View Poll Results: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

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  • Of course it is

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  • Only if it culminates in orgasm

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  • It is not sex

    15 18.52%
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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    "Honey, I SWEAR I did NOT have sex with your sister! We were only taking a shower together! I promise!"

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Catz Part Deux View Post
    It's not always me being unsatisfied. It's an even 50/50, I'd say. And those are just the quickies.
    You may as well stop trying to explain yourself. Most young people think their's and everyone's sex lives should be like a porn flick from now until the day they die at about 95 years of age.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by PonyBoy View Post
    Herpes is a confusing STD and that's why we have such a rampant spread of Herpes HSV 1 and 2.

    Most of the people on this board have Herpes 1. Some may show symptoms and others may not. A symptom of Herpes 1 is a cold sore/fever blister on your lip. The cause of Herpes 1 is still unknown. Most people are born with it and others catch it from their partner.

    When a male partner has Herpes 1(cold sore) it can easily be transmitted into Herpes 2 if oral sex is involved. If a male with a cold sore performs oral sex on his female partner then that will infect her with Herpes HSV 2 which is the one you don't want. tTere's no cure for Herpes 1 or 2 but it can be treated with medications.

    If a male who was Herpes free has sex with his Herpes 2 infected female partner then he would most likely be infected with Herpes 2 himself.

    If a female has Herpes 1 (cold sore) and performs oral sex on her male partner then he would most likely be infected with Herpes 2. When Herpes 1 contacts the male or females genitals it will then turn into Herpes 2.

    Chances are you already have the Herpes virus in you but it's yet to show signs or symptoms(cold sores). As soon as a cold sore forms you should immediately take care of it with over the counter medications(lip balm). The lip balm will shorten the span of the cold sore. If you touch the cold sore you need to wash your hands often and thoroughly. If you rub your eyes it can infect your cornea which would involve a painful surgery, and you do not want that cold sore to spread to your eyes. The surgery is painful and it's a bitch to cure. If a cold sore should take place on the lips you must baby it and treat it until the infection disappears.

    They have now linked Parkinson disease with the herpes virus.

    The Herpes virus is rampant because most people are unaware they have it and are ill informed on how to treat it.

    Bad news- Chances are you currently have it or are going to be infected with either Herpes 1 or 2 in your lifetime. You me and everyone on this board.

    Good news- It's not a life threatening disease but it is an annoyance when it spreads to the genital area(Herpes HSV 2)

    Btw: Condemns are useless in protecting the male from Herpes HSV 2. The Herpes will still infect the skin area around the condemn.
    Okay so I have HSV1, was born with it. Got medication and the whole deal. You say I can spread it by kissing or transmit HSV2 through oral sex?

    What if I show absolutely no symptoms? There are months of dormancy in between outbreaks. And believe me, I know when I have a cold sore - it's painful.


    Btw: Condemns are useless in protecting the male from Herpes HSV 2. The Herpes will still infect the skin area around the condemn.
    Lol, a condemn. Condoms don't always condemn you!
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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Flea View Post
    What?



    oral sex still presents most of the same dynamics as intercourse; It is sex.

    and now you qualify that with

    If it doesn't get you in trouble, it isn't sex.

    And

    If your partner is not bothered by you giving someone else a bj or hj, it isn't sex.

    Seems TOTALLY CONTRADICTORY!

    So, oral sex is sex unless your partner is not bothered by oral sex, then it isn't sex? uh-wha-wha-what?
    Flea, my friend...please, engage your sense of humor while participating in this thread.

    Everyone,

    What have we learned here? We've hopefully learned sex is subjective and it doesn't matter what any of us thinks regarding the matter of what constitutes "sex". Hence, the narcissism I spoke of. None of our opinions matter to how any one person views the wonderful world of oral sex.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sanitas View Post
    Okay so I have HSV1, was born with it. Got medication and the whole deal. You say I can spread it by kissing or transmit HSV2 through oral sex?

    What if I show absolutely no symptoms? There are months of dormancy in between outbreaks. And believe me, I know when I have a cold sore - it's painful.


    No.
    It's possible, but rare, to get HSV1 on your genitals.
    You should avoid performing oral sex on others while having an active outbreak of HSV1.
    You should also avoid touching your cold sore, then touching your genitals.
    Always wash your hands after touching a cold sore, applying medicine to it, whatever.
    Rarely, you could also spread it to your eyes, causing serious problems, so that's another good reason to wash your hands a lot while having an active cold sore outbreak.

    But HSV1 is not going to turn into HSV2, or vice versa; they're two different strains.
    It is possible to get HSV2 in your throat from performing oral sex on someone who has that strain of the virus. Possible, but rare, one would think; I've never personally heard of a case of it.

    I actually had a monstrous cold sore outbreak right before my wedding party; I posted a picture of it here, in the Tavern, at the time.
    I totally didn't want to go, but I didn't have a choice. My dad threw me a huge party, invited 200 people.
    I was like, can I just wear a paper bag over my head?
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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Flea View Post
    Thank goodness! Well, I was just driving up a road one time exploring to find a new mountain bike trail and this freak appears in the road suddenly with his shotgun and starts making this really slow waving "get your trespassin self" out of here gesture. I had to make this akward three point turn on a narrow road while he is just standing there calmly staring with these hateful dead-like eyes. It was creepy. I stay off of random dirt roads now.
    Well then you can't be so bad afterall if you trail ride/mt bike. Good going, man.

    Boy! I'll take the rattle snakes and ticks we run into on our trails any day over those goofy weirdos you guys have in the east!!!

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Telecaster View Post
    Flea, my friend...please, engage your sense of humor while participating in this thread.

    Everyone,

    What have we learned here? We've hopefully learned sex is subjective and it doesn't matter what any of us thinks regarding the matter of what constitutes "sex". Hence, the narcissism I spoke of. None of our opinions matter to how any one person views the wonderful world of oral sex.
    I might be funny, but at the same time logical. You contradicted yourself and at the same time devalued my input. Seems like senility might be catching up with you, old timer.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Telecaster View Post
    Well then you can't be so bad afterall if you trail ride/mt bike. Good going, man.

    Boy! I'll take the rattle snakes and ticks we run into on our trails any day over those goofy weirdos you guys have in the east!!!
    I live in Newport Beach in Orange County, CA. Is that east of you? Do you live in Japan?

    Mountain biking here is great. Hiking and rock climbing too.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Flea View Post
    I might be funny, but at the same time logical. You contradicted yourself and at the same time devalued my input. Seems like senility might be catching up with you, old timer.
    You similarly devalue everybody else's input by stating categorically, "Oral sex is sex."

    Apparently, some would disagree, and have said so on this thread.

    Clearly, the matter is subjective.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by 1069 View Post
    You similarly devalue everybody else's input by stating categorically, "Oral sex is sex."

    Apparently, some would disagree, and have said so on this thread.

    Clearly, the matter is subjective.
    I have been stating the esact opposite. Oral sex IS NOT sex. It is a sexual ACT.

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