, in these kinds of cases, they should be sent to classes on the law, to teach them what is an offence. But, I dont think official criminal charges should be made against them. I certainly dont think they should be registered as sex offenders. This is way too harsh, for kids that age.

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    Re: Sex Double Standards: Right or Wrong

    Quote Originally Posted by Centrist77 View Post
    I agree in theory but what makes it hard is the grey are at the age of consent, for example if its 16 and the people involved are 16 and 15, then what? but thats just on an opinion level.

    If we get into the law, the law is TOTALLY messed up in this regard, for example a 17yr old girl and 17yr old boy sending pictures to eachother can get busted for child pornography and have to register has "sex offenders" give me a break! the law definitely needs lots of work in this area.
    Really? Wow, I don't think a minor doing something with another minor when they are close in age like that should be illegal. No way should they be sex offenders for something like that.

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