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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    full sex talk? once they hit puberty
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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by FluffyNinja View Post
    You know,my wife and I are seriously considering the Guardacil Vaccine. I'm glad you brought it up. Do you know anyone who has gotten the vaccination for a daughter?
    My niece is that age, I'm not sure if my sis got her the vaccination or not, but I will ask.
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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by Blackdog View Post
    This was my initial response. Nothing about when to start talking or making laws restricting anything. My point was why restrict the age.



    This is what you responded with. Had little to do with my comment and it was an attack at nothing I said or implied.

    The others who have said damn near the same thing I did get an " Oh thank you" while I get "Uhm? how would you know when the child is ready if you dont start talks?" Which had nothing at all to do with my comment.



    Yes it was very easy.



    No you assumed that. Nothing in my initial statement has anything as I have shown to do with it.



    Well you asked me LATER directly and I told you. You then attacked that as well.



    My initial statement and the first responce did not imply anything like that.



    So what? It shows I did a relatively good job of raising my daughter. For you to then say I was naive made it part of the reply.



    The only one with egg is you.
    LMAO thats a nice piece of fantasy you just wrote mr sensitive but the fact remains to people that understand english, you in fact implied that all children will ask, even OTHER posters thgought the same. Iits all here in black and white and i qouted you LMAO

    and just because you didnt mean to say that, its is not my fault you mis spoke.
    Also since that is in fact what you implied (whether you meant to or not) you being succesful at rasiing your daughter is totally irralvant and has no bearing on whether kids will ask
    so again wipe the egg off your face and move on or admit you mispoke like a man, no need to aruge against facts because it just puts more egg on your face.
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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by Centrist77 View Post
    LMAO thats a nice piece of fantasy you just wrote mr sensitive but the fact remains to people that understand english, you in fact implied that all children will ask, even OTHER posters thgought the same. Iits all here in black and white and i qouted you LMAO

    and just because you didnt mean to say that, its is not my fault you mis spoke.
    Also since that is in fact what you implied (whether you meant to or not) you being succesful at rasiing your daughter is totally irralvant and has no bearing on whether kids will ask
    so again wipe the egg off your face and move on or admit you mispoke like a man, no need to aruge against facts because it just puts more egg on your face.
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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by Blackdog View Post
    Hey it's cool. We know you for what you are.

    Have a good night and God bless.

    You need it.
    "we" LMAO
    to bad the evidence is right here for all to see
    tell your self what every you need to sleep easy
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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    I never got the sex talk from my parents. They saw that in 5th grade they were giving us sex ed, and trusted the school to tell me all that I needed. And let me tell you that wasn't a good idea. I never heard the word condom, or birth control, and I remember I asked what viagra was, and the teacher wouldn't tell me. It was pretty bad. This was back in 2001 so I don't know what sex ed is like now, hopefully its better. But I wouldn't trust the school to do everything for you. It seems like you got the right gameplan though, just give her all the information she wants, and try not to act uncomfortable about it. I also think it's good the way you are treating gays, and lesbians, even if she isn't gay it will teach her to be more tolerant of others.

    One suggestion I do have though, it probably isn't age appropriate now, but maybe when she is 16,17 make sure she nows how to properly apply a condom. It may be extremely uncomfortable but it isn't something that the boys just need to know. And it could save her an unwanted pregnancy, and/or an STI.

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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by Blackdog View Post
    Because my daughter asked me. The child will let you know when they are ready because they will ask.

    Also was a teacher at the YMCA after school. Believe me, if the child is a normal kid you or the wife will be asked in no uncertain terms when they want to know.
    Asking what? How babies are born? I had been asking that since I was, like, 5. I'm a curious person.
    Can't think of any other question I would've asked that would have instigated it.

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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by Your Star View Post
    I never got the sex talk from my parents. They saw that in 5th grade they were giving us sex ed, and trusted the school to tell me all that I needed. And let me tell you that wasn't a good idea. I never heard the word condom, or birth control, and I remember I asked what viagra was, and the teacher wouldn't tell me. It was pretty bad. This was back in 2001 so I don't know what sex ed is like now, hopefully its better. But I wouldn't trust the school to do everything for you. It seems like you got the right gameplan though, just give her all the information she wants, and try not to act uncomfortable about it. I also think it's good the way you are treating gays, and lesbians, even if she isn't gay it will teach her to be more tolerant of others.

    One suggestion I do have though, it probably isn't age appropriate now, but maybe when she is 16,17 make sure she nows how to properly apply a condom. It may be extremely uncomfortable but it isn't something that the boys just need to know. And it could save her an unwanted pregnancy, and/or an STI.
    I didn't know what a condom was unitl I was 14. Viagra, I would assume around the same age.
    It wasn't part of the course before then, but I'm pretty sure they would have been required to answer had someone asked.

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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dav View Post
    Asking what? How babies are born? I had been asking that since I was, like, 5. I'm a curious person.
    Can't think of any other question I would've asked that would have instigated it.
    Yep that was the beginning. No stork or any nonsense like that.

    People seem way to uptight about sex. I mean if kids are watch "Animal Planet" and "Discovery" they know what reproduction is. We just had to fill in the moral aspects and explain the repercussions etc.

    Don't remember what age it was? Maybe 4th or 5th grade?
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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by Blackdog View Post
    Yep that was the beginning. No stork or any nonsense like that.

    People seem way to uptight about sex. I mean if kids are watch "Animal Planet" and "Discovery" they know what reproduction is. We just had to fill in the moral aspects and explain the repercussions etc.
    I don't think asking about that is a good measure of whether or not they are ready, though. Like I said, I'm a curious person, I wouldn't be surprised if I had been asking how babies are born even at 3 or 4 years. There's no way I would have even understood what was being said at that point.

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