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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Flea View Post
    It is a sexual act, but it is not sex, as most people use the term meaning inercourse. 23 people think that a blowjob is the same as intercourse? Some naive people out there.
    Such a distinction is just silly. I can accept that a generation wants to revise the definition of a word. But oral sex still presents most of the same dynamics as intercourse;
    Both the giver and receiver gain physical and emotional sexual pleasure.
    STDs can still be transmitted.
    Only performing fully dressed oral sex on a stranger or friend does not dissuade the anger and pain experienced by your wife-girlfriend/husband-boyfriend whom you cheat on while performing the supposed "non-sex" act.

    It is sex. I think the "naive" comes in by thinking such a distinction matters or is necessary. Is the purpose of such an idea to avoid guilt? Or set a legal precedence? The idea is just dumb.
    Last edited by Telecaster; 04-10-10 at 11:40 AM.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by 1069 View Post
    Oral sex involves neither.
    Only if you're DOING IT WRONG.

    I can't speak for anyone else, but i don't expect to be fully satisfied every time I have sex. It turns me on to satisfy my partner. If someone is having an orgasm, even if it is only one of the partners, it's sex. I rarely do this without being naked, but if my partner and I are using our hands to stimulate each other to climax, it's still sex.
    Last edited by Catz Part Deux; 04-10-10 at 11:45 AM.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by MyOwnDrum View Post

    Apparently, most young adults don't think oral sex is actually 'sex'. What do you think?

    Yeah, I think oral sex is sex. I really don't understand how it wouldn't be sex.



    I would chat with her when I'm feeling particularly snarky, but I wouldn't ever call her on the phone.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Telecaster View Post
    Such a distinction is just silly. I can accept that a generation wants to revise the definition of a word. But oral sex still presents most of the same dynamics as intercourse;
    Both the giver and receiver gain physical and emotional sexual pleasure.
    STDs can still be transmitted.
    I don't remember my sex ed very well, can you get pregnant during oral sex?


    Only performing fully dressed oral sex on a stranger or friend does not dissuade the anger and pain experienced by your wife-girlfriend/husband-boyfriend whom you cheat on while performing the supposed "non-sex" act.
    Is this personal experience? Also, holding hands with a strange woman, interlacing you fingers and giving each other googly eyes will probably give your wife/girlfriend pain and anger as well, is hand holding sex then, by your definition?

    It is sex. I think the "naive" comes in by thinking such a distinction matters or is necessary. Is the purpose of such an idea to avoid guilt? Or set a legal precedence?
    It is a sex "act", not "sex".. A distinction is not necassary, a distinction just is. Sorry, that is how I, and most people that I know seems to view it, same as the definition that I just provided.

    The idea is just dumb.
    It is a shame that you hold such a disrespectful view on the issue and about people's views on this site.
    Last edited by Flea; 04-10-10 at 11:58 AM.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Catz Part Deux View Post

    I can't speak for anyone else, but i don't expect to be fully satisfied every time I have sex.

    Are you nutz, lady?




    I would chat with her when I'm feeling particularly snarky, but I wouldn't ever call her on the phone.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    It is in my world.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by missypea View Post
    Are you nutz, lady?



    Nah, just realistic. You know how daily circumstances can intrude. We both have busy schedules, I have two kids, we're both over 40. Expecting fullblown fireworks every single time is pretty unlikely. But there's plenty of reciprocity.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by spud_meister View Post
    and you're a narcissistic old fart with no knowledge of the youth
    What...am I supposed to take Youth Studies in college? Having two kids, 31 and 21, coming to know their friends, and best of all, paying attention to modern pop-culture in its many ever-changing forms does much to help one gain knowledge of youth.

    (don't take this personal if you were just sh_ _'n with me. either way I thank you for giving me the opportunity to spout these pearls of wisdom out my ass)

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Catz Part Deux View Post
    Nah, just realistic. You know how daily circumstances can intrude. We both have busy schedules, I have two kids, we're both over 40. Expecting fullblown fireworks every single time is pretty unlikely. But there's plenty of reciprocity.




    My expectation to be unsatisfied is once a year.....after his return from a hunting trip.


    If you're ok with that it's your life but it's not something that would fit into my world.




    I would chat with her when I'm feeling particularly snarky, but I wouldn't ever call her on the phone.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by missypea View Post
    My expectation to be unsatisfied is once a year.....after his return from a hunting trip.

    If you're ok with that it's your life but it's not something that would fit into my world.

    It's not always me being unsatisfied. It's an even 50/50, I'd say. And those are just the quickies.

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