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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by reefedjib View Post
    I was hoping for an index. I went crazy in college too. Actually, I went crazy in the Army and that carried over to college. I used to invite girls to my room in the middle of the day by offering cookies. I met a lot of great girls that way. Nothing like afternoon sex.
    To tie this back to the thread, I did pay a consequence for being such a whore. I contracted crabs, Chlamydia, ultimately genital warts. Crabs sucked, but a little shampoo does the trick. Chlamydia takes some penicillin.

    Genital warts, on the other hand is with you for life. It is caused by the HPV virus, which is quite common out there. I am a very moral person. I will not be an active participant in spreading disease. Therefore, since age 25, I have had sex exactly zero times. I tried raising the issue with dates, but that was not very pleasant and I had the darnedest time finding someone who already had warts. No warts dating site out there, unfortunately. I have thought about making an internet million with the idea but I can't find any backers. I eventually stopped trying and stopped asking girls out around 27. Now I am 42 and Diabetes brings its own challenges.

    As good as it feels, advise your daughter to think twice about being loose and always use a condom.

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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by rivrrat View Post
    Don't really remember my mom or dad talking to me about sex, actually. But, I did get a talking to after they found out I was sexually active. Also immediately got put on the pill and given condoms.

    My dad liked to think he knew every move my sister and I made (in fact, he'll still make this claim from time to time). But she and I know better. My mother and father were both pretty ****ing clueless about what we were doing. Not that they didn't try. But if your kids want to have sex... they're gonna. Best to make sure they have knowledge and means to do it safely.


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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by Catz Part Deux View Post
    What I've found with my daughter is that if you create some openness and safety there, and you cultivate a good poker face, she will ask you questions and feel comfortable doing it, and if she realizes that you will just give her the facts, no nonsense, and then tell her what you hope her choices will be, but not be super preachy or judgey. And definitely don't act super embarrassed or freaked out. Just give her the facts, tell her what you hope her choices will be, and then let her process that. Handling it like that, in my opinion, will create many opportunities for a conversation that goes on for years. So far, this has worked with my daughter, who tells me (occasionally) more than I want to hear, but that is definitely better than the other scenario.



    i know what you mean as i already get this is just hasnt been about sex yet but your right its better than the other
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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by jujuman13 View Post
    Seriously though as soon as she expresses an interest in Boys it is time to have that talk.
    It is not age dependent, it is the maturity of the child.
    You should answer any question she may have honestly and in a factual manner, if you act embarrassed over any of her questions she will get the impression that it is shameful and something to be embarrassed about.
    None the less I wish you good luck.
    Personally I had a Boy and when the time came to sit down with him to discuss sex, i found he had a greater knowledge than did I, which thoroughly discomforted myself and my wife.
    However I do acknowledge that it is different for a girl.
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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by reefedjib View Post
    To tie this back to the thread, I did pay a consequence for being such a whore. I contracted crabs, Chlamydia, ultimately genital warts. Crabs sucked, but a little shampoo does the trick. Chlamydia takes some penicillin.

    Genital warts, on the other hand is with you for life. It is caused by the HPV virus, which is quite common out there. I am a very moral person. I will not be an active participant in spreading disease. Therefore, since age 25, I have had sex exactly zero times. I tried raising the issue with dates, but that was not very pleasant and I had the darnedest time finding someone who already had warts. No warts dating site out there, unfortunately. I have thought about making an internet million with the idea but I can't find any backers. I eventually stopped trying and stopped asking girls out around 27. Now I am 42 and Diabetes brings its own challenges.
    Dang. Can't you get them removed or something?

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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by 1069 View Post
    Dang. Can't you get them removed or something?
    Yes, you can get them removed, but that doesn't mean your body is rid of the virus. However, HPV isn't necessarily with you for life, your body can get rid of it. (and frequently does) There is just no "cure", it's just up to whether or not your body manages to get rid of the virus.

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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by rivrrat View Post
    Yes, you can get them removed, but that doesn't mean your body is rid of the virus. However, HPV isn't necessarily with you for life, your body can get rid of it. (and frequently does) There is just no "cure", it's just up to whether or not your body manages to get rid of the virus.
    I think i will let my 12-year-old daughter read Reefedjib's post and these last few and I think she'll probably NEVER even think about having sex!! :P
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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by FluffyNinja View Post
    I think i will let my 12-year-old daughter read Reefedjib's post and these last few and I think she'll probably NEVER even think about having sex!! :P
    Well over half of the sexually active people get one of the 100 strains of HPV in their lifetime. Most often, the virus is gone in 1 - 2 years. And, there's a vaccine now for the most common strains linked to cervical cancer. Highly recommended for girls your daughter's age.

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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by rivrrat View Post
    Well over half of the sexually active people get one of the 100 strains of HPV in their lifetime. Most often, the virus is gone in 1 - 2 years. And, there's a vaccine now for the most common strains linked to cervical cancer. Highly recommended for girls your daughter's age.
    You know,my wife and I are seriously considering the Guardacil Vaccine. I'm glad you brought it up. Do you know anyone who has gotten the vaccination for a daughter?
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    Re: What is a good age to have the FULL sex talk?

    Quote Originally Posted by Blackdog View Post
    I voted other. When the child is ready. We all mature at different rates, why be restricted?
    This was my initial response. Nothing about when to start talking or making laws restricting anything. My point was why restrict the age.

    Quote Originally Posted by Centrist77 View Post
    Uhm? how would you know when the child is ready if you dont start talks?
    also im not trying to restrict anything or make a law lol just want to know peoples opinions
    This is what you responded with. Had little to do with my comment and it was an attack at nothing I said or implied.

    The others who have said damn near the same thing I did get an " Oh thank you" while I get "Uhm? how would you know when the child is ready if you dont start talks?" Which had nothing at all to do with my comment.

    Quote Originally Posted by Centrist77 View Post
    attack? lol you are so sensitive
    point it out? thats easy. too easy
    Yes it was very easy.

    Quote Originally Posted by Centrist77 View Post
    you said you answered other because they will ask when they are ready
    No you assumed that. Nothing in my initial statement has anything as I have shown to do with it.

    Quote Originally Posted by Centrist77 View Post
    i asked how will you know whan a child is read
    you said "Because my daughter asked me. The child will let you know when they are ready because they will ask."
    Well you asked me LATER directly and I told you. You then attacked that as well.

    Quote Originally Posted by Centrist77 View Post
    if that is not implying that all kids will ask then you should have said it differently, since my question was about kids in general LOL
    My initial statement and the first responce did not imply anything like that.

    Quote Originally Posted by Centrist77 View Post
    sure did but i didnt ask you how your kids turned out so you repeating my daughter is this or tthat or my daughter is fine etc has no barring on whether a child will ask their parents which is what i was disputing.
    So what? It shows I did a relatively good job of raising my daughter. For you to then say I was naive made it part of the reply.

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