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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by molten_dragon View Post
    I'm not sure, it just doesn't connect that way in my mind. When I think of 'sex' I think of vaginal or anal penetration, but not oral sex.

    Let me ask this question. For those of you who do think oral is 'sex' what about a handjob?
    Maybe I will revise my belief on this subject a bit. I'll put it this way...

    1. If it doesn't get you in trouble, it isn't sex. If your partner is not bothered by you giving someone else a bj or hj, it isn't sex.

    2. If your sexual input of any kind, up to intercourse, gives the other person no pleasure whatsoever, it is not sex.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Catz Part Deux View Post
    It's not always me being unsatisfied. It's an even 50/50, I'd say. And those are just the quickies.
    I'm really surprised, Catz. I just never pictured you as someone who would be happy with that.


    Hell, I'm into quickies just as much as anybody. We had one this morning but I go into it with the full expectation that we're both going to walk away satisfied.


    You are blowing my mind.



    I would chat with her when I'm feeling particularly snarky, but I wouldn't ever call her on the phone.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Nah, it doesn't bother me. We have sex ALOT. And I'm satisfied about 90% of the time. Just sometimes it isn't possible, for whatever reason. And we take turns. For instance, I've been known to give him road head on trips. Full-blown sex just wouldn't work.
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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Catz Part Deux View Post
    Nah, it doesn't bother me. We have sex ALOT. And I'm satisfied about 90% of the time. Just sometimes it isn't possible, for whatever reason. And we take turns. For instance, I've been known to give him road head on trips. Full-blown sex just wouldn't work.


    Better yet to find the little dirt road that leads to a wooded area.



    I would chat with her when I'm feeling particularly snarky, but I wouldn't ever call her on the phone.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Telecaster View Post
    Maybe I will revise my belief on this subject a bit. I'll put it this way...

    1. If it doesn't get you in trouble, it isn't sex. If your partner is not bothered by you giving someone else a bj or hj, it isn't sex.

    2. If your sexual input of any kind, up to intercourse, gives the other person no pleasure whatsoever, it is not sex.
    What?

    Originally Posted by Telecaster
    Such a distinction is just silly. I can accept that a generation wants to revise the definition of a word. But oral sex still presents most of the same dynamics as intercourse;
    Both the giver and receiver gain physical and emotional sexual pleasure.
    It is sex.
    oral sex still presents most of the same dynamics as intercourse; It is sex.

    and now you qualify that with

    If it doesn't get you in trouble, it isn't sex.

    And

    If your partner is not bothered by you giving someone else a bj or hj, it isn't sex.

    Seems TOTALLY CONTRADICTORY!

    So, oral sex is sex unless your partner is not bothered by oral sex, then it isn't sex? uh-wha-wha-what?

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by missypea View Post
    Better yet to find the little dirt road that leads to a wooded area.

    And Billy-Bob the toothless git and his pet goat come walking up the road with a loaded shotgun and tell you to squeal like a pig.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Flea View Post
    And Billy-Bob the toothless git and his pet goat come walking up the road with a loaded shotgun and tell you to squeal like a pig.

    Hehe, we've had some close calls but nothing like that.


    Thank God.


    I would chat with her when I'm feeling particularly snarky, but I wouldn't ever call her on the phone.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by missypea View Post
    Hehe, we've had some close calls but nothing like that.


    Thank God.
    Thank goodness! Well, I was just driving up a road one time exploring to find a new mountain bike trail and this freak appears in the road suddenly with his shotgun and starts making this really slow waving "get your trespassin self" out of here gesture. I had to make this akward three point turn on a narrow road while he is just standing there calmly staring with these hateful dead-like eyes. It was creepy. I stay off of random dirt roads now.
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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Flea View Post
    I don't remember my sex ed very well, can you get pregnant during oral sex?
    Ohhh, wiseguy, eh?!

    Is this personal experience? Also, holding hands with a strange woman, interlacing you fingers and giving each other googly eyes will probably give your wife/girlfriend pain and anger as well, is hand holding sex then, by your definition?
    The subject regarded oral sex. I later included handjobs when someone brought it up. No...hand holding and google eyes do not qualify. Qualifying points can have varying application.

    It is a sex "act", not "sex".. A distinction is not necassary, a distinction just is. Sorry, that is how I, and most people that I know seems to view it, same as the definition that I just provided.
    That is correct. A distinction IS. And if you look at your definition, you will notice it is a distinction.

    It is a shame that you hold such a disrespectful view on the issue and about people's views on this site.
    I know...I just go through life stomping on people's hearts and grinding them into the ground. I'm bad that way.


    I really gotta work on that some day.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Telecaster View Post
    Ohhh, wiseguy, eh?!
    You have no idea. But my point is relevant anyway. You said that they are essentially the same, and then listed a couple of reasons why they are the same. Well, you can't get pregnant during oral sex, and that is a MAJOR distinction that you left out. It should not be left out, since it matters a whole hell of a lot.

    The subject regarded oral sex. I later included handjobs when someone brought it up. No...hand holding and google eyes do not qualify. Qualifying points can have varying application.
    Handjobs are just hand holding substituting one hand. What the hell is the difference. A person can get sexual pleasure from hand holding, or nipple grazing. Genitals are not mandatory.

    I know...I just go through life stomping on people's hearts and grinding them into the ground. I'm bad that way.


    I really gotta work on that some day.
    You should. I felt so utterly humiliated.

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