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  • Only if it culminates in orgasm

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Goshin View Post
    Hm. I'm not getting the fine distinctions being made here.

    Oral sex involves the genitals (whoever's genitals, or both), and a partner. Therefore it is sex.
    thats my view too
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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by 1069 View Post
    It was suggested earlier in the thread that sex involved mutual nakedness and mutual attempts to give pleasure to one's partner.
    Oral sex involves neither.
    anal sex can involve neither as well
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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by spud_meister View Post
    thats my view too
    Maybe that's because your perspective has typically been from the receiving end, ie the side that gets naked and has an orgasm.
    You might feel differently if you were the one giving the blowjob.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by 1069 View Post
    Maybe that's because your perspective has typically been from the receiving end, ie the side that gets naked and has an orgasm.
    You might feel differently if you were the one giving the blowjob.
    i've given oral sex to girlfriends plenty of times, so im not unfamiliar with not orgasiming whilst performing a sex act
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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by 1069 View Post
    It was suggested earlier in the thread that sex involved mutual nakedness and mutual attempts to give pleasure to one's partner.
    Oral sex involves neither.
    You can easily have genital to genital sex without disrobing. You've never had a quickie over the kitchen counter?

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by MyOwnDrum View Post
    Here's the article:
    Most Young Adults: Oral Sex Is Not Sex - CBS News

    Apparently, most young adults don't think oral sex is actually 'sex'. What do you think?
    It sure is sex when I engage in it!

    But I wouldn't ask "most young adults". What do they know?!!? They make up the most foolish and narcissistic generations known to man! They come up with this bonehead opinion because they can't see the world beyond their own personal desires.

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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by Telecaster View Post
    It sure is sex when I engage in it!

    But I wouldn't ask "most young adults". What do they know?!!? They make up the most foolish and narcissistic generations known to man! They come up with this bonehead opinion because they can't see the world beyond their own personal desires.
    and you're a narcissistic old fart with no knowledge of the youth
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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by spud_meister View Post
    why do you link it to anal but not oral sex?
    I'm not sure, it just doesn't connect that way in my mind. When I think of 'sex' I think of vaginal or anal penetration, but not oral sex.

    Let me ask this question. For those of you who do think oral is 'sex' what about a handjob?
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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by molten_dragon View Post
    I'm not sure, it just doesn't connect that way in my mind. When I think of 'sex' I think of vaginal or anal penetration, but not oral sex.

    Let me ask this question. For those of you who do think oral is 'sex' what about a handjob?
    i'd class it as a sex act, but not "sex" in the same class as a blowjob, as there is no actual penetration of a body orifice, which is my loose definition of sex
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    Re: Is Oral Sex 'Sex'?

    Quote Originally Posted by spud_meister View Post
    but does it say specifically penis-vaginal intercourse, no, it says sex, which alludes to all sex acts.
    It asks of "oral sex" is considered "sex". It says nothing of "just "sex".

    Nowhere here does it talk about oral sex as sex. When most people talk, and your friend says, "we had sex", the follow up response is, "you slept together?" or "you ****ed?" or "did you use protection" to clear up any confusion over just oral sex or the like.

    sex   /sɛks/ Show Spelled[seks] Show IPA
    –noun
    1.either the male or female division of a species, esp. as differentiated with reference to the reproductive functions.
    2.the sum of the structural and functional differences by which the male and female are distinguished, or the phenomena or behavior dependent on these differences.
    3.the instinct or attraction drawing one sex toward another, or its manifestation in life and conduct.
    4.coitus.
    5.genitalia.
    –verb (used with object)
    6.to ascertain the sex of, esp. of newly-hatched chicks.
    —Verb phrase
    7.sex up, Informal.
    a.to arouse sexually: The only intent of that show was to sex up the audience.
    b.to increase the appeal of; to make more interesting, attractive, or exciting: We've decided to sex up the movie with some battle scenes.
    —Idiom
    8.to have sex, to engage in sexual intercourse.

    http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/sex
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